To go on a Date - You must have a Million Dollars ?

@modern milarepa What is your guide to date a girl, or have a relationship with a girl in general?

Focusing on myself, improving all aspects of my life (business, career, physical & mental health...),... Should I learn about how to date or women's complex mind as well?

Just wondering because I haven't dated anyone before. Currently, I don't care about that area to focus on my life (and rebooting) but I will encounter that in the future.

 

you might want to follow up this thread, guy give a lot of advices too. It started out as simply being able to talk to girls but apparently now he is aiming up to be a serious player : https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/100-cold-approaches.298416/

 

Being the best version of yourself will make you attractive to girls but it doesnt help in knowing how to choose the right girl, how to deal with a relationship and with sex.

You need to learn both

 

First choosing the right girl:
first you feel attracted to her physically but after that forget about her looks and asks yourself: would I be with this person if she didn't look like this? Would I like her if we didn't have sex?

Will she make me happy? Will she improve my life? Will I improve hers?
Are we compatible? Do we have similar personalities? Do we understand each other when we talk? Does her energy makes me happy? Does she drains me?

Take lust and emotions out of your mind when with a girl. This will help you in choosing the right girl which is hard to do and also will help you to deal with a relationship.

No pleasure and no love, emotional control
Not blinded by lust or feelings. This means mastering sex and your sexual passion and not falling in love, love is some type of euphoria and makes you unbalanced, women change too much just like emotions, she can fall in love and you need to make her fall in love of you. Women are emotional people but don't you do it.

For really mastering sex, I firmly believe you need to give up pleasure during sex, do non ejaculatory sex and do sex more like a meditation.

Conclusion
-Would I be with this girl without her looks?
-Don't fall in love
-Give up pleasure during sex

About meditation sex
https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?t...men-retention-this-is-why-porn-is-bad.313145/

Giving up love
https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/392-days-no-pmo-you-need-to-give-up-love.310201/


Go beyond her looks
https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?t...e-masturbate-or-be-fooled-by-any-girl.311045/

https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/458-days-attraction-story-dating-models.314525/

 

Thank you so much Milarepa.

I have just saved your advice. Thanks for the helpful response.

 

I just made a thread about it

https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/462-days-how-to-be-successful-with-girls.314885/

 

TV and youtube are trying to market you something. It's all fake. The people you see on screens aren't really happier than you.