I was virgin Indian boi (didn't ask for Bob n veganas XD) when I took no PMO challenge and after last 94 days I'm not. I am dividing my story in 3 parts. Starting part - it was hard, I was new to this challenge it took me some time to control those urges. I read this forum a lot during this period. Took cold showers. Felt low and angry many times. Deleted my porn stash. Instagram posts(those with model) triggered my urges. Somehow I promised myself I will do it whatever it takes. During this period I felt so horny sometimes that I used to hit all girls on my social media (didn't ask for Bob and vegana at this point XD). But this horny feeling turned out in my favour. I started reading this book - "NO MORE MR. NICE GUY"(highly recommended to guys and girls who suck at love life). Beginning of stability - after about 15-20 days I joined few AP groups. Talked to people on these groups , my friend from hostel. Pro tip* - Talking helps. From this phase I was able to control my urges. I spent more time with people that with my laptop. Read that book one or two page daily. Remember I told you how horny I used to feel and sent DMs to many in phase one, here's how it helped me - many of them replied, but few kept the conversation going. I asked this one girl out and bam** went pretty smooth. Smooth Af phase - i went on few more dates with her .... And I had to change my Challenge from no PMO to PM only. I tried weed few times. In this phase I stopped counting days. And yes I feel good. Last pro tip ** - "THERE IS NO RIGHT WAY".
This is great news, I'm happy for you. Great book recommendation by the way, I'm also reading it at the minute and its very insightful and helpful.
So all it took for you was a few dates and concentrated sex drive. Not bad. You become non virgin quite fast.
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