Question about dating and marriage and porns effects on it

ac1909

Fapstronaut
Ok so personally, porn has made me change my views on the physical features i would want in a girl... OR AT LEAST I THINK THAT. I mean im sure everyone wants someone who looks great and evrrything but i want to ask the ones who have been successful with their reboot and are dating or getting married...
•Has it been hard to be genuinely turned on by your significant other?
•Have thoughts of porn come up while making love to them?

Itll probbaly be easier to understand why im asking these things if you know what exactly im worried about:
Porn has changed my views on girls, like i said, and led me to believe that i want someone who has a great body. Sometimes i think of a girl whos great and is mature and all the great things, but physically shes mot AMAZING. Im a strong believer that emotional connection and friendship and loyalty and evrrything has to be in a relationship for it to be happy. You can have a super model GF but if she treats you like crap, whats the point? So yes i believe in that but in scared, and wondering if thats sensation goes away during reboot and finding a partner. Do those feelings of wanting a great body ever go away? Im scared becuse i wouldnt want my future significant other to not feel like im genuinely aroused by her or love how she looks.

Sometimes my mind tells me “man if you get a gurl with a great body and marry her, youll never ever watch porn again, GUARANTEED” which couod be true but if i fall for a girl whos perfect in every other way, i also want to feel that same way as if i was with someone whos a super model. idk if you guys understand waht im saying... any help is appreciated! and im not dating nor looking yet, im just curious so i can prepare myself now and work on things thatll help me in the future. thank you
 
Sometimes my mind tells me “man if you get a gurl with a great body and marry her, youll never ever watch porn again, GUARANTEED”


Not true.
Yeah tbh that's just the lustful ego talking your mind more times than often I've learned tells you what to think and do but this is all in effort to keep you safe from experiencing life because the mind is protecting itself from your higher consciousness from taking over in this state there no past or future it's just you living in the present and moment and without thought you do and take every action out of love for yourself and when do that you're able to attract people who bring the best version out of ourselves
 
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