Started Challenges Jan 25, 2019 Relapsed 13/232 Days Longest streaks 67 and 51 days Current Challenge 2/90 Day 72 weight training Day 2 reduced alcohol, caffeine and sugar - feeling strong resolve to do it this time but must not get over confident - made love to the wife this morning but had porn images go through my head to stay aroused - hoping one day soon I will not need this crutch anymore - your brother in this struggle
Brothers i want to tell you something and i need your help. Before starting nofap i did sex 2 times with 2 different girls my performance was average or below average. I came one time fast and my erection was not very good. But When i did M, my erection was super full without any issue. but in front of the girls, i felt like a block inside my mind, no urges. but alone M no problem, i was shocked. Btw no need for P to do M before. Is this due to PMOing? Or fear? Lack of experience? Or all of them? I have a friend with exactly same situation. Why the brain will block when facing reality?
Sounds like fear (performance anxiety) is getting the better of you. As you gain more experience with other woman, while avoiding PMO, you should be okay in future. Not sure what you mean by the term block though. Obviously you would have no anxiety masturbating on your own so blood can flow freely to your penis and your mind is relaxed. Hope that helps.
Block mind i means that my brain in this situation is not concentrating on sex, thinking about something else, works ...
It's simple, It's just between you and me. I don't know on which day you are if you have completed 90 days already then you are the winner. If not then let's take this challenge. Now I'm on 7 days challenge, after completing 7 days I'll take 14 days challenge, then 21 days, and 30 days, after completing all these days I'll take 90 days challenge here, and whoever completes 90 days first here is the winner. (You don't have to take 7 days, 14 days, 21 and 30 days challenge, just complete 90 days here, before me then you are the winner) If you take this seriously, you know in a way it will help you to achieve whatever you wished when you joined this thread. But I'm coming, and I'll win. I'm sure on that. * If anyone wants to take this challenge just reply I'll note your username and will check your streak everyday. * And if you want to compete right now from the beginning you can join 7 days days challenge, I'm on 7 days challenge now.( If there is a competition you can achieve your goal more easily like you can say to yourself that I'll beat this guy at any cost) If your want to compete with me from the 7 days challenge please leave a reply to this message and then join so I'll get to know you.
56/90 Still on holidays. Some days are wonderful. Sometimes it's hard. But one day at a time I'll succeed. Have a blessed Sunday everyone.
Day 17 One day at a time and one urge at a time. All the best guys. Use your precious time in good deeds and make sure that you cut out out bad activities from your life . Have a good day . Thanks
I'm in and currently on day 1 of the 7 day challenge. I am also on day one of the 90 day challenge. I figure the smaller challenges just add together to total the 90 day. Is that right or do you start over at 1 after each challenge?
I've been trying to succeed at the 90 day challenge on and off for 4 years and never been successful yet. 67 and 51 were my highest streaks.
