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Small Pen*s Club - (males, females and non-binary welcome)

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by +TenPercent, Feb 3, 2021.

  1. My penis is 4.5” long when fully erect. Sometimes a bit shorter, never any longer.

    I find it helpful to acknowledge that this is significantly shorter than average, thus a small penis.

    My girth is average. I’m grateful for that :cool:
     
  2. Hey all …
    Good news - a group is coming soon.
    Two groups that I think would benefit me most: one for people who struggle with this issue (or body issues in general?) and a group for those of us who struggle with masturbation. M is my drug of choice. P is secondary. And I know that some people struggle with masturbation addiction, without having any issues with porn.
     
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  3. HealingBodyandMind

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    Have you ever talked to anyone who has a smaller one than this, like 2-3 inches long? And have you heard what they do about it

    I once heard a story from a girl who said a guy she met at a bar had a literal micro penis, like extremely small, and she didn’t have sex with him because of it

    I guess the next day he asked her “do you remember anything about last night” , and she said “no”

    This was a while back in college, the girl and guy were only around 22 years old
     
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  4. Interesting …
    She told him the next day that she didn’t remember anything about their night together. And yet she told you about it. She pretended to forget his micropenis so as not to hurt his feeling.

    I’ve had many similar experiences, especially around that age. A lot of one night stands that were going really good until my pants came down. :rolleyes:
     
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  5. HealingBodyandMind

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    Girls really cared that much? Even at 4.5 inches? It’s not too bad of a length, did they still have sex with you?

    why was it bad once the pants came down?
     
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  6. FormerLeatherneck

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    Things you never hear people say about penis's: "Good things come in small packages".
     
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  7. Not sure anyone has actually used that phrase aside from false "inspirational" videos.
     
  8. JustinX

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    if it bothers you so much why not to relocate to country where your 4.5 will make you above average and above the norm?
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  9. That's just the thing. A few had sex with me but didn't come back for seconds. More often though, I would think that we were going to go all the way but once they saw my penis they'd back off. Some would let me eat them out, others would say they want to kiss and make out, none would give me a blowjob. But most wouldn't say that it was because my penis was too small. They just weren't in the mood or didn't want to go that far.
     
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  10. Exactly. Rarely do you hear women say they'd prefer to date a guy with a little dick :rolleyes:
     
  11. That's not a bad idea.
    I confess, I have definitely had better luck with Asian women.
    But even then, I have experienced some rejection. I think most women expect more from a 6 foot tall caucasian man.
     
  12. Kn0wbie

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    If it helps buddy - I’m definitely on the large side and still haven’t had sex for about 5 years!! It really isn’t all about size! It’s a myth created by porn.
     
  13. @Recovery-is-life I hope you don’t mind, but I mentioned you on this thread to help you find it! :cool:
     
  14. Today I am recognizing how my size issue is very real (it is small. And it’s a very serious trigger that I need to recover from) but, because it’s a trigger - it can also be a gateway into “the bubble” (as they call it in SAA).

    It’s June, and I need to be looking into Step VI and VII - my character defects. Even if I am free of porn and almost free of masturbation (not really, haven’t done it but want to :rolleyes:), the addiction gets into my head. I get hooked on arousal and fantasy, then I’m not present for my girlfriend, I’m eager to have more “alone” time and I can lose hours lost in fantasy or seeking more of that arousal drug.
     
  15. Recovery-is-life

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    I was directed hear by the op thanks TenPercent
    So my issue is very much centred around something that happened when I was around 8 years old. A cousin who was about 14 abused me but also mocked me about the side of my d compared to his.
    No I am no fool I know a pre pubescent d is gonna be smaller that a guy that’s hit puberty. But that moment has caused me shame guilt and a whole lot of insecurity.
    I buried all this and have a lot of issues caused by this addiction problems to hide feelings and broken down relationships due to me lack of belief I could be enough.
    I am not small by statistics I am far from hung. My ex wife and my current girlfriend seem to be happy with what I have. And how I perform! In fact my new girlfriend seems to be supper happy and has said really complementary things. But I know I am not the biggest she had! And I know that shouldn’t matter as she is with me cares for me and wants to be with me.
    I am tall good ish looking for a good job well muscled low ish body fat. I am caring passionate Nan and value her sexual enjoyment as highly as my own. That and the effort I have put in to compensating for my preceived lack of size.
    Quite honestly this is driving me insane and destroying my self confidence and it will eventually destroy my new relationship. I have obsessively been measuring and willing it bigger! Hopping to find the magic cure remedy online! It’s literally insane and I can’t continue like this!!
     
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  16. Thanks 10%. I needed this.

    I looked online at a legit website like wend. Did a report on a study to find out what the average size is.

    Here is where you will feel better today after reading my post.

    They listed the percentiles of the group studied and their length. I found out that I am in the bottom 1% of penis size. So in the average room of 100 guys, I would be the shortest.

    My erect length is about 3.5" last I checked which was a year and a half ago before I went to permanent lockup in chastity.

    My flaccid length is debatable. Of you are measuring shaft then it's zero. When flaccid, my penis is fully retracted so only the little head is visible.

    So yes, it has caused problems in the past. But when I resigned myself to lock it away for good, it now feels ok because it's not able to do much. I would be such a disappointment to try to use it for anything sexual.
     
  17. Ndhlp

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    Normal size. Virgin girlfriend. Sometimes can't help but think about her being with a porn star sized man
     
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  18. Wow. No post since June!

    Update for me. 241 days without masturbating (unless edging is considered masturbating, then I'm on day 2, but I have not just "jerked off" and masturbated to orgasm since December last year).

    Had sex with my girlfriend recently. I came in about 5 seconds. Before we even really got started. Her disappointment was palpable. I felt awful. I have always been VERY aware of my small penis and try to make up with that with foreplay, and oral. But we went right into PIV and I immediately ejaculated. What a sad state it is to have such a small penis and premature ejaculation. :oops:

    Some people say size isn't everything. But intimacy is an important part of relationships, women do have sexual needs and man I feel like a real loser sometimes when our lovemaking only lasts few seconds.
     
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  19. HealingBodyandMind

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    My younger brother had sex last night for the first time in a while… I live with him as a roommate. He said he didn’t last very long so it wasn’t that great…

    I asked him “was it less than a minute?” … and he seemed sort of embarrassed and looked down at the ground and said “idk”
     
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  20. I've heard that its usually considered PE if it's less than two minutes.

    I can usually last maybe 2 - 3 minutes if I go slow, and can last longer if I take a break every couple of minutes to give oral and let it "cool off" but every once in a while I just totally blow it. My worst was cumming as soon as it was in. This last time was close to that. :oops:
     
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