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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Hariom12, Jan 19, 2018.
Good luck! And your poll is going to be very one sided haha
I think that masturbation is fine if it's done in moderation. I have not done it moderation and so, it's become a negative thing in my life.
Porn is a dirty industry with tons of cases of people taking advantage of each other. I wouldn't recommend using it because of the dirt behind it all. It also isn't representative of the real thing either so too much could warp someone's expectation of it.
I think its going to be tough war , a war like situation but ultimately I have to finish this race. And I have a solid reason to do it.
Glad you are here. And very welcome to join us in our journey to a healthy, fulfilling life without any self harming habits.
It's a safe place here. We all are in the same boat, so there is no single space for judgement here.
Maybe it's a good idea to keep a journal. Sharing your struggles, thoughts and feelings may help you to understand the underlying issues.
Keep coming back and get the most effort out of nofap!
You don't need to do it alone!
Stay committed. And strongly determined!
Let's go to work!
Hey @Hariom12 ,
I'm just a normal ordinary member. No moderator super powers and no special insite. I share my ESH (Experience, Strength and Hope) of what works for me.
Just another warm welcome and a heart felt hello. This community has helped me so much.
What worked for me was "working" it. It took hard work for me to complete a hard reboot (No pmo) for 120 days, then move into a Sex Positive mode.
First, reading the literature published by NoFap itself along with reading journals.
Then, doing the work. Writing in my journal and replying to introductions and other's journals.
Finally, but not least, getting involved with the fellowship. I found it on the forums, but also in people's profiles. The forums tend to be longer posts, where the profiles tend to be more "conversational".
That is what has worked for me. I like to remind myself that this community was here waiting for me with the lights on when I arrived. Now, I have to do my best to be there when someone comes to the community.
PS: Say Hello to a few members. Just open their profile and say "hi" and introduce yourself. You'll find a great community. This is only a short list. There are many many more great people on here.
@GeeWhizz Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/152127/
@julianstone Journals at https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/146584/
@PatrickR Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/139570/
@HerculesStop Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/140098/
@zakes Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/149243/
@DavidGibson Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/143325/
Thank you man