431 days no PMO, semen retention while having sex

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  1. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    Current streak: 431 days no PMO, semen retention

    If you want I explain this in a more simple manner on this other thread:

    https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?t...men-retention-this-is-why-porn-is-bad.313145/

    I’ve been sexually active while doing this streak. I only stopped for like 4-5 months because I was single. Right now I’m sexually active with a beautiful 20 year old blond since 1 month ago.

    I always practiced non ejaculatory sex and saw sex as a form of meditation; I simply focused on feeling the energy moving through our bodies, in recharching myself and in giving the girl an orgasm. It wasn’t until my last girlfriend I began to enjoy sex in a more basic sensual way and forget a bit the meditation aspect of sex I used to do.

    The same happened with this blond as well. But I wasn’t feeling as strong as when I used to forget the girls beauty and the pleasure of sex and simply doing sex as a meditation. Also my erection wasn’t as lasting as before even do I was abstinent for almost 4 months. I mean I could last more than 4hrs having sex only having short breaks mostly to let the girl rest or to eat something. Now I was losing erection after an hour or two hours straight which is not normal to me and I was feeling a bit tired after sex, which never happens to me, I used to feel 200% after meditation sex.

    I discussed this with my father who has done non ejaculatory sex all his life and he told me something which changed me forever “I have never enjoyed a woman” meaning he always saw sex as a form of meditation.

    I remember after the first sex sessions with this girl I end up tired and she full of energy. So the last time we had sex the words of my father stuck in my brain. We had sex and I completely forgot about her beauty I only focused on the energy, the meditation and in giving her an orgasm. I felt some energy blockages in my body starting to disappear, also a more refined form of enjoyment like the one you get when you are in a deep meditation state.

    This time I had an erection for more than 2 hours nonstop. I wanted to do it more but the girl was tired and she is just getting used to have sex so I stopped. At the end of the session she was a bit tired and told me “I stole her collagen” I was full of energy.

    My performance was also better, I made more poses, I was more spontaneous, playful, I lasted longer doing a more hard and fast penetration, I connected easier to her orgasm.

    Conclusion: the best type of sex is meditation sex; forget about your orgasm and sensual enjoyment, the girl’s beauty. This way sex becomes spiritual, you become more high vibration and energetically recharged.

    P.S: If you are going to try meditation sex. I advise you to better don’t tell the girl what you are doing she may think you are not enjoy it or you don’t love her. Also explain to her you do non ejaculatory sex because of health and energy storage but you in deed enjoy it, you just enjoy it differently.
     
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  2. Buddhism Is True

    Buddhism Is True Fapstronaut

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    Where did you meet her? Where do you meet women generally?
     
  3. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    I met her In a dating app

    I meet women in dating apps, Instagram, gym, work, the streets whenever I see the chance on the internet or real life
     
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  4. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    But right now I'm out of the game, I'm staying with this girl. I'm a loyal dude
     
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  5. Agree to disagree, but I find this pretty pathetic.
    It's okay for us to have different opinions and experiences. Right?

    -J29
     
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  6. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    Pretty pathetic, damn. And why is that J29
     
  7. It's hard to explain, but let's phrase it this way. You are transforming and viewing Picasso and Van Gogh into mathematical figures like circles and triangles and shit. It loses it's essence altogether.

    -J29
     
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  8. modern milarepa

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    I think I know what you mean. I always try to have sex without thinking anything while doing it. In meditation you really don't analyze anything, it's not an artificial activity. That is the all point of this type of sex, to go beyond conceptual mind in which appearances, concepts of beauty and attachement to feelings and sensations doesn't take place. For me in terms of feelings and sensations is way better and lasting than regular sex, also I end up more energetic after doing it and I find it more interesting and entertaining I can do it for hours, sometime s for days Non stop, only to eat something, sleep and short rests.

    You know this type of sex was created by long time meditators who wanted to live long lifes and increase their life spam using their sexual energy. Sex is a powerful tool.

    If you see sex from the merely sensual enjoyment and emotional realm of love then I guess there is nothing to talk about.

    It's just my taste, If that makes me pathetic I guess I'm the most pathetic guy in the world.
     
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  9. Well, I didn't say you were pathetic.

    As for what I think, it's irrelevant. As always, the answer lies somewhere in the middle. To ignore the sensual and pleasurable side of sex is as much a folly as to only see the spiritual side of it. Yin and yang. Etc. Etc.

    -J29
     
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  10. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    By the way why do you always sign your posts with @J29? What is that, a type of plane?
     
  11. Something's wrong about this. Sex for days. Sounds like gluttony to me. If not for sensual things, then for spiritual things. It's just not natural.
    -J29
     
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  12. Yes. Saab 29 Tunnan is the second Swedish jet fighter.
    Why do I sign it? Good question. I started doing it on another forums because an old user used to do it, and these guys were making fun of him, calling him Boomer and all that crap, so I started doing it just to prove a point. Now it's kinda habit. :)
    P.S. I just realised I have been posting off-topic to the purpose of the success stories forum, so I guess I'll stop now.

    -J29
     
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  13. modern milarepa

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    Well, there was one time I went a bit on the excessive side for like 7 months. You are right. But I've learned to don't over do it to that extend, my point in the phrase is that I was able to have erections for long time with ease and now I was having some trouble after two hours.

    Even do in taoist and tantric practices sex sessions can last several hours. When I do it now this way I usually stop having sex for several days. It's different from regular sex if you do it right is not about so much about sensual enjoyment or compulsiveness. But sex is a risky thing if you are not careful you can go to hedonism and addictive behaviors.

    Sex always requires recalibration, so you don't go to a wrong path like excess, fetishes...
     
  14. modern milarepa

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    Well, it's quite unique. But it kind of sounds you are talking about yourself in third person. Usually only people full of themselves with high egos talk about themselves in third person. We already know is you.

    Maybe is not the intent behind it and you just explained it but if someone does not know the intention behind it and just see your posts, he may think you are a bit arrogant.
     
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  15. modern milarepa

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    But now that I see it, you are not arrogant and you are quite clever and the signature does not come out as rude or pretentious so I think you can pull it off. It's dangerous waters but I think it gives a unique creative way to finish your posts.
     
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  16. Well, it's their fault for being presumptuous. It doesn't bother me.
    Thank you, I appreciate your opinion and I do agree it can be like that, but then again, it'll teach people not to judge a book by it's cover and stuff like that. :)

    -J29
     
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  17. Buddhism Is True

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    The apps make me incredibly unhappy. I am glad you are meeting with success.
     
  18. becomingreat

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    I really like the idea but im skeptical im able to do it when I find a partner. I mean guys here, including me, suffer from pe, some cum in seconds. Do you think the ability to keep going with sex comes with practice or its a natural gift? That's because I can say you definitely have a very healthy, strong body. Not everyone is like you!

    btw I've read your another article on how to actually do this. So the key is not focusing on partner's beauty, keeping the room dark and taking it slow? tell me if I'm missing something
     
  19. modern milarepa

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    Not really, as I said before you need to focus also on the girls orgasm unlike men, orgasm is very healthy to women it releases a lot of stress, emotional problems and it's good for their health.

    I made this thread about how to be a great lover

    https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/the-secret-to-be-a-great-lover.309758/


    You don't need to do meditation sex to be a good lover you can even ejaculate and be a great lover. It's more a matter of technique, stamina, experience, being a little wild and uninhibited.

    To make a girl have an orgasm it's the same as you were doing regular sex or meditation sex. What changes is mostly your perception your energetic and mental state.

    But still you need to go specially hard and fast in several ocassions during sex and being able to continue if the girl is very excited without ejaculation until she reaches orgasm. It's not that hard, most men or many can make girls have an orgasm and be great lovers.

    Meditation sex is more about cultivating energy but it's not like you are repeating mantras or prayers out loud during sex.

    That is why I say you need to pretend you are doing regular sex, you can freak the girl out. She doesn't notice you are doing something different she is mostly focus in her pleasure and that is as it has to be.

    Don't think tantric or non ejaculatory sex is some type of slow qi gong tai chi type of thing with lights off and slow music.

    Sex requires technique and pleasing the girl

    The tao of health, sex and longevity by Daniel Reid explains in more detail how to be a great lover.

    I like to have sex with the lights on
     
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  20. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    That is the problem of being a virgin and thinking about sex you create some weird ideas about it is. It's better to simply focus in celibacy if you are not having sex, if you are a great celibate you'll be a great lover when the time comes.
     
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