19 Year Old NO NUT NOVEMBER 2019 [SEMEN RETENTION]

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by YoungPiccolo, Jan 1, 2019.

  1. Someone B

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    Dude at start I understand that you're like that but try to not count the day but at contrary make the days count. I think if you count the day it looks like this : a man that make abstinence from sex huh, ok let's say he reach one week. At the end of the week he say "hey honey, now it's one full week that I haven't had sex" .
    Don't you think it sound like a subliminal message like "I have wait, now it's fap (sex) time" ?
    I don't say that it's bad to count the days, I just say it could be helpful too to not make a focus on this, because I know, I use the day counter too.
     
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    Oh and one last thing guys, @letsgetthisbrot and @niceguy97 are you francophone, french or are you just able to understand french ? Because I'm french so if I could write in french here c'est plus pratique pour moi mais sinon no problem I'll do my best in english ^^
     
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  3. letsgetthisbrot

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    @Someone B je parle le creole haitien et aussi j'apprenais le francais depuis 4 ans alors tu peut ecrire en francais et je comprendrai la plupart de ca que tu dis
     
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  4. patd

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    Day 45, now it looks like easy way.
    Today coach asked me if I want to join football team at my university, Of course, I said yes. I' m taking it as part of my journey with NoFap. How you doing guys?
    Such a French posts recently. I hope that you will not forget about English :)
     
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  5. niceguy97

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    Im learnin french, I can understand a lil bit of it, but I'd prefer english tbh, much easier, also keep in mind the others in this thread lol
     
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  6. Someone B

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    Well guys don't worry I'll write in english I was just a question ^^ I know a lot of you are english native speakers so english is a better choice.
    I'm going through day 4. Hope you're well too, wish the best for you guys.
    I'm not gonna tell all my life here but since yesterday, I'm feeling really low mentally and emotionally, I hope it's not your case.
     
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  7. niceguy97

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    @Someone B lows are followed by highs bro, just wait for it :). As for me, today's treated me well. I went on the treadmill, which I haven't done in a while. we gucci 7th day
     
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  8. niceguy97

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    You fell again, too bad.
    But I also fall a lot of times in a few days of abstinence.
    Sorry I don't have an analogy to tell you yet but I can tell you this: I'm currently at a very low level mentally and emotionally but I'm not going to fall for it, find a clear goal and focus on it. If you really want to achieve your goal you should not fall much less often (because having a goal doesn't make you totally sure of yourself but it guides you).
     
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  11. niceguy97

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    thx homies <3

    imma try to focus on 2 main things: workout, meditate. I added another phrase in a thing that I'll be using when I'm suffering from urges
     
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  12. Someone B

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    Back to square 0, well it's not that I have nothing to say but... my gf or ex make me feel powerless againt our ranking at university. Because of that, we'll be separate for the rest of our study (at least a sliding year) and in medicine it's not 5 years of study but twice more. And I don't know how but I find myself to see a documentary about an ex actress working in the industry of porn, and she was saying that porn is just a way to feel excited, it's not dirty etc. She's right but for people who knows that they haven't problem with porn like me... I saw 2 shorts videos last night and this morning I saw one more when I woke up...
     
  13. niceguy97

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    @Someone B I heard of smt called 'K9' for web protection.. maybe try using it? Again, I'm not sure what it is, since I haven't used it, but what I heard is that it has a password and stops porn sites and such. Maybe try it out? Make someone else have the password, like they set the password, not you, you wouldn't know what the password is.
    If possible, try to be outside at the times that you usually find yourself watching that stuff... walk around campus, just don't be in a closed area by yourself. Best of luck!
     
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  14. Someone B

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    Thanks dude, but I've already try it and it's not a good solution for me : it's an alternative browser really sealled with porn but it's an outdated browser compare to the other on the market...
    Failing that, I chose another solution : I put on a already open tab the panic button of NoFap
    Well it doesn't keep me away from porn but it dissuades me from doing it.
     
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  15. YoungPiccolo

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    CONGRATULATIONS MAN! THAT MUST FEEL AWESOME
     
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  16. YoungPiccolo

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    Hey all, how are you guys doing? I've been doing great, but I am lacking in daily updates haha. I've taken many breaks from the Internet and now I can truly say that my focus is back and it is here to stay. I am back on the wavering path of greatness, and nothing is going to stop me. I've been looking into the law of attraction these past weeks, and it's a method that has allowed me to take a step back and self reflect. Everyone here should self reflect often, is this what you want? Is this how you want to feel? Day 5 and I feel like a wanderer, but I know I have wondered onto the right path! Good morning everyone! Like @Someone B said, DON'T COUNT THE DAYS, MAKE THE DAYS COUNT!
     
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  17. patd

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    @YoungPiccolo thanks man. You're right about counting days. I have not think about PMO since, I have been busy. Days on counter are just going up so fast. I'm just worried that I might not achieve my other goals for this year :D I probably will achieve the goal from title of this discussion. I want you to do the same, you can rely on me. I want to be your support till the time when you all break this addiction.
     
  18. niceguy97

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    DAMN FINALLY HE BACK XD
    Missed ya lol. I dont got much to say abt my day or myself other than that im goin longer : )
     
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  19. Someone B

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    Relapsed... but in a kind of way I think I'm work in to going back to normal fantasy and normal excitation. You know guys I don't do PMO, I just wanted to stay away from porn so I'm not really equal with you in this fight.
    What I mean by normal excitation is just to see a gorgeous woman (or just a woman of your style, I'm so old school and macho sometimes...) and only by the fact of admiring it.
    Hope this words don't tease you guys, I know that a lot of things could tease me for nothing...
    In real, it's just my opinion but I don't think masturbation is bad, nothing (even porn, but when you're an addict yeah a reboot is necessary, except hard drugs, I mean chemical ones this is totally bad) is bad but we have to find a balance way to use it, eat it, drink it etc
     
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  20. Someone B

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    OK @niceguy97 time to get the s*it out of us, we're both at 0 again, @patd flies over the game (by the way don't do like Icar huh, but it seems that you feel good so keep going !) and @YoungPiccolo is like a monk, he's less here but it looks like he fight hard by it's side. We have to take example of them, or better take example what you want to be, and then be better than expected.
     
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