[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

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  1. bthebest

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    In the middle of last night, I had urges and so started to touch my GF, and I am glad that I fell into sleep again. Today I met a gorgeous, sexy girl. We talked and laughed a lot, but after that I got the feeling that I can not communicate with girls confidently and properly, at the end, while telling bye, she told me "did you forget something?", at that moment I didn't understand what did she meant and I did not answer properly (Actually I don't know what I've said). After some moment I understood what she said, and now I am thinking that I am not confident enough to talk with girls properly. Also I think so sexy about girls.
    Does anyone had the same experience? Please help me if you have any tips or idea or same experience.
    I should not go out with her.
     
    Last edited: Jul 31, 2020
  2. Day 28/90
    Day 553 at attempting this challenge
    Day 189 weigh training (M, W, F)
    Lifestyle: reduced caffeine, alcohol and desserts
     
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  3. MonkeyMonk

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  4. AxBlaim

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    Day 12/90

    Just wanted to say Eid Mubarak to everyone and have a blessed holiday
     
  5. 3BP

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    Day 3

    Already feeling more energy. Let's go!
     
  6. Black jack

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    10 days completed feeling good no urges productivity little bit improved but have to improve more congratulations to all who have pass this day and those who have relapsed be strong and start again
     
  7. VictoryIsOurs

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  8. Updesh

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    Day 4/30
    All clear. Followed Routine
    Gained different perspective towards boredom/stress.
     
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  10. yogi007

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    I can relate to this. I too had similar issues when talking to unknown girls. But was able to talk to girls whome I knew.
    I still have problems with eye contact but working on it...

    I will share my experience...
    Lack of confidence in me was due to fact that I was thinking what that girl would think about me.
    I realized that if you think good about you, you are confident, if you not doing anything wrong, why should you care what she thinks about you.
    You should care about only what your loved one will think. Remaining everyone just don't give a damn.

    The day you realize this properly, you will become more confident from within.
     
  11. yogi007

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  12. BurgerChamp

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    Day 34 skiddy pap pap pap!!
     
  13. Srisurya

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  14. yogi007

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    Day 25/90
    Saturdays...
    Got to be careful..
     
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  15. Gurdev Thakur

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    day 4 completed ';;;; new month new and better streaks ;;; i am really feeling awesome as i started doing pretty well in my studies aspect ;; my next target is of 6 days of no pmo and only 2 days to achieve that,
     
  16. Libius

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    Day 0.
    Goal is 90 days.
    Will use any energy related to PMO and transmute it to a productive activity.
    Best of luck to everyone.
     
  17. Blaze21

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    Day 5/90 today was a great day... let's keep it up brothers!!
     
  18. Puretim

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    I went on to the hookup site whete i used to be a member to see who contacted me even though i asked them to delete my profile. I looked at some pictures and some videos which is already a reset and later masturbated to porn. I deleted all my photos from my non deleted profile. I feel somewhat disgusted with myself but all i can do is start over. One day at a time.
     
  19. VictoryIsOurs

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    Sorry and don't feel disgusted with yourself. I appreciate that you requested for deletion but now need to follow up and make sure the profile is deleted because there is a chance of login in and doing the same thing again. Recovery calls for extreme efforts. I deleted all my profiles which would have set me for a relapse and it has worked for me.
     

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