There's just no talking when it's all heat and gaslighting. There's not. He' ttrying to make you seem crazy. Don't. Your not crazy. You have valid wants. There is nothing wrong with your efforts.
His homelessness is not your problem, if he is going to be abusive. And if he keeps yelling and your not saying anything, and he keeps on keeping on, text a family member or friend to "show up"
i want to do these lists with him, but i'm afraid of the fighting and him getting mad at me for bringing it up. like it doesn't affect me...
he stopped texting me. that's when i know he's pissed... or he just bought a new video game so he might be sucked into that... and forgot about all of this... and i'm stuck with the memory...
Sorry to hear about that. Addiction is irrational. He needs avenues, preferably non-digital avenues, to seek fulfilment. Internet and PMO are our coping mechanisms but they often degrade life. You're trying to take those away and it's hard for him to understand life without them.
An extreme option would be a temporary break, you stay with your parents for a few nights, something like that
well, i have been doing alright for 2 years, but yeah, it's getting old especially when it happens in the middle of a conversation...
That would be one thing if you were just trying to have a relationship... Honestly, and this is just my opinion, it's another to try to parent a addiction in this situation, because can't continue on a straight stream of consciousness. And with the brain fog and everything addiction already presents... I don't know how you plan to do it. But I commend you already, because, girl you are a hell of a woman
i don't feel like i am... i don't know if he knows that... i want to tag him, but what do i say? ugh, i'm so confused...
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