Straight male, addicted to TS and pegging porn, and just seen an escort

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by 4yrsH9yrsP, Jun 23, 2020.

  1. 4yrsH9yrsP

    4yrsH9yrsP Fapstronaut

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    So, I have been addicted to this kind of porn for about 4 years now, 11 years of PMO in total. I have had several instances where I am with a female and I wasn't able to obtain a full erection or even sometimes not at all. I know I am straight, but I have indulged in a few shemale escorts, and unfortunately I did yesterday. I am curious if this is a rewiring problem or could this be permanent damage? I used to be able to get erections with straight normal porn and even with women. Will NoFap be able to beat this?
     
  2. 4yrsH9yrsP

    4yrsH9yrsP Fapstronaut

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    I don’t want to find pegging action. Please read my original post. I just wanna know if I can fix this
     
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  3. Indurian

    Indurian Fapstronaut

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    I don't know what pegging is but I think he said that because he was going to offer help
     
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  4. If you have time read this book about pmo you will find that after a full reboot which my take 6-9 month 1 year 2 years, you fetishes induced by porm will gradually disappear in fact you will be erect just seeing a women in her normal clothes, and your sexual orientations will return normal when get cured, and you will notice this the more you abstain the more you fetish will disappear, but keep in mind in your case it will take a very long time, most likely so you will have to get very knowledgeable about this, and know how to beat this addiction.

    I advise you to go hardmode, if you end up with 3 moths under your belt i would even suggest going monk mode where you are not allowed to fantasize in your case edging, or evem imagining will use the fetishes you got hooked on to creat a scenerio, this will slow your recovery, so stay from sex entirely even tho it might sound impossible, its very manageable, good luck man

    Read this book on porn
     

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  5. SynapticMagic

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    Stay strong, and keep pushing forward. The more you relapse, the longer it'll take to recover. With that said, you absolutely can recover. You will get through this with a normally functioning erection, and healthy, authentic attraction. Start training your mind to immediately go toward the thought of never having a healthy erection every time you think of porn. When you get an urge, take a moment to pause and think about not having a healthy erection. Soon, you'll begin to associate the desire for porn with the thought of not having a healthy erection. Every morning write a note to yourself in a journal, "Today I am choosing to not watch porn because I want healthy erections." It takes constant reminders to remember why you're doing this in moments of weakness.
     
  6. fedmom

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    No I wasn't trying to suggest this haha
     

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