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Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by 2525, Oct 27, 2017.
Just use that energy wise. Don't wait/expect for results. You will make it out faster. Cheers.
Day 45. checking in. Halfway through. Thank you for all the support, brothers.
Day 24: Really hard day today. Had some super strong thoughts that were hard to control. Did things to keep myself busy and change what I was focusing on. What do you guys focus on when you have strong urges?
Completed Day 2...Heading to day 3
Stumbled, fell. Getting back up again.
Peeked this morning (yes, I know I know, it is always a bad idea. I even knew it when I was doing it). The looked at full P with some M, but didn't finish. Got a bit bored actually, so walked away. But then my balls were really aching! Really quite unpleasant. Don't remember that before. So I obviously did something about it later...
Not managed a streak that long since July or something, so not toooo bad. I do seem to remember struggling to get past the 9 or 10 day mark before. Will have to be more prepared this time.
I try to take a moment, relax and just look at my urges. And then try to determine where it comes from - which, in my case, is usually not something related to sex or desire at all but something that causes me stress and I want to run away from. And then I think of what acting on that urge would bring me, how it would make me feel afterwards: not away from the stress, but actually much deeper in it and hating myself on top of it all. And then I try to not act but wait until the urge flows away again, and meanwhile I focus on something positive.
Daily check-in, on day 23.
thanks for sharing. restart again. no other way. I think we have to structurally deal with this shit, "peaking" is not an option brother. Even if we dont mastrubate eatching it, brain definitely will go back to old rewired state. I also get the urges to watch it. my fav pornstars i hv watched since last decade. that new girl which u love to watch..but is there an end to this madness?..do we get anything?..did u get anything by peeking?..u know all this, just sharing...Install nee habits, remove porn atleast...its d root cause of all the shit...rest will fall in place...I hear the divine words of Vipasanna teacher S N Goenka in the background-> "Start Again....Start Again...". U cant look back. dont feel bad about it. Its over. Resolve to never do it again and start on positive note. ATB
woww whole essense of stillness and meditation bro. great lesson right there for all of us. thanks for d wisdom.
Day 20 check in.
woww good streak u earned right there. hope it never ends.
Nice streak. Keep going.
Good going mate. Keep it up.
Keep hammering away my friend. Wuhoo.
Dont worry about these thoughts brother. Maybe Chota moonh badi baat but
..Just keep doing what u set out for urself. Nofap isnt a magical pill i guess, its one essential part, a prerequisite i guess...smtimes we expect too much from it...let it roll on...and also build some other skills, habits, activities to supplement and extraxt max benefit from it..
good going man..keep on...Just utilise and channelise this "extra energy" u r experiencing in right direction. use it to develop sm skills and habits and mk d best of it...it will multiply..I dont think anyone of us will become the Buddha after day 90 or 365 but a lot will change...a lot changes..I am also a pedestrian on this path with all u guys trying to understand and keep u all motivated...Just a thought for u my friend.
Congratulations for reaching half way mark. wonder how it feels to come thus far?.. Is it the first time u reached here?..what abt the urges, thoughts abt "P" etc?.. Congrats once again.
Daily checking in. Completed 5 days.
Going stronger and stronger with each passing day. Thank you all for your support!
Day 67 / 90
One more day, moving forward and building a new future one day at a time. Onward and upward my friends.