It's up to you my guy, but set small goals you know you can conquer then add on the pressure. You've got this, whether the goal is big or small. So yes, I say abstain from porn and see how that works out for you. And welcome to the thread friend!
DAY 5, WE HERE! WE GONNA CONQUER THIS. To those of you who are still on the journey, I congratulate you. Keep it up! Newcomers I welcome you to this thread and this journey! We're almost a week away from abstaining from PMO, just two more days and we will be at the end of 1 WEEK. That's a big accomplishment in itself for just going one week from PMO, after that we have just 51 weeks left so hold on to your power! Grit those teeth and get to work!
Hi guys, This morning was about to fail because I had a damn erection. But I resist from watching porn. I have a application on my phone, it's call "Blokada" and it's a block-ads software. It do the job pretty well to block everything related to porn. I day that if one of you can be interested. The only "problem" is that you don't need password to switch off the app so it's not really a "good porn blocker".
This apps aren't perfect but sometimes it helps. Try to prepare a routine when you have this urge to watch P or you have an erection. Something that you do instantly like medication. Then ask yourself a question, who is master of your body? You or your instincts? Keep your strike!
Yeah man I hope your doing well, I kinda relapsed a few times unfortunately, but I'm still gonna keep on continuing. I kinda make hip hop music but now I'm trynna be experimental with music. what about you?
So uhh, i thought when i went to bed on day 5, all the urges were done but BOY WAS I WRONG. the mother of all urges attacked me, if i relapse after defeating that then im just disgarceful XD. Hope everyone's doing their best <3
Thanks dude, but... I fail again, my bad too because I haven't switch on my porn blocker so... I know it's absolutly not an excuse and well actually when I think (when it's too late) I'm a little deppressed because you're right I let myself control by hormone and addiction cycle... sorry for possible grammatical errors, I'm french
ahh man, you relapsed? damn it. Remember who you are and who you want to be! Try and keep that sexual energy within, don't release it. I hope you're doing okay though, please set a smaller goal for yourself if you can't see yourself completing a challenge as big as this. Remember, take it one day at a time bro. Hip Hop music huh? Do you listen to Hi Fly? I don't think he produces anymore but he's got some amazing hip hop tracks on his channel. I listen to his music when I study. Also, I'd like to hear your stuff mate. PM me.
lmaoo I stayed up all night on day 5 because my urges were keeping me up, I couldn't sleep so I just ended up cold sweating myself to sleep. It was horrible, I woke up with drenched clothing and bed sheets.
PMO makes you depressed. Try and stay away from it, REMEMBER THAT YOU ARE THE ONE THAT BRINGS PAIN TO YOURSELF. I know how hard it is to start again when you relapse, but please remember why you took up this challenge in the first place. Be serious about your goals. As a man, our sexual energy is the most powerful thing we have within us, but you know what's more powerful than our sexual energy? YOUR MIND! Your mind can trump your sexual energy if you will it hard enough to. Get back on the horse my friend, and reclaim your right as a MAN.
DAY 6 of the NoFap NO PMO 2019 365 CHALLENGE. I log in to hear that quite a few of you have relapsed already. And not once, but more than once. A binge, you binge once again? It's really dissapointing to hear that many of you that have joined this challenge have already given up your right as a man 6 DAYS IN. 6 DAYS IN! You were almost a WEEK IN from abstaining from PMO, and you just decide to beat your meat and release whatever drip of pathetic manliness you have residing in you? For what? Over a big booty bitch? COME ON GUYS! Are you serious about making a change in 2019? How many times will you beat yourself up? How many times will you let your desires take over you? You are a MAN. BE ONE. Take up your power, reclaim your honour! Do whatever you have to do to stay away from PMO. If you catch yourself at the explore page of Instagram, leave it, and do something worthwhile. If you find yourself scrolling through Spankbang, PornHub, Xvideos (my personal favourite), or XHamster, TURN OFF YOUR DAMN PHONE/PC or do something that will allow you to get back to your usual self. Meditate, go outside, slap yourself silly, just don't relsease your inner man over a quick relief. Beating your meat literally tells your body that you don't even want to be a man. You are destroying your body long term. Please, guys, don't end up like me. I have erectile dysfunction because of PMO. It has been ages since I have had a 100% full powered erection. All because I wasted my semen for big booty women, instagram thots, and women that wouldn't even give me the time of day. Be better than ME! Be better than YOU! If you're not serious about changing your life for the better, you shouldn't be here. Literally 6 days people. Come on! Be better. 2019 is a year of change. Will YOU change for the better? - Young Piccolo Erecitile Dysfunction Victim
Well you're right but personally I do "no P" so about mastubation... but anyway I understand your global way of think. I want to change but I took a bad habit and to erase an habit (bad or good) it's not that easy. I can't really understand you but I sympathize about your erectile dysfunction. I have a gf and hopefully I'm at "100%" when I'm with her but... I don't know if is only the fault of porn of if porn was "the drop of water that breaks the camel's back" : I think that I'm unsatisfatied with her. Now we both study in medecine so we haven't really a lot of time for us but since 3 years I'm with her and (well I'll not say all my private life but to make it simple) the most of the time she makes me get a damn erection but nothing else. At least she never make me ejaculate and so I don't know if inconsciously I want porn to "try" to "finish the job" or if I'm just an addict. Both I feel
SHIT BRO NOW IM ASHAMED. i said that if this shit keeps distracting me (i cant study ffs), ill quit. but screw it, imma still try my best, and try to hold out longer. No one said it was easy and it was dumb of me to think it will be. Currently though, I'm on my highest streak
I respect you for holding out for so long, your pride makes me inspired to push on and aspire for even greater heights! Keep it up! We need this!