I appreciate that aspect of it as well. It is important to understand the struggle of the person who is addicted and I think I'm able to empathize pretty well with my husband and I would say this place has helped with that. What doesn't help is reading stories of women stuck in their betrayal trauma. It's not healthy for me. Yes, and it's something I do stick with because its helped me tremendously. I used to get awful migraines after I would binge on too much sugar. For me it isn't about weight loss, but just about being healthy. That's why I do it. Seems to me that I need to start only doing things that are healthy for me...should be my mantra. Thank you. Hope all is going well for you too!