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Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by 2525, Oct 27, 2017.
I joined this forum 266 days ago. Of those 266 days, I was 231 days without M’ing to P.
Damn, that sounds like... I was gonna say 'pain in the ass', but well, it's not. But you get what I mean! Sorry to hear that anyhow. Any idea how you got this condition? Hang in there and take the opportunity to grow!
day 1 .. new to this SITE .. can someone add me to a group chat .. i cant do this alone need AP
This is something very important to keep being aware of. Sexualizing of women based purely on their looks only works when you're at a distance. When you get to know women, they stop being objects and most of them stop being interesting in a sexual way, except for a small amount of women that you really have an actual connection with based on so much more than just looks.
I have discovered that this works well with online oggling as well; when there's a specific woman that I'm objectifying, I've been trying to find a video where she's being interviewed wearing normal clothes, and it's a great reminder that she's just a person and there's no point in trying to look at her body.
Checking in, day 34
Total clean days - 4
Total PMO - 46
Total P - 2
Total hours remaining - 2400
1st Goal - 7 days
Days remaining - 7
Goal completed - 0
Completed day 5 a few hours back. My sleep has been very bad. I'm going to try some yogic breathing each day:I've heard good things about it and maybe it will help. One day at a time.
Relapsed a few moment ago. The reason is clear to me that's y I m not feeling guilty but even more motivated. I got urge the moment I was talking with my friend (Girl) to whom I fapped a month ago for the 1st time..! And I fapped again.
Next time I'll go more than this 10 days streak of mine for sure.
Day 0 I think I’ll go back to my old regiment I started cutting out to many things I enjoyed so my temptations started getting stronger the last few weeks I got really weak with my habits I started eating unhealthy foods again drinking more alcohol and was neglecting my exercises its time to start over
Sorry guys to share it. here is what happened with me. I hope talking with girl work for you
For the 1st time I fapped on her a month ago with two Insta pics. This girl is my best friend. And I never imagined even in my dream that one day I would fap on her like this. Her voice has become the another pathway for my brain to fap. And this is the 2nd time. Because same thing happen 1st time10 days before on 17th, while talking to her, out of the blue I got urge to fap on her with some hot insta pics. And I controlled myself. But today I couldn't stop my brain.
In both the situation, I was already in a little stressed state. Our conversation is always normal but my libido dive in her voice and take lustful pleasure while talking.
Rest of time I never Imagined her with lustful eyes. All just happened in few seconds, suddenly and intensely.
So the lessons are:
》Brain has made another association(pathway) to fap and the trigger is her voice + stress.
》This is the warning sign that my friendship is gonna over if I don't reassociate good thoughts with her.
》I need to find strategies to connect quickly with my goals. In this way I can manage my stress.
》So next time when I had call with her. I'll become more alert. Because it all happens over a single choice within the moment. And if we change our choice in that moment, Our destiny changed.
Day 3 no M
Day 211 no P
I was away for the weekend! Back here going hard!
This is a nice sum up about the need to take action and stop overthinking!
Day 6/90. It's gonna be a great week
Day 11/90 .. Keep fighting that monkey in your Head!
I feel high again, let's fight
Hope you all doing well
completed day 6 i am not productive this week just keep wasting my time instead i have so much to study than also i don't know what to do with myself i promised i will be productive then wake up early next day than other day again waste time
I'm halfway thru day 6. For the first 3 days I was free from any desire or lustful thoughts. In fact I was anti- lustful. Now I'm moving back to the land of temptation and lust. I need to be more vigilant now. One day at a time.