friendship

There's a whole forum on this site dedicated to rebooters in relationships and another one about dating during a reboot. But porn also kills other relationships. It certainly killed so many of mine. I'm a 20 y/o guy currently in college and boy am I lonely. There are many people I really admire...

Lately I have been neglecting my friendships due to my excessive fapping. Just two days ago, during a long edging session, my phone was abuzz with messages from two friends that needed me for help with stuff like emotional support. I did not check my phone for several hours after that. I did...

Hi guys I am new here and I want to quit this addiction, I hope you'll u derstand my problem and if we want to really quit this deadly addicition, we need to work together and by working together we can conqueror this so drop your insta, fscebook or any other social accounts so we can stay in touch!

I think is a bad idea. One of the two always wants to come back. There is a reason for the break up. Also let's say there is no money, kids or common ownership of any kind so you are not forced to be friends. Also this take us back to the thread about if two straight people from the opposite...

(This is my first day here). I'm on my 6th or 7th day without porn and about an hour or 2 w/out masturbating but excluding porn, masturbating was one way of relieving depressing. Luckily I'm not as addicted as I once was yet I have a short story as to why I'm addicted. Feb of 2018 I was cheated...

It started the time puberty started, he had no idea being a narcissist kind of eccentric or a bacchanal, also an attention seeker, walks away the time he meets a higher reputed person than you. Feel free to share your stories, and how you procured happiness after leaving him/her?

After abusing porn and sexting from age 13 to 19 I finally decided to get serious about recovery after suffering from PIED for a year and ignoring it and sinking deeper into sexting and porn addiction. The last few weeks have been weird for me. I feel like I don't even exist. I feel like I'm...

Last February, I got a new job and the store manager quickly became my friend. We went out to the casino a few times. Talked about going hunting. We hung out at bars a few times. One night, I showed him my music and he was blown away. He was 100% in for the cause of getting somewhere and even...

We used to hang out every weekend last year for events such as a convention. I remembered we all come to an agreement that we rather hang out than just sitting at home playing video games. Now, we hardly hang out; they changed. They spend their day playing video games that is not my type till...

This is a classic question, of course, but the answer is unclear to me. I've been hung up on this woman for a while now and I want to decide whether I should risk asking her out or whether I should just move on. I've decided that I want to date during my reboot, so my choices seem to be to...

Hi everyone, hope everyone is doing well. I am currently over a month on this streak. I don’t keep track of the days, I noticed I sort of naturally forgot what day I’m on and I don’t ever really think of whatever day I’m on because truthfully, it doesn’t matter. I would say the past month and...

Hello everyone! I am an 18-year-old Indian male. I am presently studying at one of the elite engineering colleges in my country. I have changed for worse through all of the time that I have been into it. I have not been performing well at various spheres of life which I could have performed...

Hello everyone! I am an 18 years-old Indian. I am an engineering student from one of the elite institutes of my country. I have come back to this platform after nearly two years. Last time I wasn't much ready to leave pornography, masturbation, and orgasm. However, I believe, that this time I...

I'll post here a quick story and giving you my opinion about todays friendships and I hope you can contribute with your opinion too. This week I was talking to a woman she knows me since I was a kid and we're friends. Probably 34yo and already married with two kids. She was the best friend of...

So i have this person who’s been my friend for a few months and we got semi close. She told me that she doesn’t like being called names and so I told her to tell me if I hurt her feelings because words like “lame” are part of my vocabulary and I joke around with my friends a lot. I can only...

Hey everyone. I tried to read the rules and this situation is kind of hard to pinpoint in a specific topic, so hopefully I did not break any rules. Just a bit of backstory. I watched this video about nofap. I wanted to nofap for about a month, and usually I do not masturbate that much, because I...

Hey guys. As the title says, I was being stupid and sent a screenshot of my name om urban dictionary to a couple of my friends who are girls. Ive attsched a screenshot of it to here. Anyway, I thought it would be funny, but it says stuff about me being a nice and caring boyfriend, making friends...

Rules for this thread: 1. Post when you have just relapsed or in panic mode. 2. Don't trigger any other members with the details 3. Let this be about emotions rather than scientific 4. This is a thread for support 5. Don't forget to follow this thread so you don't lose it.

To celebrate passing 90 days no pmo I want to share a revolutionary idea that explains why the PMO loop is so self-perpetuating and where the exit is. Quick Ted Talk with transcript underneath if you prefer to read...

Good afternoon, Fapstronauts. This is not my first time here. I've tried and failed many times to stop looking at porn. Today I watched a cam girl get naked for me and masturbated. I did it yesterday as well. I am not happy with any of this. I feel tired and upset the majority of the time. I'm...

ONE of my self-improvements, is looking at spending more time with people that make a positive influence on me. Those that inspire (and can also help me) on making me a person. Motivated and more focused on self-improvements, reaching and achieving goals I’ve set myself to do. I’m lucky and...

It is so hard to continue with NoFap when I am constantly going through bouts of feeling lonely. I am also finding it hard to cope with my friendships with my bros in terms of feeling a gushing sense of egotistical anxiety and jealousy when I see them getting into relationships with beautiful...

What are your thoughts on being friends with girls? Can males and females be good friends? I've heard people say a great way to stop viewing women as sex objects is to become friends with them. I use to have a few female friends but have lost touch with them. What would you say is the best way...

Hi guys, the past few days I havent even been focussing on NoFap because of things happening IRL. I'm going to try my best to explain the situation and would appreciate help from anyone with any experience or insight into this kind of thing. Anyway, here we go. I'm starting to think that my...

Hello fapstronauts, my name is Ali! Well lets just get to the point right? So I am new to this website, this community, and I really hope its not a downer since I have tried to cure my illness of pornography and masturbation for over 3 years. I.... i am destroyed, both mentally and physically...

Update: I read another thread in this forum where one user said vents should be saved for journals if you want commiseration rather than advice. I agree. Will follow through next time. Apologies. The thought of writing this was making me sad but now I feel better. Don't hold this stuff in...

I've lived with this decade old, personal addiction for a very long time now. Too long. I'm 23 this year.. I want to go out and see the world some more instead of being cooped up in my head and in my fantasy world. Benefits I'm mostly looking forward to on my NoFap journey would be: -...

Hello everyone,I am very thankful to be a part of this,thank you for welcoming me. I've been using porn since puberty.I didn't finish school, currently jobless.I live in my parent's house. I spent my time quiet haven't talk to anyone for almost 3 years,it's a rock bottom until this January my...

I am having a really hard time with something. Before I quit fapping 9 days ago, I made plans with my friends and invited them to my house today to smoke weed with me. I only smoke every couple weeks, and always at my house with friends. I don't get horny at all in the slightest when I smoke...

hi !!! my very first post here ... today was a great day cuz it is my very first day NoFap .. it was a day with some urges but it didn't affect me and guys just have a question: how can i get likes ,friends here in the forumes ??!!

I am convinced that this is why this forum and hanging out with friends keeps me clean.