About girls, infatuation, flirting etc.

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by muted, Aug 24, 2018.

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    muted Fapstronaut

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    I have an untypical question for you, guys.
    Did anyone felt more frequent and stronger infatuation during the reboot?
    Recently at work I met a really nice and pretty girl. I was surprised that something attracted me so much that I thought about her while working and I’m home.
    I have not felt anything like this in the case of random girls for a long time and I have always treated it rationally. It's nice for me because it's a stimulus, but at this stage of the reboot it blocks me because sometimes I'm not able to think about something else.
    Do not get me wrong - I didn’t fall in love, but sometimes I feel too much attraction to this girl.

    We can also discuss the subject of flirting and dating here. It's probably not bad, right?
     
  2. For me it wasn't infatuation but I do feel a very strong increase in my attraction with my wife. Not that I wasn't before, it's just much more strong.
     
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    muted Fapstronaut

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    I forgot to add that my libido has recently returned. Since then I have felt this type of interest in women.
     
  4. How far along are you in your battle?
     
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    muted Fapstronaut

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    I'm on the 144th day of my reboot. Generally I’m not doing pmo since October. At that time I was relapsed because of petting and edging with my ex-girlfriend.
     
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    goodnice Fapstronaut

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    wait really? I'm on the exact same day as you LOL high five
     
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    muted Fapstronaut

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    High five! :) How’s your reboot?
     
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    goodnice Fapstronaut

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    good had a scare a couple days ago and sexted with a girl (no pics just dirty talk). If she sent me pics i would have relapsed. I talked to her about it and told her i'm on nofap and she understood. Now i'm extremely thankful i didn't relapse.
    Any advice for keeping up motivation for nofap? For me, i think i know that i can't afford to go back. There's no future for me if i do.
    Overall, reboot is going well
     
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    muted Fapstronaut

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    You know... for me motivation is the desire for a better life.
    Pmo caused my experience of reality to get worse. At some point, nothing pleased me.
    Even many minor unpleasantness caused suicidal thoughts. It was fucking abnormal. I went to college and stayed away from people because I could not find contact with them.
    At this point everything is improved. Life with pmo is simply terrible for me. I don’t want to come back to it anymore.

    Back to the topic:

    What can you say about flirting and dating with women during the reboot? Maybe you have some experiences?
     

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