For the ones trying to get rid of fetishes!

Marsbox

Marsbox

Fapstronaut
Hey, all I have to say is Yes You Can Get Rid Of Fetishes. Speaking from experience, not fully successful just yet, the fetish has faded, doesn’t arouse me when I think about it or fantasize about it and I barely even think of it anymore but if something like a add or something like that pops up I can’t stop thinking of it all day, it is only my 1st week of trying to overcome it and I feel like its 70% gone, comment any questions you have, I’m more than happy to help.
 
Marsbox said:
Hey, all I have to say is Yes You Can Get Rid Of Fetishes. Speaking from experience, not fully successful just yet, the fetish has faded, doesn’t arouse me when I think about it or fantasize about it and I barely even think of it anymore but if something like a add or something like that pops up I can’t stop thinking of it all day, it is only my 1st week of trying to overcome it and I feel like its 70% gone, comment any questions you have, I’m more than happy to help.
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Yes, human mind can be very strong indeed. But most people never realise their true potential power to change their mind and life.
 
Marsbox said:
Hey, all I have to say is Yes You Can Get Rid Of Fetishes. Speaking from experience, not fully successful just yet, the fetish has faded, doesn’t arouse me when I think about it or fantasize about it and I barely even think of it anymore but if something like a add or something like that pops up I can’t stop thinking of it all day, it is only my 1st week of trying to overcome it and I feel like its 70% gone, comment any questions you have, I’m more than happy to help.
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im new to this site and joined for this, please help me, my fetish is something that is actually quite common for people to do its detrimental to my self-control, any tops or advice is appreciated
 
HaramShane said:
im new to this site and joined for this, please help me, my fetish is something that is actually quite common for people to do its detrimental to my self-control, any tops or advice is appreciated
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I can’t help without knowing what fetish you have
 
Marsbox said:
Hey, all I have to say is Yes You Can Get Rid Of Fetishes. Speaking from experience, not fully successful just yet, the fetish has faded, doesn’t arouse me when I think about it or fantasize about it and I barely even think of it anymore but if something like a add or something like that pops up I can’t stop thinking of it all day, it is only my 1st week of trying to overcome it and I feel like its 70% gone, comment any questions you have, I’m more than happy to help.
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I doubt it is 70% gone tbh, I’ve been on nofap for a mere 1month + and on Sunday had sex, didn’t cum bcos i wanted to hold it in but what i found was later that day i ended up fapping to my fetish which really is girls in tight pants what was surprising is i thought connection with a real lady earlier would at least ease the tension to fap but about 2hrs later I masturbated again(not to fetish tho just with imagination) and that worked perfect as well, I think the deciding factor, especially for a fetish day could be over 2yrs, is just time which u haven’t done a lot of
 
I’m so groovy said:
I doubt it is 70% gone tbh, I’ve been on nofap for a mere 1month + and on Sunday had sex, didn’t cum bcos i wanted to hold it in but what i found was later that day i ended up fapping to my fetish which really is girls in tight pants what was surprising is i thought connection with a real lady earlier would at least ease the tension to fap but about 2hrs later I masturbated again(not to fetish tho just with imagination) and that worked perfect as well, I think the deciding factor, especially for a fetish day could be over 2yrs, is just time which u haven’t done a lot of
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I have had my fetish for about a month now, and I realized it was a fetish in the 2nd day so I caught it fast, but everyone different bro, plus psychological fetishes are easier to get rid of, like femdom/cuckold fetishes are psychological, they created from insecurities and traumas, but others like foot fetish or women in tight pants like yours, have nothing to do with psychology so I don’t think they can be removed or they can be but it would be harder
 
I’m so groovy said:
I doubt it is 70% gone tbh, I’ve been on nofap for a mere 1month + and on Sunday had sex, didn’t cum bcos i wanted to hold it in but what i found was later that day i ended up fapping to my fetish which really is girls in tight pants what was surprising is i thought connection with a real lady earlier would at least ease the tension to fap but about 2hrs later I masturbated again(not to fetish tho just with imagination) and that worked perfect as well, I think the deciding factor, especially for a fetish day could be over 2yrs, is just time which u haven’t done a lot of
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I can somewhat relate
 
Marsbox said:
I have had my fetish for about a month now, and I realized it was a fetish in the 2nd day so I caught it fast, but everyone different bro, plus psychological fetishes are easier to get rid of, like femdom/cuckold fetishes are psychological, they created from insecurities and traumas, but others like foot fetish or women in tight pants like yours, have nothing to do with psychology so I don’t think they can be removed or they can be but it would be harder
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Oh ur fetish is just a month?? Ok then ur good or at least very much on track hahah mines been 2yrs So it’s a bit different and I hav already seen results i mean now i can literally tell what times of the day I’d hav erections it’s actually fun
 
I’m so groovy said:
Oh ur fetish is just a month?? Ok then ur good or at least very much on track hahah mines been 2yrs So it’s a bit different and I hav already seen results i mean now i can literally tell what times of the day I’d hav erections it’s actually fun
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Oh nice
 
@Marsbox
what do u know about all the physchological fetishes like femdom, cuckold, sissy etc.? Were you addicted to them and how did u realize that the fetishes u watched werent part of who you are ? thanks for answering
 
I struggle with a fetish for lingerie as well as addiction to porn. I used to think my fetish was wired in to me permanently and all I had to do was keep it at a manageable level while eliminating the porn. After 90+ days free of PMO, I relapsed after viewing lingerie images which led in to porn and masturbating. I now believe that my fetish is also an addiction and I need to eliminate it along with the use of porn.
 
Puppy said:
@Marsbox
what do u know about all the physchological fetishes like femdom, cuckold, sissy etc.? Were you addicted to them and how did u realize that the fetishes u watched werent part of who you are ? thanks for answering
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I know somethings bout psychological fetishes, and how to overcome them. I was addicted yes, but doing things to distract my self from any sexual fantasies helps me, and then when I try to watch p I just watch normal vids without even thinking of femdom or cuckold. Ik its not part of who I am because I’ve always been more of an alpha male, dominant and etc.
 
larry95 said:
I struggle with a fetish for lingerie as well as addiction to porn. I used to think my fetish was wired in to me permanently and all I had to do was keep it at a manageable level while eliminating the porn. After 90+ days free of PMO, I relapsed after viewing lingerie images which led in to porn and masturbating. I now believe that my fetish is also an addiction and I need to eliminate it along with the use of porn.
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Just quit porn brother, and distract ur self, go out more or work more or just play videogames, helps a lot
 
larry95 said:
viewing lingerie images
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The first images that I MO'd to were lingerie images. Hmm . . .
Those of my generation might remember a certain catalog that would come in the mail. This was when porn was largely limited to magazines, or maybe VHS tapes for those who could get their hands on a video or two. As a teenager, these lovely catalogs would come in with the mail for my mother. I wanted them all, but tried to practice some restraint . . .

It still gets me. Even the images on the covers of women's magazines trigger me. I'm wondering now how much this early exposure had on shaping my addiction and sexual response.
 
Glad I found this thread, I struggle with the hotwife fetish too like someone else on here has said that they also do. I think this fetish comes from porn conditioning us to only become aroused when we’re in 3rd person and watching other people have sex because that’s exactly what you’re doing when you look at porn. In real life, I’ve struggled with PIED and becoming aroused when I have been in bed with a girl, but have no problem when I’m in 3rd person and watching porn. I’ve even imagined a regular scenario where me and a girl are having sex and then adjusted that same scenario to where I first watch her have sex with another guy before we have sex, and the second one definitely turned me on more. Still fighting to rid myself of this unwanted fetish.
 
HaramShane said:
im new to this site and joined for this, please help me, my fetish is something that is actually quite common for people to do its detrimental to my self-control, any tops or advice is appreciated
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first you have to stop running from it and ask yourself why you are attached to it, then ask yourself, is it normal?
 
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