[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

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  1. RiseToGreatness

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    Exactly bro. Unlike man, who rely much on female appereance, womans can rely on appereance but also on male carisma, confidence.

    That's why we see good looking girls with ugly john's . That's because they have a carisma to then, a inner confidence. I remember once i saw a video about a guy who taugh how to get a girl. He said loud and clear that most girls are easy to get. Its just a matter of exaling confidence and safety. So his aproach was totally centered in how to talk to a girl instead of being good looking.

    Girls have a inner intuition to them, they can spot from a mile away if you love yourself. So if you dont love yourself, if you're not confident of your traits, how can a girl be atracted to that?

    So keep doing the reboot bro, the more time you're in nofap, the more confident you'll be and the more atractive you'll become. Its every rebooter experience ☺.

    Work on yourself my brother, the goodies will follow.
     
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  2. RiseToGreatness

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    Yeah, that's a disguised trap there bro. Its good to start a streak in a symbolic day but the hazard is that the addict mind will profit from it and can slowly seduze you to pmo until the specific day starts.

    Be very aware bro, dont fall for that, if you do, it will be much harder to hold the next streak in the long run because you subconsciousely allowed lust if some circunstances are not optimal in your life ex: "the day hasn't arrived yet".

    Keep doing the reboot like nothing as changed bro. Better safe than sorry.
     
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  3. RiseToGreatness

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    Sorry to hear that bro. Try to engage in things that you like doing, also work out, physical exercise is good to boost the spirit ☺.

    Lets do this bro, on the way to recovery no promisses, no pressure, just this day brother, just this day, no pmo.
     
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  4. RiseToGreatness

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    Awesome bro!!! Lets keep going, towards freedom
     
  5. Thanks for the motivation.
     
  6. RiseToGreatness

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    I hope all brothers are going well. I see a lot of you worried about this day and that day and how much longer will it take, etc etc.

    My friends, nofap is a lifestyle, the counting is only to boost the challenge, not to increase stress!!! Please forget about the day you're in.
    If you had an ammenesia stroke, what you'll do? Pmo for the sake of it and start the counter?
    In the long run, it doesn't matter what day you're in. The only thing that matters is the mindset:
    "Pmo is a destructive behaviour for me and others. Sex industry is deeply wrong. So whatever happens today, i will not pmo".

    Keep focus and sharp my brothers. We'll get this through.

    "Delighting in sensory pleasures is like drinking sea water. the more you drink, the more thirst you have" Buda
     
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  7. Anew2019

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    Cheers. Thanks for the encourament. I will keep it up. I will kick ass! I will not quit!
     
  8. Anew2019

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    0 days No PMO.
    9 days minimal sugar
    12 day no alcohol
    35 days no social media
    1 day rosary.

    I will not quit. I will win this. I have been losing battles but I am not going to lose this war. I have God with me. I am really getting to know myself. I like what I see. I am a scrapper. I do not give up. I have put up with a lot of crap and abuse that hindered me for a long time but not anymore. I care about myself and I should. Contrary to what I learned as a child. I like how Dr. Jordan Peterson puts it in his book 12 Rules for Life. "Treat yourself like you are someone you are responsible for helping". I am worth it and I finally believe that.
     
  9. mailsnew

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  10. 05realme

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    On at day 10!
    More determined for better outcomes.
     
  11. Day 1. I’m tired of this shit. It ends now.
     
  12. Nines

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    Speaking from personal experience, that's how temptations and urges get its claws hooked into you. During an urge I'd think, " I'll glance at some porn, just for a few minutes." Even if I managed to pull away after "only" a few minutes, my urges have just intensified. After that, I may wait a few hours or even the next day, but I would always go back for more porn. After that, I would always give in to the fappening. I have repeated this pattern too many times. My temptations always start with porn so in recognition of that, I've quit it cold turkey. It has not been easy but I've stuck to that. I encourage you to do the same. Find some hobbies or interests to focus on.
     
  13. Nines

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    Hey dude, uppercut the shit out of those bad habits.
     
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  14. Thanks, good advice.
     
  15. Klenton

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    Day 24 of 90
    August 5, 2019 | Monday

    Yes! I’ve beaten my previous longest streak of 23 Days this year.
     
  16. Started Challenge on Jan 25, 2019
    Relapsed 7/191 Days
    Day 89/90 meeting my goals
    Day 53 of weight training
    - feeling urges today as a result of a fight with the wife last night and the recent relapse
    - one day left on this challenge so I will not cave
    - stay strong fellas
     
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  17. Zephil

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  18. Marin333!

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    Day 32/90
    Havent been feeling the best these past couple of days, need to get better
    have a good day
     

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