What do Women Want?

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Deleted Account, Oct 29, 2017.

  1. I was listening to podcast and this was said:

    Girls want a nice guy, they want a guy who respect them, they also want a guy who stands up for himself and challenges them when necessary.

    Do you agree? Would also be interested in what women think about this?
     
  2. But some girls don't want nobody just wanna live life and some girls are very picky, to the point it's not worth it it's all depend on the girls.
     
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  3. HacKadi

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    What you describe its a contradiction. The hole definition of Nice Guys has changed in the past decades. Today a Nice Guy is friendzoned, please others instead of himself, looks for women validation, use manipulations to try to get what he wants since he doesnt has the gut to be straight forward with his needs and is passive-agressive since he avoids conflict.

    So no, women dont want a Nice Guy. A guy who respect her, but also respect and values HIMSELF? Sure.
     
  4. RecoveringFapaholic

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    I agree with @HacKadi on everything but the "pleases others instead of himself" part. Nice Guys don't please others, they flatter them. There's a big difference between the two.
     
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  5. Just b/c a guy is NICE doesn't make him a pussy. I know a few guys who are really nice but also ex-military, MMA and generally tough. Extremely polite and easy going but if you fuck with them...
     
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  6. RecoveringFapaholic

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    Of course you can be friendly and not be what is colloquially referred to as a "Nice Guy." The point is that many guys who bitch about not getting women because they are "Nice Guys" are assholes themselves.
     
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  8. HacKadi

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    100% accurate. I highly reccomend the book No More Mr. Nice Guy! Its like having an epifany, and more important, I think its the source of my porn addiction.
     
  9. HacKadi

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    Well not 100% now that I finished the video since it asumes that all nice guys are frikis and weirdos. Not that there is something wrong with that but according to that guy it would be the reason they dont get laid, and its not. A Nice Guy can be married and have a beuatifull wife or he can be single and virgin, it doesnt matter. The main issue is their fear of rejection in all ways, so they put other people needs first, resulting in an unhappy and unfulfilling life.
     
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    my belief is a woman want a guy with massive muscle,lots of money an a big truck or a luxury car now looking at that it all roots from masturbation the lust that stems from masturbation, as soon as woman stop masturbation an having a overly excessive sex life then well they find a happier life with a guy whos a regular guy
     
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    I only agree with the last two things. The first two are provably false.

    I gotta get going, but here's a hint for you: sexual dimorphism is attractive. This covers both physical features and behaviors.
     
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  13. lamstronger

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    I tried being a nice guy, didn't seem to work :D that was with my last gf, I lacked expereince too and so on. Now, that I've been going to the gym, I gained confidence, experience from last relationship, so I will do better this time. But, yeah what girls want is stil a mystery.
     
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  14. Hitto

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    When women or people in general say what they want realize that it isn't always what they respond to for example a girl saying she won't date a guy shorter than her and then you will see her dating someone shorter actions speak louder than words I'm learning don't try to be what they say they want just be yourself as much as you can and they will respect you for that if not then they aren't right for you
     
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    Women want guys with self-esteem because those guys get things done. They seek for security in life and the partner who radiates that value is the confident guy. A guy who could handle a family, provides them with the security they need and cares for them. They take more risks in deciding for a partner and its not like your character is written on your forehead but at least confident guys look like they are reliable.
     
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  18. Women aren’t aliens. They want what you want, which is a real human being. A person that loves and supports you but also challenges you. A person who values you and appreciates your personality. A person that doesn’t come off as needing you but rather chooses to be with you because they love you. A person that can listen to you without trying to fix shit for you or worse try to fix you. A person who will call you out on your shit when you need it but who will also make you feel desired and appreciated. And in the bed a person that will make love to you and on certain days fuck your brains out in such a way that you’ll know it was still love making because they knew it was what you needed.
     
  19. MarinoBigFan1984

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    My answer was meant as sarcasm
     
  20. I think women don't know what they want but a man to provide protection love and faithful what else can they want
     

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