[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

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  1. Pone

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    Day 56. Today I am really proud of myself. Cause the entire day have been having some serious urges to watch P.
    Just five minutes back I was having the same urges. They were strong and very descriptive mentally. It was like my mind was really bargaining with me, presenting flashes of past scenes I had watched.
    But am still strong, have to complete today.c
     
  2. Pone

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    Am also very thankful for this community. Cause before I was actively participating, in such moments I would relapse, but now I use this as an anchor to support me and remind me of a better future..
    Let's overcome our addictions with whatever it takes Brothers
     
    Vendidad, bromor, Merry Terry and 2 others like this.
  3. Jerky

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  4. Day 4/90 No PM
    Day 437 at attempting this challenge
    Day 154 weight training (M, W, F)
    Lifestyle: reduced caffeine, desserts and alcohol
     
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  5. 15/90. Hey that's one sixth of the way. Had some mild urges last night. Thought about PMO for a couple minutes. Then flash-forwarded to how I'd feel afterwords - empty, depleted, discouraged, repulsed - and thought "I have an idea, how about I just skip it."

    The feelings passed and instead I just did some reading and got a good night's sleep. It so would NOT have been worth it. Obvious to see now, but I'm trying to burn this feeling of relief and optimism and calm self-control into my mind so I don't forget it next time I'm tempted.
     
    commodus, Vendidad, Homo Deus and 4 others like this.
  6. RestartGame_

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    day 0. work in progress. ill keep u updated. ^^
     
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  7. Titu

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  8. Potato_22

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  9. anup kuruvilla

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  10. Merry Terry

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    Day 1 of this streak. I peeked at something yesterday, which was the result of a fragment of a famous literary story I came across on Friday on Instagram that turned out to have erotic content. At the time, it didn't turn me on, but the memory of it did stick in my mind and I couldn't shake it off. Yesterday I searched for and found a film version of that same story and watched parts of it for 10 minutes and touched myself a bit before I could stop and turn away.

    I was going to let it slide, but this morning I realised that this is the type of behaviour that keeps my addiction alive. I have to learn from this and explore how I can let a memory like that just exist in my system without acting on it.

    No more P, no more peeking. Instead I'm increasing confidence and self-love.
    I built this reality, now I will build a better one.

    I joined this forum 155 days ago. Of those 155 days, I was 141 days without P.
     
  11. bromor

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    Allright, I messed up a bit. Really want to get the 90 days no M.
    Already done 100 days no P today. P is not coming back to my life :) Which is something to celebrate.
    However since I have a gf and was really horny this morning and she is away due to the virus, touched myself and couldnt stop in time. Obviously it was only to my thoughts but still... Setting counter to 0 and keeping my No P counter :) 100 is a nice number for milestones :D

    Learnings:
    1. I am happy I can M only to toughts of a real gf , which was something that was impossible due to desensitization before.
    2. I am healing!
    3. I need to control my urges more when she is away and I have to be alone at home for days at a time.

    Keep going guys!
     
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  12. Jonnybjones98

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  13. whitehouse

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    Day 8 - I have passed the 1 week mark. Great Success! Must admit, I feel quite restless today. However I am feeling more determined then ever.
     
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  14. ANameThatStartsWithK

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  15. eevahnits

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    I am in. I am on my 13th day today so when I finish this challenge I'm gonna have a streak of 103 days (hopefully)!!
    I can do this. WE all can do this!! :emoji_left_facing_fist:

    Good luck everyone.
     
    Pone, Deleted Account, bromor and 5 others like this.
  16. mystician

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    it seems terrible ,the desire for porn own my brain once
    however,i have no power for defence.
    please,anyone give me a hand to accompany me to survive the evil
     
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  17. aragorn1

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    Day 3 gents.

    Anyone else read/listened to Atomic Habits by James Clear? Brilliant book for changing all this.
     
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  18. Cyborg1

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    Good pm guys . pls i still dont understand the 90 days challenge can someone put me through
     

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