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I happened upon this dude from a LondonReal podcast and it's piqued my interest. Are we allowed to discuss it here? Basically the idea seems to me not to be afraid of your sexuality, but rather embrace it and he gives exercises like "Sharpening the Knife". Since I abstained from PMO nearly 90...

As a tantric and taoist practitioner for many years I cherish semen retention but in women orgasm is healthy it releases stress, emotional burdens. In sex women are different than us men, tantra and tao search for female orgasm not to avoid it. The most important aspect in tantra for a woman...

Current streak: 538 days no PMO, semen retention NoFap can fall into an extremist mentality the name say it all “NO” “FAP”. Its extreme it implies you should not do it. Whenever I used to be in a difficult situation my response was to go to an extreme mentality: no sex, no women, no this no...

Current streak: 510 days no PMO, semen retention. After 500 days streak I have noticed several new benefits: - I don’t watch anything on YouTube. I have not blocked it; simply my mind does not like it anymore. It was an issue, I wasted too much time on it - I have more energy in general - I...

All my dates usually ended up in sex or with a lot kissing and touching. Even first dates. I had an argument with my girlfriend two months ago and we didn't talk since then. Until last sunday we started talking again. Yesterday I saw her, I knew she was tired from work and busy but made...

Love can turn into hate, pleasure becomes suffering. Happiness in sadness. All these are extreme states of mind, you can’t keep any of them forever. Suffering comes from getting attached to these shallow feelings and states of mind. I find the middle path a stoic approach sort to speak more...

I’ve seen many old men that have the emotional intelligence of a 15 years old. We men are very smart, creative but in terms of sexuality, dating and emotional intelligence we are pretty much ignorant, most men only care for how the girl looks and that is it. Girls and sexuality are complex...

Current streak: 500 days no PMO, semen retention There is one thing I did different on this streak: movement and dancing. I never think of PMO or sex when I know I am going to dance or move, because if moving and dancing are an expression of my energy if I PMO, I will not express quality...

Current streak: 497 days no PMO, semen retention There is a story of two very advanced yogis that went to search teachings from this master. The master told them that they were not ready and they should go and do semen retention for some years and then come back, after some years they came...

Current streak: 494 days no PMO, semen retention “If your mind is empty, it is always ready for anything; it is open to everything. In the beginner's mind there are many possibilities; in the expert's mind there are few!" Zen Mind, Begginer’s Mind- Shunryu Suzuki. This streak has given me many...

Current streak: 484 days no PMO, semen retention Be sex independent that is it. If you can live without sex, masturbation, porn. Even without sex while having sex with a girlfriend, meaning that if all of the sudden she breaks up with you or she simply doesn’t want to have sex any long you...

Current streak: 481 days no PMO, semen retention. Warning: if you are religious, think celibacy is the way, meditation is from satan, sex is for only making babies refrain to reply, this is for whom like this type of practices. “The essence of the Way is detachment. And the goal of those who...

Current streak: 478 days no PMO, semen retention Warning: if you think meditation is from satan or all this makes no sense for your rational mind please refrain to reply. This is only for those who like this type of practices. These are the main meditations I do in order to balance sexual...

Current streak: 477 days no PMO, semen retention 48 days no sex, I had non ejacualtory sex during the streak which if done right with the right girl can give you lots of energy. One of the main reasons I don’t masturbate is that when I do I feel I’ve been defeated by lust, I lose my face to...

Current streak: 476 days no PMO, semen retention This is an advice that my father a real tantric master told me yesterday “First of all recognize the illusion of this world, the materiality and mundanity of women in general, you need to have clear concepts about the deceit of the material...

Current streak: 474 days no PMO, semen retention I was a monk, I lived in a monastery, and also I was a voluntary celibate for many years, I had this notion since 10 y.o to be a free man and my happiness needed to be independent from any external source, including girls. At some point in...

I have spent my fair share of time with mental patients and they are not so different from regular people, the only difference I see is they create an illusion over the illusion or a dream inside a dream. Let's take the example of the schizophrenic arguing with his cat that thinks he must fight...

Bro what if the ego, sensory experiences, conceptual and emotional mind are just a fantasy. Brooooooooo

95 Y.O: this is the gay liberation flag Interviewer: you got the flag cos’ you’re here to support? 95 Y.O: no I’m here to get that food when they bring it out here Interviewer: oh you got it so they give you food. So the flag is just a hustle 95 Y.O: yeah it’s a hustle. I’m 95 years old...

Current streak: 462 days semen retention I've been somehow successful with girls, I've been asked this question quite often lately here in nofap so I'm my experience I'm going to write how to deal with girls Being the best version of yourself this will make you attractive to girls, without...

Current streak: 463 days semen retention I see people specially in the status posts that are not in a challenge. I consider this the most important aspect of the Nofap page. We can talk a lot but at the end of the day is overcoming your PMO/sexual problem. And having a streak, not relapsing...

Yesterday I visited an old friend he was one of the strongest guys I ever met, big guy and really strong very few people I know could out lift him in the gym in his prime, probably professional open bodybuilders and gold olympic athletes are the few people I've seen in real life that can lift...

Current streak: 449 days semen retention Treating women differently I'm starting to treat women as friends, they open up more and are willing to show you their soft side. It's a great way to get to know each other. But it hasn't turn out the way I expected. It seems the girls feel even more...

Current streak: 445 days no PMO, semen retention I just broke up with my girlfriend like 2 days ago she's a 10/10 physically but in the long run I knew we weren't meant to be together. It was hard I knew or believed I couldn't find a better girl. Also the emotional aspect had me a little down...

Current streak: 431 days no PMO, semen retention If you want I explain this in a more simple manner on this other thread: https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/437-days-no-pmo-semen-retention-this-is-why-porn-is-bad.313145/ I’ve been sexually active while doing this streak. I only stopped...

I have practiced and studied tantra and tao for 20 years, my father is an expert in Tao or non-ejaculatory sex and has taught me. I was a monk living in a monastery for some time. I’m a physician, I’m good dealing with girls, sports and everyday problems. In this thread I’ll explain all the...

Current streak:409 days no PMO, semen retention There's never a good reason to relapse, don't let your mind trick you. Conclusion: don't relapse it sucks

Current streak: 408 days no PMO, semen retention What is an urge and what causes it? The urge is a mental and physical tension build up in a streak caused by an excess of sexual energy that is not balanced meaning in men an excess of male energy with a lack of female energy to balance it up so...

Current streak: 407 days no PMO, semen retention Clarification : usually I advice to do this practice if you already have high amounts of energy and some type of reboot and self control or at least 150 days streak, otherwise this practice can make you relapse or drain the little sexual energy...

Current streak: 405 days no PMO, semen retention The math: I started masturbation at 13 years old and at that age I did most of my fapping the first month on average 8 MO in a day the first 20 days that makes 160 orgasms, then I came back to my senses and started working out and I just stopped...

Current streak: 404 days no PMO, semen retention a nice palindrome number One of the easiest ways to never masturbate and to do as you please in terms of being under control of your sexuality is saying no to a very beautiful girl. These two scenarios happened to me on sunday and yesterday...

Current streak: 400 days no PMO, semen retention. Orgasm is a way to feel alive to connect to the universe to feel one with everything at least that few seconds everything becomes one single feeling. But just like the heroin addict, constant ejaculation messes your body, energy and mind, it’s...

Current streak: 399 days no PMO semen retention To reduce wet dreams: Learn to do nauli kriya. You have to block all your pelvic muscles when the need to ejaculate appears in the dream. It's like contracting to the inside your abs like hiding your stomach, contract your glutes, anus, also...

Current streak: 392 days no PMO, semen retention. The easiest way to get rid of PMO or sexual imbalances is outdoor sports and long walks. The energy gets balanced if you do some running every day or some type of physical exercise. Exercise releases dopamine so less need to get it from porn...

Current streak: 392 days no PMO, semen retention. There are three areas required to master sexuality: your body, mind and heart. Body: it means monogamous sex, celibacy, semen retention, sexual moderation. Mind: not craving sex. Heart: not being attached to happiness when you experience sexual...

Current streak: 386 days no PMO, semen retention The first time I had sex I was 25 y.o. a late bloomer. I had more than 1hr of sex non stop really fast and I didn't felt the need to ejaculate once. I'm natural at it, the girl was very hot. I have been an avid reader and practitioner of non...

Current streak: 384 days no PMO, semen retention. I consider myself a great lover, since the first time I had sex I was good at it. All the girls I had sex have told me how surprised they are after having sex with me, they had many orgasms and felt things they never felt before. Also the way I...

Counter:384 days no PMO, semen retention. I have lucid dreams since I can remember when I was 7 years old and I was trying to escape Freddy Krueger in my sleep haha My father likes lucid dreaming a lot he gave me books and teachings about the subject. At age 12 and until 24 years old I was...

Counter: 383 days no PMO, semen retention. I just gave a deep thought about this subject. It's going to be controversial. If your religion it's against sex out of marriage, only meant for procreation, you are a very moralistic person this thread it's not for you. You have been warned. I always...

Counter: 353 days no PMO, semen retention Sex/masturbation is just another form of sensual gratification. If a person can not stop watching YouTube videos, scrolling on the internet non stop, spends all day playing video games, eats too much, drinks, smokes, sleeps too much that is a person...

Hi all, I am a 60 year old male who has started a new life without porn. I've been watching Mantak Chia and read about Tantra and Dao and Life Energy they call Chi and decided I want more of that Life Energy. I have been leading a life without porn now since October 12th 2018. My goal is to have...

My initial goals: A soft reboot, 2 weeks no PM, which I wish to follow with another 3 weeks of no PMO. Then who knows! So 7 days into a soft reboot of 2 weeks no PM, (I have actually done no PMO for now) and yesterday I felt quite strange. Hard to put my finger on it, but will try. I felt...

Hi! I’ve just joined the community and I think it’s a great idea, personally and socially. Also reckon myself and probably many others can benefit, including some of my friends. Years ago whilst following the philosophy of TAO, I abstained from masturbation and ejaculation during sex and felt...