I can relate to this. I too had similar issues when talking to unknown girls. But was able to talk to girls whome I knew. I still have problems with eye contact but working on it... I will share my experience... Lack of confidence in me was due to fact that I was thinking what that girl would think about me. I realized that if you think good about you, you are confident, if you not doing anything wrong, why should you care what she thinks about you. You should care about only what your loved one will think. Remaining everyone just don't give a damn. The day you realize this properly, you will become more confident from within.
day 4 completed ';;;; new month new and better streaks ;;; i am really feeling awesome as i started doing pretty well in my studies aspect ;; my next target is of 6 days of no pmo and only 2 days to achieve that,
Day 0. Goal is 90 days. Will use any energy related to PMO and transmute it to a productive activity. Best of luck to everyone.
I went on to the hookup site whete i used to be a member to see who contacted me even though i asked them to delete my profile. I looked at some pictures and some videos which is already a reset and later masturbated to porn. I deleted all my photos from my non deleted profile. I feel somewhat disgusted with myself but all i can do is start over. One day at a time.
Sorry and don't feel disgusted with yourself. I appreciate that you requested for deletion but now need to follow up and make sure the profile is deleted because there is a chance of login in and doing the same thing again. Recovery calls for extreme efforts. I deleted all my profiles which would have set me for a relapse and it has worked for me.
Thank you man for sharing your experience. I have the same problem: - I can not communicate with girls who I don't know properly and could not find what is the reason, I'm going to find it out. - and also I do have eye contact problem with girls. Actually, yesterday I've thought what she will think about me, because I have thought maybe some of my colleagues said something about me to her. Maybe that brought the insecurity to behaviors. I will improve it. Please write me if you got any idea or advise to improve it, I really appreciated. wish you all luck.
69 days done...figured I better post on here after watching trailer after trailer on Netflix, noticed watching one or two that had some racy stuff in there, and feeling that little twinge that I get, that I need to not go down a slippery slope, and be cautious and focused with my time. When the mind is deprived of porn and porn thoughts, it will pornify Netflix trailers! Anyway....Meditated today, took dog for a walk, hit up a support meeting, had a great connection with a friend, worked two jobs, now to read a short bit and go to bed. Just one more day, do good things, think good thoughts...
Sorry to hear that but I admire you that you're here and starting over at it! Now you know a bit more about yourself and what to watch out for, and if you done 50 days once you can do it again and more. Wishing you the best.
Day 16/ 90 .. Lets Win together! i am feeling energetic and motivated more towards my life ...Impossible is possible