Wife spying

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Johntempted, Apr 28, 2019.

  1. TimeToQuitNow

    TimeToQuitNow Fapstronaut

    Yea I'm not sure why he defends cuckoldry so much. It is wrong and he's giving OP the wrong idea. His wife cheated on him and he's supposed to be cool with it? Give me a break!
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  2. +TenPercent

    +TenPercent Fapstronaut

    Hello tempted John, my cuckold friend . . .
    I read this post and immediately started getting a hard-on. I should recoil from it as from a hot flame, but yet I read on :rolleyes:
    I think I can relate to what you are experiencing as
    some 14 years ago my smoking hot stripper girlfriend cheated on me with a tattooed motorcycle riding bad boy and he pleased her with his massive 9" cock in ways that I never could with my little 4 1/2 inches. Sorry if that's too graphic, even with the trigger warning.
    Long story short (no pun intended): that's where my cuckold fantasies really took hold. I lost the girl and over the next ten+ years my fantasies got more and more depraved until
    I was chronically single and fantasising about being forever rejected by women and pussy free for the rest of my life :oops:

    You wrote that you love your beautiful wife and you don't want to dump her. Well,
    You're an orgasm addict. If we have one orgasm, it takes about two weeks for the brain to recover from that massive blast of dopamine. How long has it been since you've gone two weeks without an orgasm? How long do you think it would take to recover from years of excessive orgasms?? After an orgasm, we feel euphoric. Then we go into withdrawal. One of the most potent ways to get out of that withdrawal is to have another orgasm. And, if you are an addict, eventually you need more and more powerful orgasms to feel that euphoric relief.
    You told your friends and coworkers about your cheating wife because it got you high as fuck. You're getting high from the humiliation. You're probably loving this experience right now, but eventually even this won't be enough and you'll need something more extreme to get your relief. And, in the process, you may lose your beautiful wife.

    There is a way out. But you're probably not going to like it. In short it is this: no more orgasms. That means, for starters, no more porn, no more masturbation. You need to give yourself a chance to heal and it will probably take a lot longer than two weeks. But, if you can give that up, you might once again experience love for your wife like when you first met. You will get out of your addictive destructive cycle of endlessly pursuing the next mind-blowing orgasm and you will start living a rich a rewarding life.

    Interested, but not sure where to turn? Start looking into semen retention and sexual transmutation. Read the book "Cupid's Poisoned Arrow"

    I have spent years wrestling with my cuckold obsessions. I could let go of the light porn, but I could never let go of the cuckold fantasy because I convinced myself that the rush it gave me was proof that I needed to have that experience and that that intense high was so strong that it must be what life is all about (for me). Luckily, someone here helped me to see that I am just addicted to orgasms.

    I hope you choose to get better. If you choose to pursue your cuckold obsession, I hope that you don't destroy yourself or anyone else in the process and that you always know that there is another way.

    Good luck.
  3. Well said and good work on the trigger warnings
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  4. Tryingto

    Tryingto Fapstronaut

    This is a great post from, @+TenPercent. Honest, clear, forceful without being preachy or judgemental. I hope the words and experience resonate...
  5. plzrlzme

    plzrlzme Fapstronaut



    If you possessed better reading comprehension, you would know that he was into it.

    1. People are the only animals that get married.
    2. No, they *do not.

    Actually, he is both. Even the pronouns you used outsmarted you on that one.


    Whatever, Miss Bossypants.

    Listen, I don't mean this in an offensive way, but you are dumb and the only thing interesting about your posts is how hilariously stupid they are. Well, that and your ridiculously impotent temper tantrums. Maybe you should consider taking a break from posting for awhile.

    Oh, wait, I forgot. You are already in timeout.
    Last edited: May 17, 2019
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