I totally agree, I (we!) already had great experiences of that kind The first time, it might be unpleasant for the man, but that becomes much more pleasant overtime. It gives you also a lot of self-confidence as yoiu have much more self-control. I only found that a woman might be more satisfied when the man also ejaculates. For some women, the man's ejaculation is either giving them an extra kick, because they can feel the semen (if you go natural, without condom), or it makes them simply more happy and confident when he ejaculates.