casual sex

  1. T

    Tinder Dream

    14 days into a new NoFap streak. Last couple days were rough due to stress that the holidays come with along with some car issues that my mechanic just fixed and a minor repair at home that I fixed. Little to no urges though but some sexual dreams here and there (no wet dreams). Last night, I...
  2. V

    Casual sex

    I am a 27 years old boy. I am single and un married. So is it okay to do casual and safe sex with woman rather than masturbation. Because real sex is always better than watching porn? I need advice on this
  3. Kratos_GOW

    Need advice for my soon to be very first sexual encounter.

    Alright guys, i need your advice or tips etc whatever you wanna call it. So in upcoming months, i think i am going to have my first ever sexual experience. Given the noob that i am in this practical field, what starter advice would you guys have? What worked for you and what not? Additionally...
  4. TheMathFolder

    My bittersweet experience using Tinder as a porn addict: a story

    Ana was a stunning piece of beauty. Long legs, curvy body, beautiful tanned skin — a Mexican goddess straight out of a telenovela. Next to her came my date Silvina. At around 5 feet and 5 inches, slightly chubby but still pretty, she embodied a more realistic South American stereotype. We all...
  5. D

    Hello! (Male 31 yrs old)

    I first heard about NoFap in 2016. At the time, I didn't think I was addicted to porn. I always thought addiction meant "severe" addiction but addiction really does look different for everyone or perhaps I was just in denial. At the time, I had a door to door job which for some reason I liked...
  6. onceaking

    Causal sex doesn't exist

    Well according to Helen Fisher it doesn't.
  7. modern milarepa

    Speed ticket/webcam model

    Yesterday I got a notification of a camera speed ticket I already paid, probably I'll have to go to court for it. Because I already paid it and don't want to pay it again. This was last year, I got the ticket because I was going to see this webcam girl, when we first met I didn't know she was a...
  8. S

    New here.

    Hello. I’m in my late 20’s and male. Quit porn sixty days ago today. My initial goal is 90 days, but I plan to never return to porn. I have more energy for life and view women in a healthier way now. I am, however, quite lonely and have a higher sex drive (for real sex) than I’ve ever had. What...
  9. F

    Hook ups and casual sexual encounters during reboot

    How those influenced you reboot? If type of hook up was inspired by some problematic fetish or sexual practice how it influenced the issue?
  10. Fallacious D

    Is Casual Sex Worth It?

    Not sure if this is the right subforum, but hopefully someone will read this. I'm 21M, single, virgin. Just started nofap, have had some successes (25 day streak 1st attempt) and failures (multiple relapses afterward) but I'm still committed to it. Not an incel - had many opportunities to have...
  11. D

    My strange addiction/sexual perversion

    **The following description of my experiences may trigger struggling NoFappers It was a couple of years back that I thought I’d try masturbation after having watched a ‘Love Yourself’ parody with no real understanding of what would take place. I did it while I was casually reading a...
  12. TropicalMango

    How Do I Come to Peace With My Sex Drive?

    I started masturbating when I was 11, after I discovered that it would alleviate the built up sexual energy that kept getting stronger and stronger as a pre-teen. Soon after, it became a regular thing, and it has been for the last 15 years of my life. At first, I didn't think much of it. I...
  13. T

    Justin: My Story

    Hi, Justin here. I live London. I am addicted to sex. Justin the sex addict. I guess it does have a ring to it. So I have wasted so much time on porn and Grindr. I have become very depressed and cynical. I am seeing a therapist but it is not working. I know porn and casual sex are the root of...
  14. C

    Casual sex is as bad as porn

    Perhaps the title is a tad hyperbolic, but true in spirit. What are your guys thoughts on this? I'd argue that hooking up is just masterbaition with another person's body. There's no emotional connection and the intent is not to procreate, both of which are true of porn.
  15. N

    Premature Ejaculation

    Hey guys, 11 days into a new streak after caving at the end of a 2 month streak - disappointed that I couldn't make it a completely porn free year but trying not to let black / white thinking mess me up. Anyway the craving for p hasn't been terrible yet (although, as always, it will be). I...
  16. D

    Casual Sex = Psychological Distress or Increased Confidence

    https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2016/oct/10/casual-sex-one-night-stand-self-esteem-psychological-distress While I don't feel it's absolutely necessary to wait until marriage I would feel utterly depressed if I had a one night stand. I understand the appeal in them but I would be like...
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