Penis so desensitized Can't get it up

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Marwan97, Aug 24, 2017.

  1. Marwan97

    Marwan97 Fapstronaut

    Hi everybody!!

    As you can read from the title masturbating has led to my penisn so desensitized that when my gf comes I always say excuses to get out of having sex. When I masturbate I edge out and don't ejaculate while masturbating, also porn is a minor problem but still not to be underestimated. When I Masturbate I usually have no trouble of getting it up with just pictures of girls. Please can anyone help me and tell me if I have a chance of having sex with my girlfriend in 4 days without touching my penis? Thanks
  2. sparkywantsnoPMO

    sparkywantsnoPMO NoFap Moderator & Yeoman
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    There’s no magic number to this, and unfortunately stress is a factor. You’re just going to have to wait and see.
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  3. Happy Man

    Happy Man Fapstronaut

    I wouldn't edge, it creates the chaser effect. If you have PIED then edging will not help. You also don't want to suffer from the dealth grip. If the death grip feels better than the vagina, it might take a while to get your sense back.

    Not something you want to hear but it might take a while.

    How many years did you have this problem and how many times did you wank a day?

    No one knows when you can have sex, the erections comes and goes
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  4. Tommy_0113

    Tommy_0113 Fapstronaut

    tell your girlfriend you have problems sometimes, and don't expect results in days. I can take months.
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  5. Marwan97

    Marwan97 Fapstronaut

    I was edging for about 6 months and good news (kinda) i had sex with her and it was perfect, although i kinda took a pill (C) so I don't know if that's a bad thing but it really helped
  6. HappyDaysAreHereAgain

    HappyDaysAreHereAgain Fapstronaut

    You can get some temporary help from little pills, but a good reboot gives better results. Get serious!
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  7. Fightthedevil

    Fightthedevil Fapstronaut

    Fuck Pills.Fuck medication.Get your ass off and starting working out.Start eating healthier.Start gaining control over your porn urges.Don't touch your penis for a month or two and see the difference.Try to be pumped and excited all the time.Pills and medication will worsen it in long run buddy trust me.
  8. JesusStrength

    JesusStrength Fapstronaut

    I'm in the same boat as you pied and desensitized penis. I don't know what to do anymore. The pill just confused me more.
  9. bfdet

    bfdet Fapstronaut

    Hi 'strength, '97 and others:

    what folks have said here about edging is all correct. I've posted a bunch of times about edging, but here is a short version: DON'T EDGE ! Edging trains both our body and our mind to need intense, prolonged physical and mental stimulation in order to O. The intensity and the duration of stimulation required typically far exceed anything encountered with partnered-relationships (PIV). The result of edging is that in PIV situations, your body and mind don't receive the type and the duration of stimulation you expect and need to O. Result: DE, PIED, and really unsatisfactory performance (rather, lack of performance !!!). Don't edge. Try at least a 30 day hard-mode reboot. Longer is better and may be required to experience more complete healing. Given sufficient time, your body and your mind will heal and performance will return to a better, healthier level as you relearn that you DON'T need a death grip, you don't need prolonged stimulation, you don't need P.

    You now know what NOT to do. Think about some things that you NEED to do to progress your journey of healing and get busy !

    One day a time is how we all succeed.
  10. drkarim

    drkarim Fapstronaut

    whats your definition of edging?
  11. JesusStrength

    JesusStrength Fapstronaut

    When you say desensitized, do you also mean you don't feel horniness in the dick?
  12. Nuallann

    Nuallann Fapstronaut

    I take pills atm during my reboot for sex, just makes me feel better knowing I can have sex without the chick knowing I'm having issues going on, she doesn't know about the pills. I'm getting morning erections again, though they're not rock hard, but way better than it was, progress.
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