WifeWithQuestions1
Fapstronaut
So... My husband has stopped watching porn. He doesn't think anything is wrong with it and has never hidden it from me. He only hid it on the browser history after I asked him to, years ago when every time I stubbled upon it, felt like a knife. Our sex life is empty. He says that he has low sex drive and thinks that the frequency is the problem when that is just a piece of it. He could not understand all the nuances of loneliness I feel. He says I expect too much.
In any case, he quit cold turkey and while I know most people will say that he is just "saying" it, they don't know my husband. He quit other addictions cold turkey in the past and once he puts his mind to something, that's it. Plus, if he fell through, he would tell me as he agreed to since he doesn't believe in lying.
Long story short... My husband quit but not mentally. He is not "rebooting" and believes that this is all crap. Would he still get to the point where his mind changes back? Would we ever get the kind intimacy that married people deserve?
In any case, he quit cold turkey and while I know most people will say that he is just "saying" it, they don't know my husband. He quit other addictions cold turkey in the past and once he puts his mind to something, that's it. Plus, if he fell through, he would tell me as he agreed to since he doesn't believe in lying.
Long story short... My husband quit but not mentally. He is not "rebooting" and believes that this is all crap. Would he still get to the point where his mind changes back? Would we ever get the kind intimacy that married people deserve?