help appreciated

  1. J

    25 yr / New and Hopeful

    Alright everyone, Im 25 and living in NYC. I've hit the struggle bus recently when I realized I have been doing absolutely nothing towards my Porn addiction. I realized yesterday when I told myself the night before I would make use of my day off and be productive. Guess who stayed in bed till...
  2. jest

    In need of expert advice

    My posts are always long and there's tons of information here, apologies, but it's my situation and I could use some help from people in a similar one. I went for 115 days no PMO last year and I got out of the P cycle, I've also taken out videogames (41 days free), violent/horror tv shows and...
  3. R

    Does this usually happen during a reboot

    Hi guys. I just started me reboot to finally kick this nasty habit. My question is since I started my reboot I feel as if im am checking out girls/women even more than before. I understand it is normal to look at people we find attractive but I feel as if I am staring at literally EVERY SINGLE...
  4. D

    new to NoFap. help with the process

    hi people i have been looking to join this forum for a while now but for reasons of shame and guilt i didnt bother. I guess Im in a place now where i have to put my health and well being above all that. I felt like i needed to share with y'all some of the things i have been holding inside for a...
  5. ManifestDestiny

    Intro

    I’m joining NoFap today because I just PMO’d to gay porn. I felt like I was going to puke afterwords. I’ve been watching porn since I was 13 I’m now 23, and I was addicted as early as high school. A cycle of increased “taboo-ness” marked my descent into porn addiction. After “regular” scenes...
  6. readyforchange7

    Now is the time

    Hi Everyone, This is I guess my introduction? I'm stuck. I don't know what to do. I want to quit and have a goal to quit but never follow through with it. I am stuck. I am addicted to pornography and masturbation. I have been addicted since i have been 14, i am now 23. I know it is taboo for a...
  7. K

    I want to change

    I used to watch porn and fap kinda everyday about 6 months ago i discovered nofap. I quit watching porn, hit the gym and went to different places but i am having trouble with the mentality of fap again.I am confused sometimes internet says its Okay to fap peacefully and i fap then i regret it.I...
  8. WarDaddy

    Need to join, glad to be here.

    Well, ive been very interested in the NoFap for a while now. Ive also researched information on yourbrainonporn. i totally agree with the nofap movment. I used to watch porn when i was bored, angry, excited, horny. Basically any occasion. I decided to try nofap. I downloaded a...
  9. R

    Not as attracted to my partner since nofap...

    Hello everyone. This is only my 2nd post in this community so i'm still new. Around 2 months ago I started to realize porn was having a negative impact on my life. So I decided to quit. Since than I have relapsed so many times but now, I feel much more confident in being able to stay on nofap...
  10. Meisterkatze

    Looking for someone to listen to...

    Greetings to you fellow knights and ladies! Here I am back again, not so much for my abstinence, but for the fact that I'm motivated to help! Meisterkatze is my name. :) And it's my will and desire to make people happy. I'm 28 and male, and I try to be absolutely free of value judgement, well...
  11. C

    Is happy ending massage parlor relapse?

    My streak ended at 31 days. Is going to a massage parlor with happy ending breaking the streak? How can I power through this? I was feeling great, I started talking to people more wasn’t as socially anxious. It was a huge step forward but I want a breakthrough from this I really want my life to...
  12. L

    My relationship story as of right now

    So since the age of 10 I have liked this girl for 7 years (I’m 17) the first time I asked her out I was 10 and got rejected with one long paragraph and this was my first rejection ever. (which impacts the tension between me and her for the rest of the story) (Middle school) Couple years go by...
  13. Mindful wolf

    Alternative do you have?

    Without going outside, when u are alone in room n the urge come n u can't stop it ...what's best possible solutions u have to sublimate the urge? Would like to hear by all.
  14. Mindful wolf

    Is it possible?

    hello all, I m a chronic addict to porn n a fapper as well to porn, I stay alone in my room I m at job, I don't jerk 5 days of the week but as soon as Sat n Sunday my weekends arrive I jerk near about 6 times in those two days. Is there any trick u can do to change ur mind when u r alone in ur...
  15. M

    HELP ME PLZ I'M ABOUT TO LOSE IT ALL

    Hi guys I need help asap! I am on nofap for the 3rd time as I failed the last 2 and now I've started it again, 3 or 4 days ago i honestly can't remeber because it feels like an eternity and I just feel like faping!! It's very hard to me I just want to do it! I need help to get motivated to...
  16. I

    I seriously need help

    Ok guys as you already know i need help lots of it be it advices motivation posts anything is appreciated cause i really dont know what to do Boring background (it may help you in recommending me something): I ve been ttying to stop for over a year now didnt know about NoFap untill 3 months...
  17. M

    Help me

    Ok so I’m having withdrawals right now I feel sick my body feels weak I have no energy/motivation to do anything just living is hard right now. Also I have this weird pain/soreness in my balls. This is my first time doing NoFap still on my first week and I flatlined and I’m having withdrawals...
  18. S

    Can I really do this?

    Hi, I'm 40 years old and after a serious binge last week I'm now at day 4 of abstinence from MO and PMO. I really want to do this. I've set myself an ambitious target of 90 days as I figured that is a long enough period of time to truly reap the benefits and readjust my brain. The reasons for...
  19. yugowolf1991

    Question about internet blockers

    Hi there ive been trying to reboot with the help of nofap since around march its been up and down and to be honest I don't need a blocker to block porn (although it wouldnt hurt) but my question is can these blockers or however you would refer to them block escort sites as that is the biggest...
  20. Ineedhelpbadly

    New member! & I really want to change.

    I really want to change I have been struggling for a really long time now and it has destroyed my life I just can't be happy and I'm depressed and I just want to be the best me that I can possibly be any time that I've gotten with a girl these past three years I've been very disappointed and...
  21. Mr. Kaplan

    Trigger warning

    Tl:dr - existential crisis of if I am gay or straight or bi or none just dead inside. I was on day five and wanted to know what I'm attracted to - straight p or gay p. I spent a short while on Google but nothing... My dick was limp! So I grabbed it and started stroking and stroking after a...
  22. G

    Introduction - G

    Hi there, I'm trying something new. Maybe having an online support community will help me. I've been addicted to PMO since I was in middle school. P first, M and O a bit later. It all got out of control fast, and I've never felt like I had any control to say no. It just felt too good and I...
  23. M

    What if one doesn't have symptoms

    Hear me out, I've been scouring the forums and almost everyone has felt the same symptoms from porn consumption like social anxiety, depression, tired/wasted energy (mental symptoms) etc. For me the only thing I would consider myself suffering from is Erectile Dysfunction (physical symptom)...
  24. Kai101

    Is porn addiction linked to childhood trauma?

    For the past 2 weeks, I have tried and failed to stop watching porn. I've been masturbating excessively to where I have pain. I cant seem to fight the urges to watch porn. It is ruining my self esteem and my life. I need advice on how to overcome urges, what you did to stop watching porn, and...
  25. C

    Is edging without porn bad?

    So, I've reticently started NoFap because i herd it lowers anxiety (and so far it has.) I've been masturbating since i was 9 so i rely some what on photography so here's my question can i jack off without ejaculation for short periods of time? (Without porn) Another little thing to consider is...
  26. PureProphecy

    Can’t O with BF unless I think of P.

    So it’s been a little over a year since I started my journey on here and I’m now realizing I still have work to do sadly. I have been in a relationship with an amazing guy since January. I have been honest with him about my past addiction to PMO and he has been nothing short of understanding. I...
  27. grapey011

    I'm starting to fap frequently now.. Help appreciated

    If preferred, you can just read the first and last paragraph :> I would usually just do it once or twice a week at most, but that has not been the case in recent weeks. I fap about 2-4 times a day since last week some time and it really is taking time from my life. I didn't just want to write...
  28. StillAWarrior

    Transexual Addiction PIED and HOCD

    Porn Addiction and Extreme porn recovery Hello im George SORRY FOR MY BAD WRITING, I had very much the same issues that i read all over the net but i needed to tell my story, long story sort I have been viewing Pornography from 10yr old, at stard just images then movies, i was surely low key...
  29. S

    12 hours in and allready struggeling

    so after struggeling with fatuige and a cloudy head for about 1,5 years. I stumbled upon nofap yesterday night. I decided to take a last fap and start my journy right away. I am now 12 hours in and allready feeling urges to fap. Any tips? Been fapping activley since i was 8 years old btw. Now im 19
  30. T

    Need all you members help and guidance!

    Alright I'm a 26 year old guy, been fapping for the past 12 years and its gotten to point where I fap 3 to 4 times day recently. I lift weights and have a generally healthy body but off late I just could not get it up with a girl (my first real sex). She was a sport we laughed it off but...
  31. D

    Frnds need your opinion about my situation !! Plz help

    Had already created a thread but wanted to have more opinions on this. !! So posting again. Hello everyone. I am 30 years old virgin. I have always been somewhat between introvert and extrovert. But mostly not very upfront with girls. Not much in there contact. Even college. Just as per the...
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