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Edging.

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by nadox, Jul 13, 2017.

  1. nadox

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    Hey guys, I'm doing really good after my initial relapse on day 2. So far I've gone 7 days no PMO. However I have been edging to pictures (portraits) of this super hot girl, and other fantasies. Anyways, I wanted to know more about edging so I YOUTUBEd it, and low an behold there's a few videos on it.
    Please post comments on tips and shit that helped you guys overcome edging? I fear I may lose it pretty soon.

    Check this one out.
     
  2. Zapster21

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    For me edging is the same as masturbating. Don't do it. It will still release the dopamine chemicals in your brain.
     
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  5. ominous1

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    I used to edge and fool myself by no O and continue on my "streak". You will get nowhere edging man I promise.
     
  6. Yep. Same, with my old, supposed 78 day streak. In reality, I can barely make it a week. My first, real streak was for about 14 days.

    But, yeah, no edging. I immedietly lost my NoFap Powers from that.
     
  7. nadox

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    Lost it. I didn't edge, with my hands at lest. I let the thoughts grab me and I O'd in the shower to the water streaming on me. Resetting counter, no edegjng and going to make a conscious effort to focus on other things, not her, not fantasys.

    Thanks for the tips guys, wish I'd logged in earlier today.
     
  8. LEPAGE

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    Trying not to fantasize seems to be the hardest thing. Once that starts, it leads to edging, which given enough time leads to O. I think cutting the fantasies is the key, but getting there is a trick I've yet to learn.
     
  9. djmotion

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    I edge for male enhancement purposes whilst doing NoFap but I stay around 70-80% arousal level so I don't let myself get too close or I'll end up ejaculating and I certainly don't use images or porn for it cause that is definitely a relapse. You want to avoid visual stimuli and aim to focus on sensation or imagination. When I say imagination I'm talking about imagining real life situations or past sexual encounters in your mind and not thinking about porn or unrealistic sexual encounters. If you don't have the willpower to prevent ejaculation whilst edging and if you know it will lead to images and eventually porn then it's best to stay away from edging.
     
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  10. nadox

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    Thanks guys. I'm just going to stay away from edging altogether. It just takes my mind to places I shouldn't be going.

    And edgingnis master bating, just no "O" so it's a reset on all fronts.
     
  11. I remember right I edged a lot in my streaks before. Thought it wouldn't matter but my brain being filled with chemicals just didn't feel right. Edging is worse than Masturbation.
     
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  12. QUAH162

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    Wouldn't say it's as bad as masturbation but you shouldn't be doing it. Trust me you will slip over the edge eventually if you continue to do it.
     
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  15. Cafax Xafac

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    SO THAT THEY WOULD BE MORE COMMITTED THAN THEY WERE BEFORE. AND SEE, IM NOT COMPELLING THEM TO DO SO, IF THEY WANT THEY WILL AND IF THEY DON'T THEY WON'T DO IT, PLEASE IM JUST TRYNA HELP.
     
  16. djmotion

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    People should try to become committed before fapping rather than relapse. Give motivational advice and help people stay committed rather than telling people to fap and then quit again.
     
  17. As many others have said Edging = Relapse.

    The reason is because edging is actually worse in some cases. You view image after image (sometimes pushing yourself just to the point of orgasm and then backing off), waiting for the "perfect" image that never comes. During this process your brain continues to release massive amounts of dopamine, further driving the addiction and craving.

    Don't edge man... just don't do it.
     
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  19. Cafax Xafac

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    come on man, I m telling him to do so because of my repeated failures. Its my experience on this journey that oozes out of those words. And still the name of group is Day 0. Thus people would find many others who are on the same day as they are. Don't judge man.
    https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/whos-on-day-0-just-relapsed.116692/page-3#post-955252
     

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