i'm thinking about sleeping with a prostitute

In my opinion sex with a prostitute isnt that bad and help me a little with my anxiety ... but what works for could doesnt work for others...anyway that is what i'e learn. Besides what u could lose?

 

Porn is worst than a prostitute in my opinion. When u see a porn u just watch with a prostitute u have sex... i'm not saying this is better than find a girl all by yourself but is a "shoot" and work for me

 

Health? Syphilis is a really positive addition to you life

 

A condon exist for one reason

 

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Condom

They reduce the risk only....not eliminate it!

 

Yes , there's always a risk... is up to u to take the risk or not...

 

People will never change their mind until they see for themselves the damage they are causing. That is what happen with this PMO addiction and what will happen when you start spending money on fucking women! What the hell is this? The Middle Ages? How young and naive do you have to be to think this is right?

We are all pouring our heart to you guys, trying to help you. We aren't judging you for your actions, just the action itself. Like I said, complete apathy towards taking responsibility for their actions. This thread idea right here has gone up over and and over since I started nofap a year ago and I don't know why I keep trying. I guess I just care too much to see people do this to themselves. Damn, damn, damn.

 

Alright from what I saw there are people who are advocating prostitution to release pent up sexual frustrations and those who are against it (like me) because of how it encourages the industry to enslave more women for sex with money dangling in front of their faces and at the same time, fucks up your mind and your ability to connect with a partner, thus ruining your sexual experiences.

I'm saying it again I did a prostitute once and I regretted doing so even though I enjoyed it (temporarily). If you think prostitution is a way to release all that load you accumulate from abstaining from porn and masturbation, you're not realizing that you're contributing to a similar industry that made porn and chronic masturbation popular and that is not helping your NoFap journey (which the intention is to quit from PMO altogether and have meaningful sex and connection with another person) nor anyone especially the girls WHO WERE KIDNAPPED BY PIMPS AND WERE FORCED TO UNDERGO A VICIOUS CYCLE OF SURVIVAL BY FUCKING YOU AND GETTING PAID FOR THAT.

Maybe some prostitutes volutarily take up this job for a living because they need to support themselves or their families but don't you think its miserable to have them give up a part of themselves just for that $ to live and survive? Sure you may think you're supporting them financially but I can tell you you're actually hurting their ability to be finacially sustainable by encouraging them to stay on in that industry and keep selling themselves just for that carrot you're dangling when they can be going for further studies, upgrading themselves for a better job or setting up their own businesses and making a living from there

Think about it. Prostitution is bad for both the client, the woman and everyone including the pimp, because that will trap him into a cycle of recruiting and kidnapping girls to earn his moolahs for a living.

 

Lol up to me? I am not the one wanting to do it I will be fine

 

We have a story about Jews and fishing on sabbath. They were allowed by God to fish on every day apart from Saturday. 6 days per week they will be little fish but on Saturday they all were jumping out of the water infront of their eyes! A group of them decided to put nets out on Friday and collect them on Sunday thus bending Gods law.

The rest of the Jews devided into 2 groups:

One stayed indifferent and did nothing believing that God will punish the disobedient group. They just stood there thinking it is not their buisness.

Another group talked to the wrongdoers and reason with them trying to stop them from committing the sin.

God later said that only the group that tried to prevent evil is saved. The wrong dooers as well as those who alow the wrong doing to take place are equally guilty of the crime!

Not doing anything in the face of something bad happening equeals acceptance of the crime and carries the same punishment in the eyes of God.

This is why you speak up. You care! Please carry on speaking up even if it falls on deaf ears! As long as you do not remain silent you are doing your part in fighting the wrongdoers. You are helping the victims of prostitution and fighting agains PMO! The end results is not in your hands but we have to do out dam best to fight on the right side!

 

This is a fundamental point. One that anyone with a P or sex addiction struggles with.

It seems to me that it is hard to compartmentalize a behavior from a larger part of your life. Your habits have a tremendous effect on who you are, and the impacts you make. Using people dehumanizes both them, and you. It makes it that much easier to contribute to pain and suffering in the world, as well as your own suffering.

We are on here to try to stop this kind of negative behavior. When we dehumanize others, and disregard our environment we create conditions that spread bad feeling and suffering through space and time.

I enjoyed this parable, thanks.

 

Lol

 

Not at all! I smoked for 18 years and once I stoped for 1.5 years only to fall into the trap again. So I struggled badly with it. Eventually a friend of mine grave me Allen Carr Easy Way to Stop Smoking. I read it and it was literally like walking through a tunnel and waking up a non smoker! I had no cravings, no weight gain, no longing for one, no need to use my will power. I would highly advise you get this book and read it ASAP! The guy went from smoking 3 packs a day to 0 without any problems. His clinics are open all around the world and he is the number one stop smoking guru there is. If I believed in magic pills I would say this book is such.....It was the easiest and most pleasurable thing I have ever done in my life! On day to day basis I even forgot I ever smoked! It is simply miracle! I feel like million dollars everyday for escaping this trap!

 

Lol hahaha what im saying is that a prostitute is there for sex and this help me to getung up , this was a tool for me to get my self steem and go on with mt life. Take this decision has nothing to do o how young u are or something. Im not saying to people to take this an habit but think for yourself if this will be worth it... anyway somentimes we think too much in others opinions and dont think for what is better for us ) if u want to do this just do with a condon and take u risk
Take a disease is bad ? Of course but if this situation get u sad just do , i mean is just sex haha

 

People generalize that alll åostitute dosnt want do what they do but dont , some girls wanna do wha they do ... its a profession u guys need to open your mind! Of course there a percebtage that doesnt want be there... in this case find a professional lux club and be happy hahaha. In this place the prostituyes are respected and they are there because they want it... i dont know where u live but im pretty sure u will find some nice place. Again is just sex

 

And for the people who dont agree with me thats ok i respect haha . I think different and im tell u this because when i was like months not having sex this help me a lot and i gain my confidence to date and go out or something...
Srry bad english im brazilian

 

I would definitely say don't do it. Sure your curious about what it would be like, but aren't you curious about a lot of other things? Wouldn't you like to know what it feels like to go bungee jumping, get into great shape, etc. Whether prostitutes like what they do or not, they all come with a risk of STDs (it doesn't matter if you wear a condom), they've all been with a bunch of other guys, maybe even five minute before you got there, and you likely won't enjoy it even half as much as you expect to. If you're worried about screwing up on your first time with your wife (or SO if you aren't waiting for marriage, which I disagree with, but that's probably a discussion for a different thread) don't be. You don't expect her to be great the first time, she won't hold you to unreasonably high standards either. And like others said earlier, prostitutes can be extremely addictive and even more damaging to your life than porn.

 

its not the curiosity , is the sensation of feeling bad of be a virgin ... if u feeling bad of being a virgin than do it . if is just the curiosity then whait a little longer. if the sadness of be a virgin take u down do something that YOU think right and worth it. take the control of u life. just hear and do what u really do

 

What's wrong with being a virgin? Society places too much importance on losing your virginity. It's not a sign of weakness or inability, it just means you haven't reached the point in your life where you are having sex. There is no reason to see virginity as a sign of being less masculine. That is a small minded approach that many people inherit without even realizing it.

 

agree , this is all about what he feels
no matter what the society imposes , but if he feels bad about it not see any problem
again this is all about his feels not the society imposition