Checking in for day 1 today. Thank you for the support and advice mate I'll try my hardest to stay strong this time and do the full 90 days to finally break free of this. Sadly enough I'm all to familiar with peeking it cost me most of my streaks but that was untill I found nofap. Thanks to the site and the support from people like you I've got on here I have already reached 9 days of no Pmo which might not be much yet but it's my longest streak ever which gives me hope I might just be able to deafeat it. All the best to you too brother. Together we can beat this thing.
5th day done. Super long day, getting up at 5.40am to go to one job, then finishing second job about half an hour ago (11.20pm). Literally no time for anything else! Which is a good thing. Actually buzzing about being so busy! Early start again tomorrow could be testing! Encouraging to see so many people on here now. Keep up the encouragement everyone!
Day 19: Work's got me tired which is when I am at my weakest. I know this and don't look at sites with photos or watch videos or movies that could tempt my brain. Praying for wisdom and self control. I hope you all learn your triggers too and create a new lifestyle that keeps you free. Onwards and upwards and restored. Another thing if you guys haven't heard of the acronym HALT it's pretty helpful. It's times that people are typically prone to give into addictions. HALT: Hungry, Angry, Lonely and Tired
Day 38 of 90 No PMO 14-11-2019 52 to go 42,22% reached +10 days no PO Blog https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/do-or-do-not-there-is-no-try.233707/page-11#post-2322157
I started nofap before 3 weeks and I went until 23 days and I reset. I don't have any regrets since that was my first time trying out nofap through the Hard mode (No PMO). I am starting this challenge with this community and I hope I can complete this 90 days. Day 1!
Personally, I don't think it's a great plan. I honestly don't know to whom the sex industry is more degrading: women who are trapped in it or men who make use of it. Believe me, those Ukranian girls are not there for the "fun."
I agree. For me this journey also means that you learn to respect your sexuality again. And the sexuality of the person you're with. The problem with PMO is that the other person becomes a masturbation tool. But sex is about a connection. To go to a prostitute after 90 days seems like a waste: Save up all this energy for a person in real life. It seems to me you're now using a prostitute as a replacement for PMO. Think about it: Why didnt you have a girl in the past two years? I think there are issues in place that you've tried to cover with PMO. Now, and after the 90 days you can tackle those issues increasing your chances with women. Without PMO you become more relaxed, more confident. Not just with regards to sex and relations, in regards to everything. Don't use that just to fall back into your PMO fantasies, but this time with someone you pay. Use that power to give LIFE another go. And build a relationship (could be a casual sexual relationship. Or even a one night stand. But a relationship with a "real" person you don't pay nontheless. If you really want to test the waters, this seems the way to go. At least to me. But if, after 90 days you still want to go out and do it, by all means. We all have our own path.)
