Women&Reboot

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by muted, Dec 16, 2018.

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    muted Fapstronaut

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    Hi everyone! ;)
    I’m on 258 day of my reboot and my libido probably returned completely. I have recently more desire for sex than before.
    I also noticed much more women interested in me. It happens that I look at the body of a woman, at her legs, buttocks, breasts. Is it something bad? I do not fantasize about her sexually, I just look. I also think about women more often, but not in a sexual way, but about their beauty, sometimes about kissing e.g and also think much more about how to impress a woman. Is it wrong? It seems not to be, but I am wondering if my brain is looking for another stimulus, cause when pretty women like you it give you an energy.
     
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    TantusJulius Fapstronaut

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    "But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart."

    I guess you were not expecting this answer. Anyway lets look like that, it is your 258 days (big congratulation!), so probably those old pathways about pmo still sitting in your brain. I would not risk reactivating them in a bad moment, try looking in their eyes instead until 2 years pass.
     
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    muted Fapstronaut

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    I have not written anywhere that I look at women lustfully. In addition, I'm not sure if it's reactivating these paths in the brain. I am not looking for women to look at and excite myself. Sometimes I just look at their shapes.
    Thank you for your answer.
     
  4. I don't see anything wrong with your behavior. What can you do, a person is not just a face. As long as it's not lustful. It looks like you're rewiring. Nothing wrong with wanting women's attention or flirt with them. We're here to recover from PMO addiction, that's all.
     
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    muted Fapstronaut

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    Thank you, bro. ;)
    Do you think that looking at the woman lustfully reactivate that path ways? If I do not fantasize and look at different women in this way at the same time it is healthy, right? Am I wrong? Because sex also starts with lust.
     
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    Uncomfortably Numb Fapstronaut

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    After 258 days to look at women lustfully (in a healthy way) is perfectly normal
     
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    muted Fapstronaut

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    What about seeking for girls to date on facebook? You know, choosing the prettiest, writing with several at once. I think it’s Ok, but I had recently a big desire to find a girl with which I could flirt.
     
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    muted Fapstronaut

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    I am resuming the topic. What about this what I wrote above?
     
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    Yes man you are good. I have started doing this exact same thing aswell. It's like I can openly admire a female's beauty by looking at her without it being lustful. Like before it was like me imagining some dirty fucking delusional porn shit with a certain female, but now it's "pure" and feels natural. The fantasizing part has faded completely and now I act and think in the moment. Like if I see a certain girl, I will start thinking about talking to her etc. and not something delusional.
     
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