Exactly, she wasn't attracted physically but the energy he emits. I find this really interesting because I honestly cannot fathom that if I manage to get girls to approach me all the time even though I might have fapped the day before 5 times, imagine having a powerful aura about you. I'm really excited for my NoFap journey.
i actually dont know how to ask a someone out on a date, do you just casually ask if they want to go out or , if they wanna see a movie,theres a coworker i just cant keep my mind off, she been working with us for a year i think an im still figuring out how to talk to her, i think i figured it out a little i dont know, i want to ask her out so bad but i dont know, no compredi
This is the complete opposite of this thread. There are so many ways to ask someone out. I think the key is not to overthink it (which is difficult when you really like someone). You could either read “The Game” and try using one of the old charming tactics in there. Or just start talking to her and find out what she likes. If in conversation she mentions that she likes mini golf for example, you could ask her if she wants to play you at golf? Then set a date/time etc. Good luck
Thank you... After our midnight rendezvous (where we went for a walk and had a night cap), we went our separate ways. Then we tried to meet up within the next couple of days but it didn’t happen. So we’re staying in touch and she might return in March. Either way, I appreciate it for what it was- even if nothing further comes of it.
Thanks for reminding me how to spell aura! (He quickly edits his post). I mostly credit NoFap for this event. But there are also other techniques I try and practise to keep myself cool and calm. Don’t solely rely on NoFap alone, other things can help with the art of self-control.
#inspiration -- Thanks for sharing. We all want that aura, that mist. Stories like this help keep me going!
Congratulations! I think when we stop PM then there could be some change in the energy in our bodies and minds which make people get attracted to us - just a hypothesis.
Dude I have no idea if thats true or not....but its a awesome fucking story, man! I appreciate it!!! I wanna read it again and again! I loved it! I even saved in in a word document! Thanks for posting it, man!
Definitely. It’s beyond a hypothesis. Habit patterns exist in the subconscious and urges are embeded in your body. Hence you can pick up your addictions (comfort foods, phones, cigarettes etc.) without even realising sometimes. Change your habits; change your mind/body.
Wow dude, I’m flattered. I’m glad it helped and I can assure you it’s 100% true. I was tempted to take a picture of the note but then I thought that’d be unclassy. Some moments in life are best kept for yourself to enjoy. Our lives are already too public with social media etc.
Even i have many doubts about this whole aura atraction concept, its interesting to read and im happy for you. Thx for sharing
dude....I re-read it again today. There must be some habits that you do which have caused you to be confident... what were you doing regularly in the last 3-4 months...if you don't mind me asking??? Because what you have now, that's real shit, man!!! Thats supposed to be the default behavior of every man here, strong, confident and free from addictions!!!