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  1. TheMathFolder

    My bittersweet experience using Tinder as a porn addict: a story

    Ana was a stunning piece of beauty. Long legs, curvy body, beautiful tanned skin — a Mexican goddess straight out of a telenovela. Next to her came my date Silvina. At around 5 feet and 5 inches, slightly chubby but still pretty, she embodied a more realistic South American stereotype. We all...
  2. D

    Dating app addiction

    I'm 27, and I've only had a handful of relationships throughout my life. Nothing very serious, but in the past 5 years or so I haven't dated anyone. Sure I've been on a few first dates, but they haven't gone anywhere. I have a tendency to get on dating apps every so often In hopes that I find...
  3. modernstore99

    I HAVE ADVICE on communicating virtually with women in the dating world

    Saw on another thread someone who wanted advice about not seeming needy, and thought I'd go through some tips and tricks I've used while communicating with women virtually. I understand the NEEEED for affection and connection during a reboot. This can make us act in ways that normally...
  4. J

    From Porn to Instagram, Badoo, Tinder, social dating apss FAP

    Can any of you relate to this modification - till my 20y I used porn to fap. In my 20-21y I discovered Tinder, Badoo as dating apps with the aim to date with girls. However, after my first sexting (girls sent me nudes and described how they want sex), it was for me even more attractive and...
  5. A

    Short problems of a 10 year addict

    Hello Dear Forum users, I'm 25 years old, been addicted to masturbation & internet porn for about 10 years. I was a virgin until I turned 25 recently. Never had a real girlfriend, long term relationship etc. Had tryings, kisses and dates here and there, but nothing serious. Last summer I...
  6. Aléxandros

    How do you find new girls to talk to and date?

    Except for quarantine, how did you find girls to have a relationship with? Did you use Tinder, did you cold approached girls on the street? I just can't find them anywhere and don't even know how to start. It was much easier in summer.
  7. Oliver Gunter

    Curing my Erectile Dysfunction (27yo)

    My whole life I've had relatively little contact to girls. One of the rare occasions, when I had a girl at home, was when I was 19. I can still remember the rock hard boner I had when we were just sitting next to each other, still dressed, and our legs were touching. It was even a little...
  8. InnerEngineerling

    34 y/o male newbie who'll transform into a deliberate Creator

    Hi all, I have been using porn since the past 18 years. I never saw really any harm in PMO and thought that it was something normal. In november 2019 I made the choice to 'transform' my life. For me this meant getting rid of alcohol and drugs addiction, dealing with my surprised feelings...
  9. R

    Online Dating Apps - Should I delete them?

    During no PMO, I am having a hard time to focus on the tasks at hand as I am still on a few dating apps and every now and then it'll pop up. I'll then keep on going back and forth on it even though, during this quarantine, these girls are not going to meet up (or at least not most of them will)...
  10. Paulie G.

    Do I sabotage myself?

    Hi guys, I didn't have too many experiences with women in the past, and so i always said to myself i would have to take every "opportunity" that i get in order to get more experienced. Because if I am unexperienced i'm unattractive to women and therefore i stay unexperienced, it's a stupid...
  11. P

    Real life vs Tinder

    Why does people prefer use Tinder than flirt on real life nowadays? You're showing to the others an unreal life, selecting your best pictures, your "happiness"... but the moment you meet, the other person can see if you're really like on your pics or not and viceversa. I bet for flirting on...
  12. B

    What about Sexting?

    Hi All, I am 30 and have been watching porn since I was probably 14 or 15. Specifically, I was always into fetish porn but restricted to some fetishes. During my university years from age of 19-23, i have been in relationships and have multiple one nights stands, however, I have always...
  13. T

    STAY AWAY FROM TINDER on Nofap

    Hello everyone, After a successful two-month period of hardmode, today my streak has come to an unfortunate end. It was due to my own stupidity and rationalisations that I fell. My main mistake probably was that I already forgot how miserable I felt when I was caught by the sexual addiction to...
  14. S

    Need a suggestion

    Is resorting to tinder to find people to talk to a positive step since i am on the hard route(a i am on my 12th day and have an urge to talk to women and i find it difficult to have conversations of other then work with the females around me?
  15. P

    Should I stay with him?. UPDATE 6/26/19

    so I’m 23 and my boyfriend is almost 24. We’ve been together for almost a year and I initially thought he was amazing but he started criticizing my appearance even though I’m fairly attractive, comparing my body to other women he’s slept with/ seen even though he knows I have an eating disorder...
  16. 1978

    My Bold (Daft?) Experiment with Tinder and Bumble

    I've been using Tinder on and off for nearly a year, and Bumble for a few months. I've had some dates through Tinder, but none through Bumble yet (but I have had matches and messages). One thing I've realised, though, is that the longer you are on these apps, the fewer matches you get. It seems...
  17. 1978

    There are a lot of beautiful women on Tinder

    When I swipe on Tinder, I see a lot of beautiful women. Some of them look perfect, actually. Some of them I think, "Wow, if I had her then that would be amazing! I would lick stuff off her body and everything..." But most of them are out of my league. And it makes it difficult. It makes the...
  18. 1978

    Women On Dating Sites Who Just Want To Be Friends

    I see a lot of women on dating sites who say they are looking for friends. Some only want to be friends, whereas others are looking for a long-term romantic relationship but want to start as just friends. Now, I have no problem with just being friends with the opposite gender. It's fine if...
  19. T

    Is Tinder bad?

    Do you think swiping on Tinder and going on dates is bad? I like going on a dates because it can be a challenging experience and obviously can get the poonani. I don't feel at risk of relapsing when briefly swiping on Tinder but the whole idea of tinder is pretty shit, instantly judging someone...
  20. D

    Dating Apps: The Uncomfortable Truth

    No matter the rationalisations used, the unavoidable conclusion is drawn that dating apps in all their variety and variation are crutches to one degree or another. Tinder, Bumble, POF… they all are designed purposely to hook us in, keep us coming back and turn wondrous human beings into...
  21. D

    STOP OVERTHINKING, FIND YOUR OWN WAY & FREE YOURSELF

    *READ THIS IF YOU'RE OVERTHINKING Hello everyone, I hope you're all doing well! I'll quickly introduce myself and then throw my opinion on NoFap into the mix. I've been aware of this community for years now, and have found it to be (mostly) a well intentioned place. I'm 23 years old, and...
  22. G

    Back to the Basics

    I've been on here for a couple weeks now. I've read some of your posts and sent some feedback... but, I haven't made myself sit down and introduce myself until now. Call me crazy, but I just hate admitting that I need help. I enjoy solving issues myself and working through things logically...
  23. D

    Tinder trouble...

    Hello everyone! So I've been on tinder for about 2 weeks now, I used it during the summer and got nowhere and gave up after 0 matches. Now on my second attempt I've got around 6 but here's the problem, I'll text them with a question or something about them that isn't bad and I don't get any...
  24. Hitto

    Dating apps

    Hey guys I need your help I'm debating going back on tinder for the past two weekends I went back on it but I felt really shallow for using and got almost a similar rush when I use to watch porn but not as intense lol I'm going on 180 days and before that was off of it for like 3 months. I wanna...
  25. R

    Dating Apps

    Should I consider deleting dating apps for a while? Even when I am browsing through the photos, I get strong urges. I am on day 7 and don't really want to relapse.
  26. bbbiiiiiiiiiiigggggggggg

    Addicted to dating sites/chatting?

    Hey guys, I'm new here but not new to nofap. So I realized today that I get totally addicted to chatting with girls online with with the intention of getting to casual sex. What's weird is, on the occasions where we do actually agree to get together, I immediately lose interest. My high comes...
  27. N

    Cybersex Addiction - will I ever recover?

    Hi - this is my first ever post on here so I apologise if I am going over familiar ground for you all but I desperately need some advice. I am due to get married to be stunning (honestly) gf in a few months and I couldn't love her more. Only problem is that over the last year or so I have...
  28. YourShiningVeganHero

    2017 is YOUR YEAR. Go claim it! NEW resolution and Motivational Story

    I have been trying to quit for many years but never did it in hard mode. . I had very good streaks.. 60 days + . But eventually i would start edging again or bullshit myself into how i made it and am now healed and free todo whatever i want. Im strongly opposed to masturbation i general now. as...
  29. SuperLulox

    Any thoughts on tinder?

    Im on day 10 of my reboot, and i downloaded tinder today, as i want to meet girls and possibly start having sex. But as i swiped left and right i realized that looking at all those pics, many of them really suggestive, might not help at all with my reboot. So what do you guys think? Yay or nay
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