Exactly bro. Unlike man, who rely much on female appereance, womans can rely on appereance but also on male carisma, confidence. That's why we see good looking girls with ugly john's . That's because they have a carisma to then, a inner confidence. I remember once i saw a video about a guy who taugh how to get a girl. He said loud and clear that most girls are easy to get. Its just a matter of exaling confidence and safety. So his aproach was totally centered in how to talk to a girl instead of being good looking. Girls have a inner intuition to them, they can spot from a mile away if you love yourself. So if you dont love yourself, if you're not confident of your traits, how can a girl be atracted to that? So keep doing the reboot bro, the more time you're in nofap, the more confident you'll be and the more atractive you'll become. Its every rebooter experience ☺. Work on yourself my brother, the goodies will follow.