control

  1. K

    blocker

    installed a blocker on my web browser recently , the best part is that it's free of cost and works wonders, like i don't need to think a lot about trying to control my PEEKING which as a matter of fact has been a very big problem for me. now i can focus on my work without getting into that...
  2. D

    Comparing Myself To A Nuisance Fly

    It's been more humid than usual in my part of the world. As a result, there's been an uptick in nuisance flies. I searched for ways to get rid of them and I came across an article which provided a recipe of sorts, ingredients to be mixed into a substance that will attract and ultimately trap...
  3. Good_Habit_Good_Life

    Quotes About Nofap

    1- Things will happen. You can't stop them from happening, but you can control your reaction from making things worse. React positively. Live happily. -RVM
  4. happy camper

    Prevented Spontaneous O in Dream

    Day 127 So I was in the middle of an erotic dream and I felt myself at the cusp of O and I stopped it! I friggin' stopped it! I felt the control in the muscle and I prevented myself from spontaneous O in my sleep. I woke myself up just in the knick of time. The dream was highly charged and...
  5. E

    Is precum masturabation?

    So today I discovered something called precum. This is what precum is according to the internet. "Precum, also known as pre-ejaculate, is a fluid produced by the male reproductive tract during sexual stimulation before climax. It exits the urethra and is often found on the tip of the penis...
  6. Bob12345

    BEST TIPS FOR SUCCESS -ACCOUNTABILITY GROUP

    Today was not the best day for me. For 2 days, i have regularly posting on nofap.com and i have been self disciplined, but today I was not self disciplined. When I felt pressure, i immediately conceded and allowed myself to panic and I subconsciously thought that because I am feeling pressure, I...
  7. blacklabel92

    Evil unintentional thoughts..

    So this has been happening for a few years.. I just have these derogatory thoughts whenever im near most ppl.. Like theirs a evil voice in my head messing with my vibe.. For example if im talking to a girl the convo on the outside is normal but on the inside theirs a lil voice in my head calling...
  8. NF_meditation

    It's time to take this seriously. 90 Day Reboot.

    Hey there, I'm new to the NoFap community and I hope that by joining I'm more accountable and more dedicated than ever before to start abstaining from PMO. I'm starting to do the 90 Day Reboot Challenge because I know it's possible, all I have to do is be strong. If anyone sees this, leave a...
  9. YoungMedic

    Recognizing Triggers and Learning How To Overcome

    Hey all. This is a post that I wanted to make to discuss with others about triggers, and what people have done to overcome them. I have started to develop my own ways to avoid these triggers, and stop an urge that has come on. If anyone would like to share their own experiences with me that...
  10. Honey_Singh_420

    Not able to reboot, what should i do?

    I have been failing miserably after a good streak, it's been 12 times in 5 days. I feel hopeless and not sure if i could do it. Please suggest what should i do as i'm feeling helpless, it's gone totally out of control.
  11. Playmaker97

    Helping Viewers with Porn Addiction" on HealthyGamerGG Youtube Channel

    I would recommend watching Part 1 and 2, I think most of us will be able to relate to the issues discussed on there, and to the guys struggling. I think they discuss some interesting points, and explore different perspectives on what exactly the addiction is. How control is a part of it, but...
  12. D

    Impulsivity ♦ Abundance

    @IAmLegion I had this stored for quite sometime and only now it sparked interest in hearing some input from you. On reward system, survival habits, neurochemistry and physiological waste. I have not a specific question to ask. What I find most intriguing is the thought of replicating the...
  13. T

    Insights needed on the practice of controlling ejaculation!!

    Hey guys, It's been 6 days since I last masturbated. I took this decision after I realized I've been excessively masturbating like 3-4 times a day, sometimes without any purpose. I just reach out to my D and start doing it. I realized this is making me go down. I felt useless. Hence the...
  14. Robert Bar

    NoFap Lets Go

    Day1 : Im a student going to university. I'm here because i feel like i need to take back control of my life. For a start i need to stop objectifying women and look at girls as people. Thanks for this. I need this. I will do this.
  15. U

    Reconstrucción personal

    Bueno este es mi día número uno aquí y me gustaría reconstruir todo lo que está adicción me a arrebatado, el tiempo, el esfuerzo y proyectos ! Quiero superarme! Y deshacerme de esto por completo.
  16. SelfControlIsTheGoal

    Porn is a form of social control

    Heres a thought. Pornography is created in order to control men and make them slaves to there urges. Those who control the media actually intend for it to have negative effects on those who use/watch it. Maybe thinking of "them" will help you quit P for good if you know you are being...
  17. F

    I need HELP!!!

    Hi, I am a PMOer for about 1 year,,, I tried too much to stop PMOing, but my longest streak was almost 17 days. I was masturbating twice a week or once. 3 days ago, I relapsed after spending 8 days without porn. But after this relapse, I PMOed a lot. If small trigger came, I would watch porn...
  18. H

    Is it bad to control a wet dream?

    Few days ago, I almost had a wet dream. I could 'feel' it almost coming out and I woke up immediately before letting it 'come out' and somehow managed to control it. As a result, there was a lot of pressure on my balls for the next two days(after which I had a wet dream and it feels much better...
  19. C

    Try and Try, I will succeed.

    So, This is my first post. I'm old 34 yrs, started in my teens. Heavy on porn. It is/was rhythmic. I had to masturbate morning then at night, it was a routine and i needed to stick to it. i was also a smoker for 10 years but cleared that years back. I would combine both for the ultimate...
  20. ReachYourHighestPeak

    You're never going to make any progress, unless...

    If you don't take responsibility for your life, you won't be able to change it. I see so many people saying things like "I feel this way because she did blah..." or "My friend showed me this video, so I got horny and relapsed later". Wording like this paints you to be the victim, the subject...
  21. Sir Minato

    How dopamine sensitivy affects your recovery

    I just watched a YouTube video on Nofap and I realised something Stupidly enough there were pictures of women in bikinis on one slide of his presentation. I have watched that video before, one week ago. This time, my brain was really hungry for them and I had to stare at them. Last week when I...
  22. D

    Dream control/revealing?

    This is a random discussion guys. But I'm just wondering if anybody here on nofap can control there dreams, manifest certain people into them at all or do what they want willingly? I've been digging a whole lot deeper into what dreams mean and what gets filtered threw out the night on nightly...
  23. F

    Hi! I'm new. Want to take control of myself.

    I am unemployed and get deppresed easily. Every time I get sad, I use porn or food to fill my emptyness. This has become a problem, because it started to deteriorate my health, plus I feel demotivated, like some ghost is constantly putting me down with harsh words and making me feel like rubish...
  24. PMS

    Addicted to YouTube?

    I have after much deliberation decided to block YouTube and all websites related to mindless time-wasting (not that YouTube is necessarily a waste, but you catch my drift). I am hopelessly stuck in front of a screen, unable to get myself to do what I actually want to do and feel better by doing...
  25. B

    Need cure from Intense Fantasizing & Brutal Porn addiction

    Hello All! It would be very helpful to get some tips from you guys to control the urge & have a different outlook while going through temptations by listening to your success stories. Kindly do share them. Thanks! -Barakkah Warrior
  26. Hermetic Viatori

    Is Uncontrolled Sexual Desire a Symptom of a Subconscious Identification with Power/Control?

    I've been on this road a long time. I've started making attempts to stop this degenerate habit during my teenage years. I'm 28 now. I've read spiritual books, self-help books, watched lots of the nofap you-tube videos and have read the forums on this website/reddit over the years. They've all...
  27. D

    Hard on control?

    Hey everyone. The main problem I am having lately is getting more hard on's/boners then usual.. I haven't in the past year, but some how its happening more lately witch is causing me to M. It's even happening at work when I talk to this woman I have feelings for and just what I read from her. I...
  28. R

    Cybersex, Snapchat, Sexting,Omegle.. addiction information..You should read this !

    Okk so heres the deal... 2 years ive had ups and downs on nofap (mostly downs but im never giving up ) Im deeply involved in personal development and im very well informed on how addiction works, yet i still cant stop. My problem isn't porn oh no no... its cybersex, omegle and snapchat! that...
  29. Bretto

    The power of Moola Bandha

    Hey NF’rs, From the Yogi book ‘Asana Pranayama Mudra Bandha’ Moola Bandha Benefits: “Moola Bandha bestows many physical, mental and spiritual benefits. It stimulates the pelvic nerves and tones the uro-genital and excretory systems. It is helpful in psychosomatic and degenerative illnesses...
  30. ifave89

    The continuation and more advice

    Well, I said a few weeks back when I relapsed after a year I was going to take a break, but amazingly, that never happened! Even though my PMO streak ended a few weeks back, I'm back on it. What's more amazing is I haven't watched any porn since my challenge began in November 2017. However I'm...
  31. S

    Finding out about the reasons for PMO

    Hi there, I only just joined this site. For a long time I have felt that my porn consumption is getting out of hand and I want to do something about it... So consequently I want to know why I go down the route of watching porn in the first place. I am in a healthy relationship, I have good...
  32. pa_peace

    Day 29 folks

    I have actually not noticed many of the said "benefits" from these 29 days. Anyone who experienced the benefits during the second month? I need something to look forward to. Maybe I have been addicted so long that benefits come after 2 months? . I will definitely complete a month and want to do...
  33. D

    Jocko Podcast 5: John Willinck, 'Corrective Measures'

    Leadership is manipulating towards a positive outcome The best way to win is when your opponent does not even know you won and that there was even a battle Never undertake actions (in your team) that cannot be reversed If you are wrong, look forward to admitting it Do not flaunt your victories...
  34. aarav_

    NoFap with testostrone booster.... takes problematic behaviour at peak

    Dont know why but am feeling soo high today.. I talked to a girl today with whom I was having sexting before.. since then don't know why but am feeling so confident but since then am feeling tremendous amount of desire to f*ck hard and really hard... each and every girl pass by me.. while...
  35. D

    Jocko Podcast 14: Ernst Junger, 'Storm of Steel'

    The person that is killing you is you Go forward into the fray Attack your objectives with mind, body and soul You must always have an open mind When in times of great trauma and pain, detach War is hell - be grateful you have not experienced it Go to war to win If you cannot control something...
  36. D

    Jocko Podcast 18: Arkady Babchenko, 'One Soldiers' War'

    I hope you take away some wisdom from my latest notes from the Jocko Podcast by John 'Jocko' Willink and Echo Charles. I will reiterate that the credit for this wisdom goes to the creators of the podcast and persons discussed therein, and the content below is only the important and notable...
  37. P

    Hi, 16 y/o newbie here :)

    I wanted to stop masturbating for one sole reason: to stop getting erections so frequently. You see, I'm meeting my new girlfriend for the first time in about 3 months time, and I frequently get erections when texting her, and I would like to ask you guys if not masturbating would allow me to...
  38. changinguser

    Emotional Control

    Hi guys, this question popped into my head and I think it's important for many of us. I have noticed that some of my most powerful triggers are my emotions. Sadness kills my motivation, makes me feel meaningless and gives me an emergency exit. Anger makes me go closer to my demons and porn is...
  39. Animation Fan

    Discussion: What About Lucid Dreams?

    Alright, so a quick lesson; lucid dreams are when you become aware that your dreaming. You have total control over your dreamscape, situations, and people/objects in them. The sensations, even if you've never experienced them, are very realistic. Most people experience them a few times in their...
  40. 0

    Depression, failing university

    Hey, I am new here, never thought i would join this community. I've always found it ridiculous that people came together to stop doing something natural and relieving like masturbation Why would you want to stop doing that? Now I get it, when you can't control yourself, when it takes you over...
  41. Tt1000

    An effective tip against porn

    Hey folks, I'd like to share with you a very effective tip that has helped me stay away from porn for months now. Try installing k9 web filter on your pcs and while putting up a password for It, make sure to think up a random number then and there and write it down on a piece of paper and store...
  42. ac1909

    Need advice on controlling my anxiety

    Ok guys so i know people have clinically diagnosed anxiety and depression. I personally do not have these but i feel like i suffer from anxiety, and want to control it. I have this thing with peeling things, i love peeling stickers, grapes, basically anything that you can possibly people i love...
  43. C

    Control

    Hello I would like some insight from both male and females please. I have chosen to opt out of a relationship with my porn addicted partner. It’s not an easy decision to take and I suspect I am repressing some rather difficult emotions right now. Very brief background is that we were married and...
  44. W

    I just cant control my urges anymore

    I relapsed half an hour ago. I relapsed yesterday too. And on Saturday, and on Friday. I honestly don't even have the energy or motivation to write this post at the moment. Basically, my urges have become out of control. I don't mean they've got stronger, I mean I've just lost the ability to...
  45. Bowder

    I lost all control and I need advice

    A while ago I relapsed after a 134 days streak of no Porn. I realized it wasn't enough and since I've been trying to do the no PMO challenge to overcome my addiction. However, things aren't going very well. After so many tries and relapses I lost all will and motivation to try again, but...
  46. A

    UnControlled

    My name is Austin I'm 20 years of age and have been in a relationship for 2 years. I car avout this girl more than anything but being around other women I lose track of who I am all thoughts, all feeling, and all standards are gone. Sexual thought rapidly fill my head with every girl I see and...
  47. H

    BURDEN OF SUCCESS IS SO REAL, OFTEN LEADS TO FAILURE

    Hi, everyone I am a newbie to the concept of NoFap. My longest streak and that too at the first trial was 30 days(felt really proud about that). Since my relapse after the first trial, I have never been able to reach up to that mark, have read posts here also about relapse and motivation and...
  48. W

    18 days without p.... and over a 30 days seeing someone to have s..

    I haven't watched p... in a 18 days... And havent seen anyone to have s.. in 30 days, yeij!! I think everything that keeps you away from it its good... hobbies... people... outside... music.. But I still do think i need therapy... I dont feel like im in control... is there anyone who feels...
  49. Powerous

    Pornography used as control tool?

    What are your guys thoughts on Pornography being used as a control tool by the elite (so called powers that be, illuminati, freemasons, satanists, NWO, whatever you wanna call it) I came across some videos on youtube explaining how porn industry is being utilised to brainwash the masses...
  50. S

    Help.

    Hi Folks, It's my 10th day of No fapping. I've tried it before, didn't last more than 14-16 days. This time I've made a goal to go all the way to a month, but I'm having a lot of trouble in that. My sexual desire is out of control, I'm filled with energy with no output (No Sex. I'm single...
  51. WeShallNotFap

    THE BEST WAY TO BEAT PE

    TELL ME PLEASE, IM DESPERATE.
  52. jest

    "The secret to self control"

    So I was looking for some videos that would give some insight as to HOW TO actually have some self control and keep urges as well as negative thinking away. I've come across this one, it's rather interesting and I have to say that the technique he describes is stupid simple and I've been...
  53. Bowder

    Desperate for advice!

    I just made an account because I can't handle it anymore. Over the past year I kept trying to stop watching porn. A few times I achieved a month without it, but like a rubber band, the longer the streak, the harder the relapse. With every relapse the stuff I watched became worse and worse...
  54. S

    Reality: Achievable?

    Dear Fapstronauts, I got informed about this website after I read a blog written by one of us. It was about the success, peace and change within himself he encountered after taking this path. This platform, which connects like mindsets, will be helpful for me to know where I am. As of now, with...
  55. C

    Ready to quit

    I am a student and my frequency of mastrubation has reached to 3 times a day. This has been a major distraction because i always find myself watching porn and the urge to mastrubate is difficult to control. I am unable to concentrate on my work and I have found that my capability to learn and...
  56. Stiles Stilinski

    Hi there!

    Hi there. I'm Stiles (i don't wanna use my real name yet) and this my 5th day without fap. I stopped with the app No More!. It's really great and helpfull. I want to stop to gain a solid control of my life and my interaction with my friends.
  57. TheNewDawn106

    Porn has mutated me...

    So I really overstepped yesterday... I got so excited talking to someone that I invited him over. Thank god that he has work tomorrow otherwise I would really be in some deep shit right now. I can't take these urges anymore! I don't even want to look at porn right now, I just want to rewire...
  58. Rahul279

    Urge is getting high

    Hello everyone. I have started controlling my habit of jacking off every day after i felt pain in my lower back. Please help me out..
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