sexuality

Hatred can eliminate your desire for sexuality and bring you into a purer state of heart. Remind that Adam and Eve looked at each other completely naked and did not get horny. This pure state of heart is impossible to achieve without the guidance of hate. There are no NoFap practitioners who...

i’m 15. my addiction started when i was 11-12 and i’ve been doing it excessively. ive experienced most of the symptoms (low libido, low self esteem, weak reactions) it’s also seems like it has been changing my attraction even though i love women. i just don’t see them the same as when i first...

I'm new to nofap and have decided to fully commit myself to it. I'm keeping away from all pornography and masturbation. Whenever I keep away from it, I notice that my productivity and overall mood are much better. Porn feels so dehumanizing and detached from reality. One of my struggles is...

Hi everyone! I started reading a book called The Porn Trap and the first chapter made me think about what actually were my first encounters with porn and sexuality, how they were talked about at home, and how this all may have led to my issues with pornography and sexuality in general. I...

As a 15-year-old gay/homosexual teen who has been doing NoFap for months, it has come to my attention that a lot, and I mean A LOT of people have tried telling me I might not be gay, etc and I might actually be heterosexual/straight, due to various reasons, such as pornography. First of all, I...

This book was published in August this year by Perry, an English columnist for The Spectator and other publications. It's described as a critique of the sexual revolution, grounded in sociology, evolutionary biology and feminism. From the jacket copy: "Perry argues that the amoral libertinism...

Hello guys, first time participant here and I apologize in advance for the long post, but really need some assistance... I am a recovering porn/masturbation addict and have been an addict from a very young age (roughly 12 years old). I was always both completely fascinated by the female body...

I have had a very hard time with sexuality and I don't really know if I'm capable of forming a positive sexual relation with a woman. I suspect due to some trauma I began so associate sexual arousal with some pretty messed up stuff, namely vore and this is what I would primarily jerk off to...

Hey folks, Not going to write a massive story here but instead I want to give you some brief points about my sexual preferences with a little background. Started watching porn young (7 or 8) Very quickly became obssesed with pornographic images and videos Watched straight, lesbian and gay porn...

I'm sorry this post is a bit long but if you'd bear with me I would really really appreciate your input. I'm 27, BF is 31, we have been together for 3 years and recently moved in together. My BF has been porn and masturbation free for over a year, with no relapses (though the road there was...

I am bi/pan -sexual, and would consider myself a formless entity, that incarnated for the role of being a human -that out of the way, it is still cleary unusual for me to have such paralyzingly strong submissive sexual desires, since a week or so. It wouldnt be the first time, when higher...

Are you interested in a support telegram group for people who suffer from bad porn addiction, escalation in genres which causes extreme shame and make you suicidal, compulsive disorder etc.? I think together we are stronger than fighting alone against all this problems. I mean addiction itself...

I know that title is super clickbaity but I’m pretty desperate for advice. I'm gonna try and be as brief as possible so you'll read through, but I'll elaborate on anything, just let me know. I am over 6 months into nofap hard mode(doing school remote from home so not much opportunity for...

I was just thinking in my experiences struggling with PMO since i was 12 and got to the conclusion that this problem won't be solved once and for all unless me from inside changed like my thoughts and my ideas about sexuality. i think it's not about PMO abstinence for a period of time but about...

Good day! I wrote a free eBook "Simple Truths of Life" (by Evgeny Meshkov. The .pdf of the book i attached to this post) about everything that I have experienced and learned in my life - masturbation included. The acquired knowledge includes, but is not limited to, topics such as the meaning...

That title may seem a bit weird for most. But let me explain. When I was younger I was straight as a. . . something straight. I was still addicted to porn, but it was seemingly 'OK' at the time. I was roughly 14, so it was still a new experience and the downsides hadn't hit me yet...

Hey guys This is embarrassing to ask, but I'm curious. I've been a non-profit addict since 12, and had a question about so called "powers" . Ive never really been attracted to women( im not gay), I check them out sometimes, but I've never really cared much for them. I'm my third streak now, and...

For as long as I remember, at least when I was 16, I can only get turned on by crossdressers, not women, not men. Last month I was seriously thinking about meeting a crossdresser to see if I really was attracted to them. I don't know what turns me on, if it is the humiliation, or them being...

In my home, because of the religion (islam) and culture, there was never talked about sex. I learned it all from porn. I started watching at the age of 11. But it was not a good lesson for me. Porn never teached how real sex should be. I learned to have instant gratification. I watched those...

Hey, I’ve had hocd as long as I can remember even as a young as 9 always being uncomfortable with homosexuals I’ve never had anything against them and I still don’t now but I was getting an erection about girls this one night when I was 13 and I thought about a gay person long story short I was...

I'll cut straight to the point - I'm nearly 18, and I've had romantic inclinations towards girls throughout my time as a teenager. However, I've made use of pornography *heavily* to cope with loneliness and anxiety ever since I was 13, and I believe my sexual attraction to women is skewed to...

This is my first time actually posting in nofap. I have tried NoFap a couple of times but have never reached the 90 day mark. A couple years ago I got to day 60 and then relapsed. I kept using PMO for a while and just recently was able to get to day 44 before relapse. Right now I am on day 4...

Do you consider 'casual' / premarital sex good and healthy ? Is solitary masturbation less harmful than fornication (sex out of wedlock) ? What do you think of sexual purity (chastity, or abstinence for non-virgins) and sublimating the carnal pulses through positive outlets such as hobbies...

I've found myself admiring women, especially my age, that are more tasteful, not narcissistic, and not reserved necessarily, who enjoy having another intellect to speak with. Though this intelligence is not the end-all-be-all. Sexuality is important and a healthy amount of attention and...

Addicted to Porn: Chasing the Butterfly is a documentary I watched a year ago during my first streak of recovery. I understood the issue presented here stems further than science and morals can allow. How something as natural as sexuality becomes artificially regressive is not hard to realize...

Hey guys, I hope that if you're reading this you're doing well and living your best possible life. So, I am on around day 28 of hard-mode and I think this has been my longest streak since early teenage years. Very happy to experience some of the famous benefits which I would ultimately describe...

I feel like I've tried everything to get through this but the main thing getting in my way has been my self. It always has been. I almost went a whole month this time but I fell apart. Here's my mini story. I'm 25 years old and every since I was about 8 I've suffered from both anxiety and...

Hey everybody, I want to share my story for some advice and of course some encouragement and help. Forgive me if my english is not great but it's not my native language , please bear with me through this long story as a little of your time can help me a lot. My story involves porn addiction in...

Ever since i was little I’ve always loved girls, didn’t know sexual things because i was very young but i had crushes on girls, kissed a few, loved it all, would think about them before i went to sleep all of that. Started watching porn when i found it on twitter at around the age of 11 or 12...

Today I relapsed again for Gay porn. I think i became obsessed with Gay P. After O I took some time to take back steps and went to my beginning at PMO. What I got and after reading some posts here I really starting to doubt myself. Here's my PMO life-story or the journey down to hell. I really...

Hello Everybody, I am still on the path to giving up pornography, but, am still very much confused. I remember feeling attraction to females and only females, with an attraction to men, but never in a sexual manner. However, as my porn consumption over the years has increased, I have only had...

So I'm still into transgender pornography. (Yeah I still beat my meat to weird porn, sue me.) However I have given that sissy shit a miss for a long time now. I've (I think) been a fully straight man my entire life. However, TG porn kinda threw a spanner in the works. But why do I get off on...

Hey there nofap fam.Im 15 yo.The last month I'm in nofap, day 29,and I want to date a hot girl of my school.I made little research and saw cases in which men ejaculated when kissing a (hot) girl.So,how do I avoid that and getting too sexual?Any advice? Thanks

I am almost 25 and have been masturbating almost daily ever since I was in fifth grade. It started innocently enough, just VS models online when I got home from school. It slowly progressed over the years and I've moved into some really weird stuff. Very recently I have thought over my past...

Hello, i've been introduced by a friend to this. I'm 16, i study a lot and do boxing/gym. In the latest days i've had seen how i weren't ever actually taking a grip on girls, not because of shyness, but because i didn't feel the needing for it. I passed a lot of shit and i though that the reason...

Hello fellow NoFap members. I am new to this website, so if you want to give me advice, I'm all ears! Basically my story is I started noticing beautiful women at a young age and having crushes and such and around 11 or 12 I started watching porn every day and masturbating multiple times a day. I...

I see alot of threads with men wondering if they're bi or gay. Whether a man is or not, porn can certainly be the reason he first asks the question of himself, discovery or addiction? I had the same internal struggle for a year or two, only to realise I am not (though I would never count out the...

Guys, I really could use some help and feedback. I’m in my early 40’s and have been struggling with porn addiction since adolescence. I didn’t realize I had a bonafide adddiction until I was about 27 and met with some therapists. Since then I’ve seen well over a dozen different therapists with...

Hi i need some help i dont know if i am weird but sometimes i watch gay porn ; especifically cum tributes and i don't wanna fap anymore , i 'm not gay. But i watch that and for some reason i like it ,help me please. How i stop stroking Why the cum tributes likes me

Hi i need some help i dont know if i am weird but sometimes i watch gay porn ; especifically cum tributes and i don't wanna fap anymore , i 'm not gay. But i watch that and for some reason i like it ,help me please. How i stop stroking Why the cum tributes likes me

Hello, Let me start off by saying that I am new here and i'm very interested in becoming part of the community. I apologize if I do something wrong here as this is my first post. I am 24 years old and I have a porn addiction. I feel as though my addiction has become self destructive and has...

On Friday night, I realised that I had spent 5 hours masturbating. I even forgot dinner. As I lay on my bed, naked and ashamed, feeling dirty and guilty - I realised I needed to make a real change. A meaningful one. This is the start of my story. I am two people. The person I am to the world...

I have been reading over these posts for a while so i decided i should go ahead and tell my story. Id consider myself a prety typical Australian 17 year old; im into basketball, surfing, water polo etc. I would say that i suffer from severe depression or that my life is a mess. Anyway ill start...

Hello! I was encouraged to introduce myself to the community so here we go. I am a female in my late twenties, am all about music and literature with a special fascination for psychology and sociology. I also like partying and drugs. (Please let me know if talking about drugs is permitted in...

Hey it’s been maybe 15 days no porn but still looking at revealing photos to masturbate so I guess I’m weaning myself off porn but I’m still having thoughts that I might be gay I can tell that I like most women but still am having thoughts that I might be gay or bi all my life I liked women and...

I've been extremely attracted to women my whole life up until last week. When I started watching porn (been watching it for over 6 years) I started with straight and then lesbian and once that got old I moved to bisexual. Not because I considered myself attracted to men irl but I started...

Ok, so a pretty long text . I am 22 and have had a pretty traumatic up bringing where there was constant conflict in my life. When I was young I always crushed on men and never really thought about women but then when I was older and checked out porn I felt extremely aroused , especially...

I've heard of NoFap before. It's a great idea. I'm married (straight), 24 and porn has always been an issue. I also identify as big and lately, straight porn became boring. And since I don't find gay porn interesting, I decided to use Omegle to find gay/bi people to "trade pics with." I don't...

Hello All, As the title states, while I am very glad to have found this site/group, I'm also slightly dismayed that it only happened by accident. I came across an article online which listed the benefits of abstaining from pornography. While I didn't know whether or not I was "addicted" to...

Hey guys,I'm hoping that this is the right place to post this. Sorry if it's not. I am having a really hard time figuring out my sexuality. I've been feeling this way since I was about 14. I remember when I was 12, I had a gf. I was into her romantically and sexually, at the time I thought I...

Hi there, i want to ask one serious question that bothers me last days. I've started doing NoFap in the last week of August and soon it will be a month. During that time, i watched porn once but without MO. I am 19 now. Since 15-16 i started to watch gay porn, and the time has passed and i've...

I'm reading a book at the moment and I've just read the following: "For many, sexuality is simply what happens between two people involving physical pleasure. But that's only a small percentage of what sexuality is. Our sexuality is all of the ways we strive to reconnect with our world, with...

Hello Fapstronauts, I am new to NoFap, but not new to the struggle of change. I know the science, I know the harm, but I can never apply the knowledge to better myself. For about 3-4 years, I have kept my PMO addiction to myself out of fear that if my family knew, then I would be judged due to...

Greetings everyone, I'm currently 19 years old teen who wants to get rid of PMO once and for all, but that's not so easy for me. In fact, my problems are getting more stronger with suicidal thoughts, and also I'm questioning my own sexuality. So here's my problems, also sorry for my bad grammar...

Hello I am Med, I'm 18 years old and I am so glad because I found a new family, a new community and a new lifestyle, I'm glad to find your forum. I always remember Henry David Thoreau when he said in Walden : "Chastity is the flowering of men; and what are called Genius, Heroism, and the like...

I'm male 21, virgin and sexually confused, and since about 12 I've been watching porn. I can remember since I was about 4 having mad crushes on girls and women and even being drawn to them before I knew sex was a thing. I never noticed guys or saw them in a romantic or sexual way whatsoever...

Since this is the morning of my eighth day of sobriety, I thought this would be a good time to bring up some urges I've been having. In the last 48 hours I've found myself getting very aroused naturally and different times during the day. They were REALLY hard...felt like I would have orgasmed...

Hey all, I just wanted to say that as of 20 minutes ago I have officially been sober for a week's time! It's a short time but I feel so relieved :) The last few days have been tougher on me though. A former stalker of mine reached out to me at work and I had to shut him up in front of some...

I really need help people. This is from my personal journal Today was a really hard day. I had constant reoccurring thoughts and desires to go and hook up with this older man who was the first person to get me off. He made me feel amazing and he was very kind, but I just can't...I am...

I am a 15 year old male. When I was 13/14, I started watching porn and masturbating. Since then, I've been doing it pretty much every day. Back when I started, things were way different to what they are now. I remember only being interested in girls, but now, I find myself having fantasies of...

Hi, I am 21 year old college student who desperately needs some help..... Since the age of 13 I have watched Gay Porn regularly, it intrigued me then and it intrigues me now, I also use Snap Chat as a way of looking at explicit pictures and videos. But the problem I face is I literally think...

Hi Everyone from NoFap, I'm writing this because I needed somewhere to write all of the things that I have been going through over the past few months, if not years and perhaps the majority of my life. I have looked into this phenomenon generally categorized under sex addiction. Today, I...

I am becoming more and more aware of the psychological damage that PMO has done to me over the years. I have realised that it has confused my sexuality massively and eroded my connection with my inner masculinity. For years I have thought I was bi-sexual because of what I thought was an...

Hi guys, I'm making this thread because I need some advice from those who have been in the same situation, lately I've feeling so lonely, I have great friends but I don't have someone to share my thougths, my fears, my darkest sins and It sucks because once I had kind of a girlfriend and She...