My one true friend is a female (I'm male in case you all didn't know). We had a brief romantic connection at one point but it didn't work out. We are still friends and nothing has changed. If you can't be friends with someone you're attracted to, then that's your problem.
You can if you try. Just leave the romantic and sexual shit out of the picture. That's what I'm trying to create with certain female peps I've been talking with for a while now. So far so good.
Those two statements are not the same. Random women in the room are not necessarily friends, we specifically mentioned friendships. Nice attempt at a strawman.
all I'm saying that if your unreciprocated sexual attraction stops you from an emotionally fulfilling friendship, there may be a problem
Yet again more false assumptions, and who is to say the attraction is unreciprocated? Can you read their mind?
dude just... shut up about that ok? so all I'm saying is that from personal experience girls can be friends with guys and vice versa and I feel sorry for you if that isn't the case for you
I never said they can't be friends, I have many of them and even explained one incident about it. I said it is not possible for there to be zero sexual attraction.
its not about attraction, its about feelings. if you don't have feelings then you can be friends regardless of attraction. its like are you okay with this friend seeing other people, if yes then your ok
real life? dude, don't you know that you're dreaming? you've been in a coma for last 2 years, me and the kids miss you, please wake up