i'm thinking about sleeping with a prostitute

If you ever are going to which i do not recommend, but its youre choiche you should go to germany or to holland where it is legal and most do it on there own free will and are happy doing that job.

 

Good for you,keep it that way. I gave in to the pressure 3 times. I wish I hadn't. Bet we move forward.

 

It's been said already but I want to stress on several points.

– You won't be able to emotionally connect with a prostitute. I think you underestimate the emotional part of sex. By skipping the meeting, flirting, building up tension, etc. you'd have with a “regular” girl, you're missing the most enjoyable part of sex in my opinion. I know it's hard to consider when you never did it, but you have to trust what we're all telling to you.

– The financial aspect. Think about how many dates and chances you can have by sparing the money you'd use to see a professional. Play the game. Even if you lose, you build up social experience and memories.

– The aftermath. I don't think you'll gain that much self-confidence by doing it with a pro. Self-confidence is what's most important in my opinion. Will you be proud of having lost your virginity to a women who does it for business? Will you really think you've learned how to give and receive genuine pleasure?

You have to be patient. I know it's hard. I've been told this as well, and didn't want to believe it neither. It's never too late, so take your time.

 

so if you're drunk did she rape you?

 

Don't bother, man. Take the money and the energy that you would have put toward a prostitute and put it toward self-improvement. Will it take longer? Yeah, absolutely. Will it be infinitely better when you eventually do have sex with someone who is genuinely interested in sharing that with you? Oh yeah. No question.

 

You seem to know what you're talking about on this topic....so, if it's okay, I would really like your advice....i definitely have PIED...it's horrible...so I sabotage relationships to not have sex with them...these women think I'm crazy...I'm just in so much pain....but can't talk to them about it...do you really feel I could reboot in a few months...?.I'm older and have been masterbating to porn for such a long time....I'm just reaching out.... I need a game plan....and some hope....thanks in advance for any advice

 

Good point. Never thought of it that way

 

I've been 3 times. Here's my take:

PROS
- you'll probably never get a chance to sleep with someone that hot in real life. I guess depending on where u go, some hookers look amazing and just as good if not better than adult stars.
- it can actually save time and money if all u want is sex. Going on dates for just sex can add up, especially when u dont succeed.
- get the whole virgin thing over and done with. Virginity is overrated.
- not gunna lie, on 1 ocassion the sex was pretty good.

CONS
- Risk of disease. This right here should end the argument.
- i actually failed to get an erection on 2 occasions. Im use to kissing during sex and foreplay to get in the mood, but with a hooker you can forget about it, unless u want to risk STD. Its cold and mechanical, like getting a medical procedure. Also the thought of being timed really killed my boner.
- shame afterwards. Think of the shame you feel after PMO and x100. Are u sure u want that?
- its expensive. If u get addicted, are u sure u can afford it? I mean, atleast PMO is free.
- the women hate it. There's nothing worse than having sex with someone who u sense really doesnt want to.
- morally wrong, supports people trafficking and possibly drug habits.

 

Hey OP
as someone who has delved into the sex industry to fuel porn fantasies etc I would NOT advise you to go through with this. I suffer from erectile dysfunction as well (due to porn...but my blood test results which will be coming out in 3 days will confirm or deny this) and I only able to maintain an erection ONCE (during oral sex foreplay; i lost it during penetration) in the many occasions I did hire a sex worker. If you suffer from low self esteem like me then it will also leave you depressed afterwards. However I know that in all honesty this decision stands with you alone; I found sex workers a toxic addiction and I know if you suffer the addiction I suffered and to some extent continue to feel then I know what I have written will fall on deaf ears. My best guess would be to put all your spare cash in a bank account to delay the 'itch' of spending it on pu##y.

God Bless
Carl Williams
Williams Family

 

If you are thinking of getting a girl friend just for sex, then you should see a prostitute.

 

Don't do it .. don't ever do it.. You will lose respect for yourself .. Dont do it ..

 

Prostitutes might have STD's. That, and do you really want your first sexual experience to be with someone who could care less about you?

 

http://www.cdc.gov/nchhstp/newsroom/2015/std-surveillance-report-press-release.html

http://www.hivdating.international/

Check this out, the numbers of STDs is increasing and super high! You can do it once only and have HIV for the rest of your life! Do you think it will not happen to you? So did all those who get a positive diagnosis! Do u know there are special HIV dating sites and they are growing fast! You might as well pick somebody from there as your chances that the hooker will have some extra present for you to catch is very high! There is nothing more beautiful than a clean healthy man! It is the society that tells you you must loose your virginity, you must be slim, you must have many sexual partners! This is all rubbish! SEX IS PART OF LOVE AND COMMITMENT AND RESPONSIBILITY!

I am sure there is a nice girl around the corner ready to love you! Sex for the sake of sex is worse than PMO! It will leave you feeling very cheep and if u are struggling with self esteam having empty sexual experience will not help you out but make the matters worse! Emotional connection is an important aspect of any sexual experience, without it is is ugly stuff man! It eats away your soul. It is enough to listen to P stars testimonies! After a while there is nothing left inside your heart!

 

If you pick on up on the street then yes otherwise most of those girls are obligated to get tested every month. If they are doing it legally, in Australia you actually have a bigger risk when you pick up a random girl in a bar and have sex whith her , then if you go to a legal brothel.

 

lol are u realy that naive? That girl can sleep with an HIV, HepB/C, herpies, HTLV, HPV, syphilis positive client just before she sleeps with you or 3 days before, or 4 days before of 14 days before. They can have sex with 2-5 man a day if not more. Do you know porn stars are tested monthly too? 36.9 milion people are living with HIV we know off. They are your nurses, waitresses, children at school or bankers! All of them thought they were safe ! Wake up man as you will be case 36.9 milion and 1 next month!
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/art...ale-performers-quarantined-fear-outbreak.html

https://www.aids.gov/hiv-aids-basics/hiv-aids-101/global-statistics/
Some countries can have 70-90% people infected with HepB!
http://www.who.int/csr/disease/hepatitis/whocdscsrlyo20022/en/index1.html
1 milion STDs are diagnosed daily worldwide.This is 1 milion people like you thinking it is safe and this will not happen to them per day! That makes 365 milion people per year!
http://www.who.int/mediacentre/factsheets/fs110/en/

Also do you know that some people after diagnosis purposely seeks sex to infect others? With enough meds on board anybody can test negative but continue to be infectious for HIV! If that was their profession all their life do u think they change their jobs after diagnosis?
Man! If you realy took your time and did your research you would never ever even dream of sex with unknown or untrustworthy person! You would pray to God every day thanking him for protecting you from all the plages of sexual liberation and thanking him for your virginity and health!

 

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/07/25/legalizing-prostitution-hiv_n_5618887.html
Professor of Sexual Health at Melbourne University, Christopher Fairley, said research showed monthly testing was unnecessary and a waste of public health resources because sex workers have much lower rates of STIs than other people.

This was backed by a recent study of patients at the Melbourne Sexual Health Centre which showed that of 2896 female sex workers tested for STIs over three years, only 3 per cent were positive.


Read more: http://www.theage.com.au/victoria/m...experts-say-20110530-1fctn.html#ixzz3xcAYa6YS
http://www.businessinsider.com/the-...rldwide-may-be-legal-prostitution-2014-7?IR=T

 

Lol you go ahead then man! No warning would defer the one whose mind is set on sex! We all make our choices in life and live with the consequences. It will not be me regretting 1 min O for the rest of my life.

 

Did you even read the articles ?

 

I did lol! It says only 55 percent of sex workers are using condoms with all their clients Do you know what....using condoms could also protect you from the risk of STD transmission but have you ever wondered why STD clinic grow like mushrooms everywhere now? The only way to protect you is not to sleep around! Condoms brake! U can contract things via blow job or a even a kis! U like reading inbetween the lines and you only accept info that confirms your belief that sex is safe. I have done my part trying to warn you and you do what you want. Your life and your STD You better make your next prostutute O really special so it is worth all the risks.