tantra

  1. Finn The Human

    What is your optimum retention period?

    Back on NoFap. Have been thinking a fair deal about how to deal with ejaculation or retention over the past few days. Also did online research on the topic. It is safe to say that there is no real trustworthy source (i.e. a scientific paper) ultimately confirming or denying benefits and/or...
  2. Brahmacharya_UK

    Mantak Chia - Taoist Practices

    I happened upon this dude from a LondonReal podcast and it's piqued my interest. Are we allowed to discuss it here? Basically the idea seems to me not to be afraid of your sexuality, but rather embrace it and he gives exercises like "Sharpening the Knife". Since I abstained from PMO nearly 90...
  3. modern milarepa

    Female orgasm is healthy in tao and tantra

    As a tantric and taoist practitioner for many years I cherish semen retention but in women orgasm is healthy it releases stress, emotional burdens. In sex women are different than us men, tantra and tao search for female orgasm not to avoid it. The most important aspect in tantra for a woman...
  4. modern milarepa

    538 days. Extremism vs naturality in NoFap

    Current streak: 538 days no PMO, semen retention NoFap can fall into an extremist mentality the name say it all “NO” “FAP”. Its extreme it implies you should not do it. Whenever I used to be in a difficult situation my response was to go to an extreme mentality: no sex, no women, no this no...
  5. modern milarepa

    510 days new benefits

    Current streak: 510 days no PMO, semen retention. After 500 days streak I have noticed several new benefits: - I don’t watch anything on YouTube. I have not blocked it; simply my mind does not like it anymore. It was an issue, I wasted too much time on it - I have more energy in general - I...
  6. modern milarepa

    My first non sexual date ever

    All my dates usually ended up in sex or with a lot kissing and touching. Even first dates. I had an argument with my girlfriend two months ago and we didn't talk since then. Until last sunday we started talking again. Yesterday I saw her, I knew she was tired from work and busy but made...
  7. modern milarepa

    Pleasure, feelings and other demons

    Love can turn into hate, pleasure becomes suffering. Happiness in sadness. All these are extreme states of mind, you can’t keep any of them forever. Suffering comes from getting attached to these shallow feelings and states of mind. I find the middle path a stoic approach sort to speak more...
  8. modern milarepa

    Men don’t grow

    I’ve seen many old men that have the emotional intelligence of a 15 years old. We men are very smart, creative but in terms of sexuality, dating and emotional intelligence we are pretty much ignorant, most men only care for how the girl looks and that is it. Girls and sexuality are complex...
  9. modern milarepa

    500 days. The dance of reality

    Current streak: 500 days no PMO, semen retention There is one thing I did different on this streak: movement and dancing. I never think of PMO or sex when I know I am going to dance or move, because if moving and dancing are an expression of my energy if I PMO, I will not express quality...
  10. modern milarepa

    497 days, the secret to have a successful long streak

    Current streak: 497 days no PMO, semen retention There is a story of two very advanced yogis that went to search teachings from this master. The master told them that they were not ready and they should go and do semen retention for some years and then come back, after some years they came...
  11. modern milarepa

    494 days, open mind

    Current streak: 494 days no PMO, semen retention “If your mind is empty, it is always ready for anything; it is open to everything. In the beginner's mind there are many possibilities; in the expert's mind there are few!" Zen Mind, Begginer’s Mind- Shunryu Suzuki. This streak has given me many...
  12. modern milarepa

    Best advice for dating and relationships

    Current streak: 484 days no PMO, semen retention Be sex independent that is it. If you can live without sex, masturbation, porn. Even without sex while having sex with a girlfriend, meaning that if all of the sudden she breaks up with you or she simply doesn’t want to have sex any long you...
  13. modern milarepa

    481 days. Life as a meditation

    Current streak: 481 days no PMO, semen retention. Warning: if you are religious, think celibacy is the way, meditation is from satan, sex is for only making babies refrain to reply, this is for whom like this type of practices. “The essence of the Way is detachment. And the goal of those who...
  14. modern milarepa

    478 days. Meditations to balance sexual energy

    Current streak: 478 days no PMO, semen retention Warning: if you think meditation is from satan or all this makes no sense for your rational mind please refrain to reply. This is only for those who like this type of practices. These are the main meditations I do in order to balance sexual...
  15. modern milarepa

    spiritual quotes about, celibacy, sex, lust

    this thread is about posting quotes, teachings related to sex sublimation,tantra, taoism, celibacy, lust, desire from any spiritual perspective post your quote here
  16. modern milarepa

    477 days, Why I don’t ejaculate or masturbate

    Current streak: 477 days no PMO, semen retention 48 days no sex, I had non ejacualtory sex during the streak which if done right with the right girl can give you lots of energy. One of the main reasons I don’t masturbate is that when I do I feel I’ve been defeated by lust, I lose my face to...
  17. modern milarepa

    476 days fappers hate this simple trick

    Current streak: 476 days no PMO, semen retention This is an advice that my father a real tantric master told me yesterday “First of all recognize the illusion of this world, the materiality and mundanity of women in general, you need to have clear concepts about the deceit of the material...
  18. modern milarepa

    474 days. Monk vs relationship (from a former monk perspective)

    Current streak: 474 days no PMO, semen retention I was a monk, I lived in a monastery, and also I was a voluntary celibate for many years, I had this notion since 10 y.o to be a free man and my happiness needed to be independent from any external source, including girls. At some point in...
  19. modern milarepa

    We are all crazy

    I have spent my fair share of time with mental patients and they are not so different from regular people, the only difference I see is they create an illusion over the illusion or a dream inside a dream. Let's take the example of the schizophrenic arguing with his cat that thinks he must fight...
  20. modern milarepa

    Bro you are not real

    Bro what if the ego, sensory experiences, conceptual and emotional mind are just a fantasy. Brooooooooo
  21. modern milarepa

    95 years old hustler semen retention secret

    95 Y.O: this is the gay liberation flag Interviewer: you got the flag cos’ you’re here to support? 95 Y.O: no I’m here to get that food when they bring it out here Interviewer: oh you got it so they give you food. So the flag is just a hustle 95 Y.O: yeah it’s a hustle. I’m 95 years old...
  22. modern milarepa

    462 days. How to be successful with girls

    Current streak: 462 days semen retention I've been somehow successful with girls, I've been asked this question quite often lately here in nofap so I'm my experience I'm going to write how to deal with girls Being the best version of yourself this will make you attractive to girls, without...
  23. modern milarepa

    Why are you not in a challenge?

    Current streak: 463 days semen retention I see people specially in the status posts that are not in a challenge. I consider this the most important aspect of the Nofap page. We can talk a lot but at the end of the day is overcoming your PMO/sexual problem. And having a streak, not relapsing...
  24. modern milarepa

    Even the strongest men can fall by the power of sex

    Yesterday I visited an old friend he was one of the strongest guys I ever met, big guy and really strong very few people I know could out lift him in the gym in his prime, probably professional open bodybuilders and gold olympic athletes are the few people I've seen in real life that can lift...
  25. R

    advice please

    hi , i have impulsive porn addiction for porn escilly kinks and fetishes and i have premature ejaculation sometimes erectile dysfunction . i wanna should i do nofap or semen retention (masturbation without ejaculation) what is better for me because everytime i think about practsing nofap i...
  26. modern milarepa

    458 days. Attraction story dating models

    Current streak: 458 days no PMO, semen retention Some days ago I made the conscious choice of not caring any longer if I get a girl or not. I simply stop caring about it. But not in a negative way or out of frustration, I simply felt I could live happy with or without a girl. This gave me a...
  27. modern milarepa

    449 days. Increasing female attraction, forget about sex

    Current streak: 449 days semen retention Treating women differently I'm starting to treat women as friends, they open up more and are willing to show you their soft side. It's a great way to get to know each other. But it hasn't turn out the way I expected. It seems the girls feel even more...
  28. modern milarepa

    445 days. Nofap and break ups, attraction story

    Current streak: 445 days no PMO, semen retention I just broke up with my girlfriend like 2 days ago she's a 10/10 physically but in the long run I knew we weren't meant to be together. It was hard I knew or believed I couldn't find a better girl. Also the emotional aspect had me a little down...
  29. modern milarepa

    437 days, no PMO, semen retention. This is why porn is bad

    Current streak: 437 days no PMO, semen retention The main reason porn is bad is you are mixing a physical activity (sex) with a mental activity(porn) A woman with emotional burden, a psychological trauma, specially related to sex or romantic love and has this memories constantly in her mind...
  30. modern milarepa

    431 days no PMO, semen retention while having sex

    Current streak: 431 days no PMO, semen retention If you want I explain this in a more simple manner on this other thread: https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/437-days-no-pmo-semen-retention-this-is-why-porn-is-bad.313145/ I’ve been sexually active while doing this streak. I only stopped...
  31. modern milarepa

    20 years practising NoFap, semen retention I explain all my secrets and methods here

    I have practiced and studied tantra and tao for 20 years, my father is an expert in Tao or non-ejaculatory sex and has taught me. I was a monk living in a monastery for some time. I’m a physician, I’m good dealing with girls, sports and everyday problems. In this thread I’ll explain all the...
  32. modern milarepa

    This is a good reason to relapse

    Current streak:409 days no PMO, semen retention There's never a good reason to relapse, don't let your mind trick you. Conclusion: don't relapse it sucks
  33. modern milarepa

    I never have urges, this is how you fight and erase urges forever

    Current streak: 408 days no PMO, semen retention What is an urge and what causes it? The urge is a mental and physical tension build up in a streak caused by an excess of sexual energy that is not balanced meaning in men an excess of male energy with a lack of female energy to balance it up so...
  34. modern milarepa

    Masturbation can be very healthy this is how

    Current streak: 407 days no PMO, semen retention Clarification : usually I advice to do this practice if you already have high amounts of energy and some type of reboot and self control or at least 150 days streak, otherwise this practice can make you relapse or drain the little sexual energy...
  35. modern milarepa

    This is the mind of a man who has done 20 years of no ejaculation

    Current streak: 405 days no PMO, semen retention The math: I started masturbation at 13 years old and at that age I did most of my fapping the first month on average 8 MO in a day the first 20 days that makes 160 orgasms, then I came back to my senses and started working out and I just stopped...
  36. modern milarepa

    An easy trick to never ejaculate, masturbate or be fooled by any girl

    Current streak: 404 days no PMO, semen retention a nice palindrome number One of the easiest ways to never masturbate and to do as you please in terms of being under control of your sexuality is saying no to a very beautiful girl. These two scenarios happened to me on sunday and yesterday...
  37. modern milarepa

    Orgasm is a metaphysical need to feel we are one with everything.

    Current streak: 400 days no PMO, semen retention. Orgasm is a way to feel alive to connect to the universe to feel one with everything at least that few seconds everything becomes one single feeling. But just like the heroin addict, constant ejaculation messes your body, energy and mind, it’s...
  38. modern milarepa

    Techniques to avoid wet dreams

    Current streak: 399 days no PMO semen retention To reduce wet dreams: Learn to do nauli kriya. You have to block all your pelvic muscles when the need to ejaculate appears in the dream. It's like contracting to the inside your abs like hiding your stomach, contract your glutes, anus, also...
  39. modern milarepa

    392 days no PMO, you need to give up love

    Current streak: 392 days no PMO, semen retention. There are three areas required to master sexuality: your body, mind and heart. Body: it means monogamous sex, celibacy, semen retention, sexual moderation. Mind: not craving sex. Heart: not being attached to happiness when you experience sexual...
  40. modern milarepa

    My techniques to control premature ejaculation and have non ejaculatory sex

    Current streak: 386 days no PMO, semen retention The first time I had sex I was 25 y.o. a late bloomer. I had more than 1hr of sex non stop really fast and I didn't felt the need to ejaculate once. I'm natural at it, the girl was very hot. I have been an avid reader and practitioner of non...
  41. modern milarepa

    The secret to be a great lover

    Current streak: 384 days no PMO, semen retention. I consider myself a great lover, since the first time I had sex I was good at it. All the girls I had sex have told me how surprised they are after having sex with me, they had many orgasms and felt things they never felt before. Also the way I...
  42. modern milarepa

    My father introduced me to porn and I'm glad he did

    Current streak: 384 days no PMO, semen retention. The first time I watched porn I was 15 y.o my father had some VHS movies and he gave them to me. I watched them, it was regular boy and girl porn. I PMO 10 times with them. Then I never watched porn again until I was 25 years old and started to...
  43. modern milarepa

    Lucid dreaming to overcome PMO, 384 days nofap

    Counter:384 days no PMO, semen retention. I have lucid dreams since I can remember when I was 7 years old and I was trying to escape Freddy Krueger in my sleep haha My father likes lucid dreaming a lot he gave me books and teachings about the subject. At age 12 and until 24 years old I was...
  44. modern milarepa

    Prostitution can be good and sacred

    Counter: 383 days no PMO, semen retention. I just gave a deep thought about this subject. It's going to be controversial. If your religion it's against sex out of marriage, only meant for procreation, you are a very moralistic person this thread it's not for you. You have been warned. I always...
  45. modern milarepa

    381 days no PMO I just had sex with a 10/10 girl

    Counter: 381 days no PMO, semen retention It's been 99 days after I broke up with my girlfriend so no sex since then even do many girls want to have sex with me, but I didn't find that girl with the wow factor you know the one you see and say this is the one. Yesterday I found a beautiful...
  46. modern milarepa

    Relapsed after almost 3 years

    Current streak: 380 days no PMO, semen retention More than a decade ago I almost did 3 years streak of no PMO, semen retention and no sex. When I started the streak I was obsessed into getting in medical school and learning to play the violin. That was my only focus I was distracted by nothing...
  47. modern milarepa

    I'm starting to cold approach girls

    Counter: 378 days no PMO, semen retention It's been some weeks since I started to make cold approaches, it's my first time doing it. I used to be more into dating apps. So far it's being a success and I've become better and better as I do it more. But after the first approach to a girl I...
  48. modern milarepa

    371 days No PMO. The key to master sex

    Counter: 371 days no PMO semen retention There was a point in my journey where simply I made click and after that day PMO, casual sex or choosing the wrong girl was no longer a problem. I can be in front of the most beautiful girl or a cute girl can text me but if she has a low vibration she...
  49. modern milarepa

    Choosing between doing sports or having sex?

    This is an imaginary question If I have to choose between having sex with the most beautiful girl in the world all my life or between hitting the gym I choose the gym. I really love the gym it has helped me through many difficult times of my life, I'm very grateful to do exercises since I can...
  50. modern milarepa

    Sense control and porn/sex addiction

    Counter: 353 days no PMO, semen retention Sex/masturbation is just another form of sensual gratification. If a person can not stop watching YouTube videos, scrolling on the internet non stop, spends all day playing video games, eats too much, drinks, smokes, sleeps too much that is a person...
  51. modern milarepa

    Attracting 10/10 and quality girls. 350 days no PMO streak

    Counter: 350 days no PMO, semen retention These days I’ve encounter some girls and they have been interested in me, they even start the conversation. Most of them have really good energy, very beautiful, are 13-15 years younger than me, some never had or maybe 1-2 boyfriends, virgins. Also, I...
  52. modern milarepa

    The Yin Yang master

    It looks like an awesome movie. I just saw the trailer
  53. modern milarepa

    11 months no PMO, semen retention cracking the code

    Counter: 334 days no PMO, semen retention Benefits: Health: never get sick, more strong and flexible More emotional control Clear mind: More focus to study and making choices Improved social skills, more funny and relax around people Crazy attraction: girls look and talk to me more, even send...
  54. modern milarepa

    Name your favorite book about semen retention and sex transmutation and why

    Mine are Practice of brahmacharya by Swami sivananda Even do is a book for monks one can take valuable teachings for semen control and retention. The taoist secrets of love cultivating male sexual energy by Mantak Chia He gives very profound insights of what tantric/taoist sex is.
  55. LoveIsAllWeNeed

    Rebooting

    Hi all, I am a 60 year old male who has started a new life without porn. I've been watching Mantak Chia and read about Tantra and Dao and Life Energy they call Chi and decided I want more of that Life Energy. I have been leading a life without porn now since October 12th 2018. My goal is to have...
  56. ForeverChanges

    Dry Orgasm?

    Can somebody tell me if a dry orgasm sends the semen to the bladder or semen remains in the body? I am talking about an orgasm performed the way Mantak Chia and other gurus teach. When you have sex with women they normally expect you to cum. When this does not happen they feel disappointed and...
  57. LabyrinthBC

    Pagan Fapstronauts?

    I've come to NoFap as a long-time pagan (Wicca, Druidry, Animism), and in my spiritual traditions, sexuality is viewed as sacred, but I also have to admit that modern culture has taken it into unhealthy territory, having stripped much of its sacredness, and promoted empty substitutes. However...
  58. D

    Gay male Karezza, Karezza with two guys

    Hey folks, Just posting to ask if anyone here has had any experience with Karezza between two guys. I understand that Karezza (slow, gentle, habitual, nonorgasmic, spiritual intimacy between partners) is such a niche subject already, so to find information for gay men is even harder. Even...
  59. Uncultivated

    Tantra/Koundalini Meditation and Practice as Opposite to Porn

    https://www.consciousreminder.com/2017/04/27/tantra-opposite-porn-learning-actually-intimate/ A friend wrote this article. IDC about your views on koundalini practice, yoga, active visualization, soulgasm, meditation, and tantra, I'm not here to argue, whatever your position is, it's 100%...
  60. D

    Watching documentaries on sex and tantra

    I need to ask a question. I know as part of the NoFap challenge one is not supposed to watch porn. But I have documentaries on sex and tantra which I hope to learn as part of self-improvement. I already have them and hope to watch them as I havnt watched all of them yet. The purpose of sexual...
  61. onmyway

    I'm onmyway - in Germany with wife and escorts

    So finally I decided to join nofap. I just wrote down my first post now – the introduction of myself. It has become a long post. But writing it down already helped me to get a bit of clarity where I stand right now and where I want to get. Well, where shall I begin? I’m 35 years old, live in...
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