[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

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  1. antn

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    Day18/90. Had crazy urges yesterday. Was looking for subs on instagram and such. This makes everything only worse. Almost relapsed. Now that I'm well underway and I'm feeling good about myself, arrogance and complacency might kick in. I have to be careful...
     
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  2. EEH89

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    I am feeling ashamed. After 11 days of success, I was at club with friends and lots of girls, dancing and drinking. I came home with tons of alcohols in my body and masturbate within maybe 10 sec. When I wake up in the morning I said: WHAT DID I DO!! and it was a super bad feeling. I hope that all the progress in my brain are not back to 0.
    I will live like a monk from now on till my brain reset.
     
  3. FreeyaMind

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    Alright, here we go again. Day 2 now.
    Need to remember to visit these forums to keep me on track.
     
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  4. RiseToGreatness

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    of course you can turn your life around. brother, everything in life is a matter of wanting, badly, if you want it, you´ll get it, you´ll find a way. so learn with the fall and go again. study, prepare yourself, check your strategy, do whatever it takes. you only fail when you give up. go my brother, much love.
     
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  5. RiseToGreatness

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    excellent bro, keep going, you´re doing great!!!
     
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  7. RiseToGreatness

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    yep, that´s the problem of excessive drinking, it totally destroys one´s willpower, and after 11 days you´re still in the compulsive phase. so drunkness + compulsiveness = relapse. learn bro, and go again. you can do it :emoji_muscle:
     
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  8. RiseToGreatness

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    terrible days yesterday and sunday. on sunday my wife left the house early and i specifically told her to take the laptop battery with her. she forgot and left the battery in the house. i manage to resist the urge for some hours, but then i peak nudes for just a couple of seconds and that was enough to ruin my day :(. i rapidly became obsessed to watch again and didn´t do shit the rest of the day, i was a total zombie.

    at night i peaked some more seconds, and yesterday i peaked a lot, and i was very close to relapse. yesterday night i was burning with sexual urges and i almost crawl towards my wife for sex because i couln´t take it anymore. intercourse calmed the fire but in the end it didn´t feel right, it seemed i did it to please myself and not for really wanting to have sex. anyways i searched for ways to prevent hazards when the initial plan fails, and i found this very helpful video of doing a "triggers plan". it´s really clear and helpful. see it brothers, this might help in difficult times. sorry for my stumble, but living and learning. one more teaching added.

     
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  9. EEH89

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    Thank u so much brother for your reply. Gives me the fuel to stand up again. This time I feel I have more power to control my urges. I feel that I am closer than ever to do it.

    question, listen to music slow down the progress ?
     
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  10. EEH89

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  11. Camelon

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    Confused, stressed but 100% sure if i relapsed, i"ll never be happy or solve my problems, no my dump brain that's never the solution, never.............
     
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  12. Camelon

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    Man simply u r awesome
    I dedicate that day for u
    I really about to relapse today but i"ll fight more........
     
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  13. The Lone Ranger

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  14. EEH89

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    There is something very weird, i think PMO did a damage to vast majority of people more than we thought.
    ALL my friends (7) at age 23-30 takes Cial or Viag before doing sex in order to achieve acceptable performance, but for masturbation no need! and this is completely unacceptable at this age. And all of them told me they watch porn every day and masturbate so many times per day. I told them about nofap and they didn’t take it seriously:(
    My uncle at age of 67 can still do sex without any medicaments. I asked him about masturbation and porn he told me he never watched such things and never masturbate. At his young age there was no internet.
    PMO is a massive destruction.

    Check this:
    http://westkelownacounselling.com/your-brain-on-porn-same-as-drugs/

    Brain to P same as brain with heroine
     
    Last edited: Sep 17, 2019
  15. Fredi-the

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    Great video. I will do it. I also tell my wife to take the router with her so I have no internet access when she leaves for a few days. Good strategy bro. Next time, leave your computer battery at the front door so she trips over it before leaving .. or better yet, you put it in her suitcase for her. Better luck next time as I know how hard the urges hit when home alone for a few days.
     
  16. Sarapeo

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    Day 12 / 90
     
  17. Fredi-the

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    Started Challenges Jan 25, 2019
    Relapsed 13/235 Days
    Longest streaks 67 and 51 days
    Current Challenge 3/90
    Day 73 weight training
    Day 4 reduced alcohol, caffeine and deserts
    - urges seem to be staying at Bay so far
    - being more active and productive with my days
    - one foot in front of the other fellas
     
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  18. Srisurya

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    Day 1 good. I keep coming back no matter what and Pmo gets tired of me for that.
     
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