Accountability for All

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by corylife, Dec 22, 2019.

  1. Day 25 completed, feeling great! And two important things have happened:

    1. Last night I had a wet dream!!! And the best is that I didn't notice it until I woke up and found me wet hahaha, so no chaser effect at all and I'm not feeling tired nor anything. I feel somewhat happy because it means that I'm healing, it's my second ever wet dream in lifetime and that's great I think!

    2. I started my journal thread here! :) I suddenly got inspired to start it and decided to take the time to start it today; it begins with my story (tried to be brief) and the self-improvement material I've been consuming recently... after that the past 3 weeks journal entry and lastly the last 2 days experiences. My goal is to make it simple, although I tend to end up writing a lot every time hahaha, I'd really thank you if you go someday and check how I'm doing there, really excited to start recording my progress there... after 65 more days I'll feel really proud when I see my journal and can say "I did it".

    Nothing is gonna stop me, we can do it together, stay strong everyone!
     
  2. Oh I almost forgot to share this video I watched today: Why is getting laid your main goal? (SFW, YouTuber: Hamza)
    It is really good, can even be funny and will probably break down your ego so you start to see the real inner problems of yourself (if you also struggle with this, like I do)... my intention sharing the video here is to help, not to make people feel bad(?) or stressed with the topic... watch on your own risk and feel free to drop [respectful] comments to me about it!
    Hope you enjoy it and stay strong!!!
     
  3. JonnyApples

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    Hey guys Jonathan here sorry for not posting yesterday I was extremely busy and passed out. Day 10 is officially complete and I am feeling better then ever. Starting to feel like I’m getting my manhood back and I am seeing the results of my dedication to staying away from porn. Before I was able to stay away from it and I didn’t feel half as good as I feel now. The realization of it being a problem and attacking the source of my addiction for what it is and uncovering why I am addicted and why I am the way I am is working tremendously. Without self reflection it wouldn’t feel as amazing as it does today and I think it can help some of you. Uncover why we turned to porn why we began to watch it why we continue to watch it. If anyone can also drop some more tips it would be greatly appreciated. I hope you guys are staying strong and realize we are more then this cycle of addiction. We are worth more! Have a good night guys.
     
  4. Spreadlove

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    P: 27 days
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    * 3 PMO but no relapse
    * 1 MO but no relapse
     
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  5. blacktea

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    Checking in, just got through day 27! Definitely feeling porn is having less and less of a grip on me and I am living my life a lot more in reality. Let's keep going and transform ourselves into great men!
     
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  6. Leonflado

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    Glad that you are feeling better bro! I strongly agree that self reflection is a must, even if it's very painful to be honest about yourself. You can only get better if you face your problems upfront. A tip that helped me greatly was to start journaling before going to bed, reflecting on the day, how I felt during the day and why. This way I also discovered how eating and sleep influenced my mood and decisions and by writing it out you can learn from it and step by step better your life.

    Day 12 today.
     
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  7. WantsToQuit2021

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    Day 8,

    Just got back from my mini vacation.
    If I make it through today-Thursday, then I'll make my 14 day goal!!
    Friday-sunday I'll have friends over, so then I won't have the urges.

    I'm actually feeling really good right now.
    Sharper then usual, better in control.
    I've never had this with Nofap before, and it should be way to early.
    I might have grown mentally?

    Keep strong people!
     
  8. NeverGiveUP...

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    Day 5 completed.
    Day was very busy, no urges... It was a easy day
     
  9. NeverGiveUP...

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    Great ✌
     
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  10. NeverGiveUP...

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    Never relapse guys.... It reduces self integrity.
     
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  11. OMINI MAN

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    Day 2
    Today i had the courage to look into the eyes of my friends while i was taking.
    I wasn't nervous at all... I'm glad may its not something big but 4 me its a huge victory. I felt more connected to the other person, i understood more what he was saying.. For the 1st time in months i STOOD AGAINST MY URGES & i'm gonna continue this.
    Thanks all of you.. Live every single sec of your life
     
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  14. Day 2
    I feel a bit pathetic. I skipped out on my workout today and I'm feeling foggy. I have a lot of things to deal with that are weighing me down. I feel good about the rest of today.
    I look forward to whatever challenges are presented tomorrow.
     
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  15. ThisSideThatSide

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    wake up at 4 today.
    hopefully i have a nice, productive day
     
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    Day 9

    I'll achieve my goal of 14 days!!
     
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  18. keplerb

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    My focus has been increasing, i am working more efficiently.

    I am making some mistakes like eating junk , which makes me lazy and wanna watch P.

    I commit to eat healthy food from now on.

    Today i will have a tough day , bcoz i havent completed my sleep and have to work for 9 hrs now.Hoping for the best!!
     
  19. Completed day 26, today I started my workout serious journey and I'm feeling so tired... at the same time regretful, many times I've been told to do exercise and go to a gym but I never cared about my appearance so here I am, like really behind my friends who did it earlier. But it's also okay, I'm still pretty young and have time to get in shape and healthy habits... NoFap will give me the power!

    And I've been thinking about my purpose, haven't found it yet of course, but it's in my head... I gotta continue searching. :D We got this, stay strong everyone!
     
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