Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by 2525, Oct 27, 2017.

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  1. ANameThatStartsWithK

    ANameThatStartsWithK Fapstronaut

    Day 25/90 check in
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  2. OnceMoreIntoTheFray

    OnceMoreIntoTheFray Fapstronaut

  3. the_wizard

    the_wizard Fapstronaut

  4. KeepComingBack

    KeepComingBack Fapstronaut

    3/90 - Difficult to keep my mind free of sexual thoughts and eyes above solders when seeing attractive women but I'm aware which is a big deal. I mentally yell STOP when I catch my mind or eyes objectifying women.
  5. VictoryIsOurs

    VictoryIsOurs Fapstronaut

    4 days completed. Just wondering if I have a flatline
  6. snarkious

    snarkious Fapstronaut

  7. Aufbruch

    Aufbruch Fapstronaut

  8. sanxsuperman

    sanxsuperman Fapstronaut

  9. Golden-Balls

    Golden-Balls Fapstronaut

    Day 44.
    today I tried to checked out some pics of hot girls on Instagram. At first I was in control. Then i noticed my mind was starting to get hooked and wanting to see more. So I went off Instagram.
    So currently am feeling ok. But am impressed that I have gained much control over sexual urges and control over which content can stimulate me.
    Vendidad, Merry Terry, bromor and 7 others like this.
  10. Be careful my friend!! I think it's better to avoid to see these pics... But congratulations a new day of victory...
    Vendidad, Merry Terry, bromor and 2 others like this.
  11. RestartGame_

    RestartGame_ Fapstronaut

  12. Met

    Met Fapstronaut

    Day 14. TWO WEEKS :emoji_tada::emoji_tada: I’m happy I managed to achieve such a streak and I need to thank all of you for being so helpful and kind. Stay safe and away from dirty stuff. My best wishes!:D
  13. Titu

    Titu Fapstronaut

  14. Day 17/90 No PM
    Day 426 at attempting this challenge
    Day 148 weight training (M, W, F)
    Lifestyle: reduced caffeine, desserts and alcohol
    Vendidad, Merry Terry, bromor and 2 others like this.
  15. From childhoods hour

    From childhoods hour Fapstronaut

    Day 1 completed again. I'll make it through day 5 this time, at minimum.
    Vendidad, Aufbruch, bromor and 3 others like this.
  16. RestartGame_

    RestartGame_ Fapstronaut

    Day 1 again. with a little insight into my current feelings and situation.

    First I want to say that I am really grateful for this community and how responsive, kind and supportive the people are here. I love you guys. hugs.

    I at times give advice to people here and it gives me joy to help. However at times I think it is really important we share our feelings, especially when we are going through rough times.

    I am going to be honest, I am feeling pretty down and anxious about my insomnia, and some situations in my home. ^^
    However I have backup solutions (like sleeping pills), in case my traditional methods won't work ( which they should usually do).
    I spend way too much time looking at a screen, even when I do exercise every now and then, it doesn't change much.
    I just happen to get anxious much more than I used to about my neighbors loud TV, my brother staying awake until 4-5am making subtle noises every now and then and lately he started smoking.
    The only time he goes see his friends or invite them home is at times around 3 am. Like wtf. Why this late?
    He is also very spoiled and not very well raised. my parent is unfortunately not competent enough to raise him coherently. I can't deal with any of this either, and quite frankly, I don't have to and shouldn't. I have to take care of myself and achieve my goals and dreams.

    One thing I know for sure. My NEW self that lies on the other side of this whole struggle, would never match with this picture of where I am, in any way. (usually home and work are the things that repeat the most on a daily basis, it kind of contributes in our programming). And now in the lockdown it is mainly home.

    I live with my family (and of course I love them for who they are, however, I cannot continue to exist and persist in this environment, because they are like a continous reocurrence of my past and they are therefore toxic simply because of that. Especially when I am trying to change myself radically.) it is a paradigm of misery.

    Why don't I go live alone? Well, the things is the apartment where I live is bought and I feel that sense of financial security.
    With all the insecurities and anxiety issues that I have, living alone and having to pay the bills and a bunch of other stuff, might be too much for me. (but I am not sure, now I am thinking about it again.)
    Because I have no friends, no support to reach out to in case something happens. I would be lonely and feel lonely.
    But I could still try to make friends until then, like I did once. There is plenty of hope. I know it.

    Sorry for the ramble.

    I'll keep updating with less words :)

    Much love and blessings to you.


    Vendidad, Merry Terry, bromor and 3 others like this.
  17. Galaxy Hitchhiker

    Galaxy Hitchhiker Fapstronaut

    Day 69. Every day closer to 90 days.
    Vendidad, Merry Terry, bromor and 3 others like this.
  18. I_must_quit

    I_must_quit Fapstronaut

    Day 4 of the new habit.
    I am loving it. Its amazing how I have so much time and I am able to feel my emotions. I can feel the anxiety whenever it creeps inside and i realize it has no power over me. But I am stopping all negative language from now on. all my life i have talked negative to myself. negative words.Donot want be held back by my reality but change it, create it. I love myself.This made so much sense to me. Not that it was something new, but it was powerful.
    Hugs ❣️ and love
    Last edited: Mar 27, 2020
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