Day 0/90 Start again I am so easily triggered. My mind is not strong enough. I need to focus on God. Focus on prayer. And I'm going to write out whatever strategy for me to success. And on the morning of every day, I'm going to spend some time to think about why am I doing NoFap.
Day 13 complete. Going towards day 14. Only by obliterating the evil thoughts before they are created can we succeed! Hard mode is the best! Keep up!
Day 0/90 No PM Day 409 at attempting this challenge Day 140 weight training (M, W, F) Lifestyle: reduced caffeine, desserts and alcohol - stuck in a rut of self sabotage which I need to find my way out of
I have been having some girl issues. Like I have been talking to this girl for like almost a year. And I have told her multi times that I love her. Even though she used to escape such topics, everytime I brought them up. One day I insisted and she told she wouldnt date me. She was like, according to her test I was like a 6/10. But I told her I don't really care and I kept showing her that I love. We still talk now and are in good terms. But I don't get that love vibe back. Like she doesn't show that affection of love and care back. one time she told me that she wasn't ready for relationships untill marriage and she has never been in one. On Friday i sent her an audio describing her personalities and traits I liked about her and she said "wow, no one has ever described her like that". But also in the audio I told her to open up some more and share with me everything about her. Which she replied by saying "I want to but doesn't know what to do and what to say." Which i can help her with. The problem is I over think of her and it distracts me alot. I give her time which she doesn't give back the same way. I really want to be patient with her untill she realizes that am the one. But it pains alot showing her so much care and she doesn't respond the same way. Sorry to bother you with this. But any tips for me. Today I had decided to first leave her and give space as I focus on myself. But now am confused after she replied to my audio yesterday. Cause I sent it on Friday but she didn't reply it. Since she didn't reply it then I decided to give myself space. Now after seeing her reply yesterday. Am just confused
I am sorry, but I feel like she is not into you. You may end up in one sided relationship. Feelings don't just change that easily, if she said she ain't into you she may have meant exactly that. Be open bro, love is mutual.Still you never know, All the best kyali wange!
Day 11/90 -and herein lies the paradox -why is it that, as my mind begins to clear, I feel like I'm actually more prone to relapsing...?
Day 1 Going to try and take every day as day 1 in the sense of not letting pride build up....as soon as I feel confident in a steak that is where I put my guard down. We are only one action away from relapse at all times. I want to be confident in my ability to stay away from porn whilst staying humble and on guard! I am researching therapists in my area too... I want to be able to deal with my emotions in a healthy manner rather than using porn to numb myself.
Day 4 of this streak, in which my focus is to increase self love and thus eliminate the reasons for PM. I joined this forum 126 days ago. Of those 126 days, I was 116 days without PM.
